I went on a date, he’s interested but we didn’t flirt at all. how do I express attraction or see if he finds me attractive?

[Anonymous]

I just went on a date and for reference - we did clarify a few times it was a DATE not hanging out. We didn’t kiss or hug but we also didn’t express attraction so I’m kind of confused. He told me he had/was having a great time while we were in person. He texted me again when we were home that he had a good time and we set up another date. I am obviously attracted to him but I haven’t said anything. I’m not trying to rush anything intimate and he doesn’t seem to want to either and that’s great but I still feel like maybe we should be flirting a bit more. I have sent him pictures of me where he could’ve complimented me, he could’ve also complimented me in person. But it’s the same for me. Im wondering if he’s waiting for me to say something first. I don’t know if it’s up to me to say something first but if it is- What should I say? Im thinking of saying something along the lines of I was nervous because he was so cute, compliment his smile, etc. Plus this is over text so it could be easier. I’m just not sure what to do!

[teamvic]

Well if he's telling you be had a great time and setting up dates most likely he's attracted to you

As far as what you should do. If you plan on saying something first. Complimenting him is a great way or calling him cute is too. I agree he should probably be saying something when you're sending pictures, but not every guy is good at taking hints compared to others.

Perhaps he's not much of a Complimenting type.

Also what if he's too nervous to make the first move what will you do my fren?🤔🤔 that could be the case.

[laly520]

dont overthing lot

give it some time n see how it will go

[slatyb]

Just ask him.

[WhitneySnow]

He’s shy