Can I kiss a male friend as my way of telling him I like him, or would that repulse him?

[Bethany22]

I know he doesn't like me, but can I still seize moments where it looks like he might like me, like when we're sitting right beside one another, and it's easy enough to reach over and kiss him?

[Angelo75]

honey, you're basically torturing yourself then.

If he doesn't like you, put a specific period during which you're gonna "try" to make him like you. Try to put a max period on it. Like "maximum of ONE year". Don't go longer than that. Otherwise you'll end up hating both him and yourself if it doesn't succeed cuz it'll feel like you threw your life away.

If during that year he doesn't move to something more serious with you, cut your losses and leave. And I mean really "leave". As in... lower communications with him so that you can start your "mourning process".
Mourn him and even if he comes back to you looking for attention, just don't get into anything with him. Cuz he'll just be holding you on a line.

Find someone who REALLY likes you back and invest your attention on that other person.

[hahahmm]

Funny how women are becoming everything they claim they didn't want men to be.

If he is repulsed, I hope he hits you up with sex assault charges and runs to the media whining about how you took advantage of him during a vulnerable time cause he had just had half a glass of wine.

[Bethany22]

I was never one of those women protesting, but I know what you mean

[hahahmm]

@Bethany22 Then don't do it. Don't go down this road. Guys who are shy won't tell you this so let me: if you make the first move all you are doing is making it easy for the guy to the point where he doesn't look at it like HE chose you. The second another woman who is even 1% better than you comes along he's wanting her. It's just not the same as the guy making the first move. And women who want to act like dudes don't want to hear this either. If you make yourself attractive and a guy isn't interested then let it be.

[Bethany22]

Good advice, thanks 🙏

[DishLady]

What's with the use of "repulse" this weekend? My goodness.

Just because a person doesn't "like" you doesn't mean that they'll instantly be "repulsed" (disgusted and basically 🤢🤮) by you. BUT, if you're not sure how the other person feels, don't initiate.

[AviatorTom]

Go slow and approach him for a kiss. He'll let you know if it's okay or not.

[Avicenna]

No, kissing a guy is crossing the Rubicon.

[Daniela1982]

A friend that doesn't like you? Why would you be friends with someone who doesn't like you? Are you trolling? 🤔 Maybe that's how you become an influencer here. Having to make a certain number of posts per week. I would have run out of things to ask about.

[Fireguy17]

Take a shot and plant one on him.
Make it good, go with your tongue and grab his ass.
He might just wet himself and or show how much he liked it, or bend you over and continue, or look at you like what the heck.
Unless you do it you will regret it forever.
Guys are pretty clueless so that he might just pick up on.

[Gunslinger84]

Don't kiss him! Just be chill with it, make him laugh and smile, go on "friend dates with him," and when the time is right, start showing your interest in him more and more until he gets the hint. It'll take a while trust, but that's how guys are, we're literally the definition of oblivious.

[Crimsyjo]

If you know he doesn't like you that way that would be very awkward!!! I wouldn't do it. And if u like like him... try to channel that elsewhere. Unreciprocated love sucks!

[RetroReviews]

If you want something go for it, life is short don't look back and wonder what if maybe , would have , could have, should have

[serious]

Well you should only kiss him (french kiss) if you like him more than just friends. Otherwise you should only kiss him on his cheeks.

[idonotlikeyou]

Forcing yourself at a man is beneath the dignity of any woman. He should be the one pursuing you, and you should graciously allow him to do so.

[elizamichale1]

U can take it according to the situation honey... if u started getting all over him t every chance or tried to push it... tht may repulse him

[Coden7]

You should ask him first. Or kiss him on the cheek or something. He might get upset if you just go for it

[kellytheman]

Well if he doesn’t like you it might not be a good idea but I don’t think it would really repulse him if you did it just might be awkward and look puzzled at you.

[loveslongnails]

If you KNOW he doesn't feel the same, why would you do that? It only makes you look desperate and foolish.

[Surferboi_02]

That is actually every guys dream go and do that. Whoever it is he will be ! lucky to live a dream like that. But make sure the guy seems interested in you first.

[bowenw]

It sounds like you have nothing to lose, so go for it.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You could if you want to do so.

[FunkyMonkee]

I would think he'd be okay with it unless YOU repulse him or, he's gay.

[hahahmm]

She already said he doesn't even like her. There's a reason why he doesn't like her.

[FunkyMonkee]

@hahahmm Yeah? What is it?

[hahahmm]

Dunno but usually if a guy doesn't like a woman he has a good reason in his mind. If he was a simp who is desperate for sex/attention from women then he would like ALL women by default.

[JamesRandiDebates]

He is your friend. Tell him you'd like to give him a "friendly" BJ. If you're good at it, you'll win him over immediately.

[Anonymous]

If you're not sure about him liking back, don't make a move.

[DextroShade]

Men are NOT your friends. He's been wanting to do that the entire time he's known you.

[Sasquach]

You should go for it, some guys need direct messages to understand your feelings/intentions

[Stef12]

How do you mean? French kiss? Or a peck on the cheek?

[MrGSpotHer]

I dont understand don't you want a guy that likes you, no wonder your questions are so funky

[Jerre]

Yes yo can. Kiss the guy, let him feel your tongue.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That all depends on him and what type of kiss your gonna give him

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't. I'd imagine most guys, most people wouldn't.

[Dreadskull220]

I’d say it could go either way but give it a shot

[Cheerfull009]

You want forced kiss, ok , but if you do with me , I will slap hard

[chrissykerdock]

offer him a blowjob he may like that more

[Jennz6]

Yes, I would kiss him

[shortster]

Be careful, that can end poorly.

[In_Trance]

Why don't you just have a conversation with him?

[RedInnocent69]

Yes. We don’t always appreciate subtlety.

[TallAnon]

Nope, that requires consent.

[Avocadorable]

Don't do it, you'll ruin the friendship.

[Bigoldsack]

No it will be weird

[jahaims]

Probably a bad idea

[impalabill77]

Kiss him

[andy530]

Yes go for it!