Does this guy like me or is he playing?

[Anonymous]

So i know this guy through a mutual friend. We've seen each other occasionally. Recently we have each other on snap. One time he send me a picture of his cat, but in the mirror i could see him in only a towel on his hips from head to toe almost. And he send me an outfit check and he was looking pretty good. I only said something back about his cat and he kinda ignored me after that and didn't send me any snaps. When we went out with a group (my friend invited me with her friends). At an after party he asked me out of nowhere if i had a boyfriend. I said no and our mutual friend heared that and was like "yea ugh.. guys". Some time later on snap he thought i went to a party cause i posted an video of an old party. And he was like "you never invite me" so i invited him and our mutual friend to a party. She went to a different party so we ended up going together. He was already at the party and i arrived later. We met some friends of his there by accident and hanged out with them at the party. Even when we were dancing, someone of the group was dancing between me and him and i dont know what he said to the guy. He whispered something and they switched places so he was now dancing next to me. But when we were standing outside and a random girl asked him if i was his girlfriend he responed with a strong no kinda laughed. He was like NOoo and shaking his head. When we were outside it was cold. And he opened his coat so i could hide inside and even wanted me to sit on his lap a couple of times but i declined every time. When the party finished he got my coat from our shared locker and he even helped me put on my coat. We went to a small after party where our mutual friend was. She put her legs on his lap and told me to do the same cause it was comfortable. So the whole after party i sat there with my legs on him. He was even holding my leg and foot. He haven't spoken to me since.

[Oliverlogan263]

Okay, this sounds like a complicated situation girl! From what you described it seems like this guy is definitely interested in you on some level. A few thoughts:

- He's clearly intentionally sending you revealing snaps to get your attention and gauge your reaction. The outfit check was basically him showing off for you!

- Asking if you have a boyfriend is a classic move guys do when they wanna see if you're available.

- Getting possessive about inviting him to parties shows he wants to spend more time with you one-on-one.

- Switching places with that other guy at the party so he could dance by you is a big clue. Guys don't do that for just anyone!

- Helping you put your coat on and offering his lap for you to sit is all flirty behavior.

However, saying "no" strongly when that girl asked if you were together is a bit odd. Maybe he's shy and wasn't sure how you felt so didn't want to put himself out there. Or could be playing games, hard to say!

I'd say pursue it a bit more - send HIM a flirty snap and see how he reacts before writing him off totally. Seems interested but just may need a little encouragement. Keep me posted girlfriend! Fingers crossed he stops being so confusing.

[teamvic]

Hmmm could it could be either he likes you or just wants to fuck

I feel if he had feelings and wanted a relationship he wouldn't want another girl putting his legs on him while you're there🤔

There's definitely something there but which one is the question. Him asking you to sit on his lap is also a red flag🤔🤔.

Be careful about him trying to slush you. Also the him taking a picture in only a towel is also a red flag. If I had to guess he's just tryna clap your cheeks. But he could be into you. But I think the dude in general is a walking red flag to be honest