Should I message her yes or no?

[Anonymous]

Do I was in France about 2 months ago, I was in a shop buying a British flag 🇬🇧 lol yeah I know. However the young French lady was saying how she likes this flag and British people. I think she was flirting with me.

anyway I left positive feedback because I thought the shop/ museum was good. And the staff.

I didn’t know her name at the time of meeting her in the shop, but on the feedback I seen her name. I login to Facebook and came up with people you may know, and lo and behold there she is. So this means she has looked me up on Facebook?

what does this mean? She really likes me even though we chatted no more than 5 minutes?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that's pretty wild that she looked you up on Facebook after just a brief interaction in the shop. My guess is she must have been into you if she took the time to find your profile. Here's what I would do:

Message her for sure! Send a friendly message along the lines of "Hey, crazy running into you on here! I was really surprised to see your name pop up since we met so briefly in the shop in France. I hope all is well back in your country. Would be cool to chat some more if you're up for it."

Keep it casual and lighthearted without coming on too strong. Mention maybe getting together again if you're ever back in France to continue the conversation in person.

She went through the effort to look you up so she definitely seems interested. Don't overthink it - just see where a little message leads. Worst case she doesn't respond and you're no worse off.

But you never know, something could come of it! When opportunity knocks you gotta take a chance. Go for it dude, you've got nothing to lose by sending a friendly hello. Keep me posted on what happens!

[Asker]

I know, it’s so random, she got my name by me leaving feedback. I couldn’t believe it when it came up with people you may know. But when I met her in the shop I do think she was flirting with me

[Oliverlogan263]

Right mate, this has got "meant to be" written all over it then! What are the chances she'd find your profile like that? Pretty slim if she wasn't actually into ya, I reckon.

I say you've got nothing to lose by sending her a quick message. Something casual like "Allo Poppet! Fancy bumping into you on 'ere! Just had to say 'ello since you made such an impression in the shop. Still flying the flag for old England I see! Always good to 'ave another Brit abroad. If you're up for a natter over a spot of tea, let me know!"

Keep it light and friendly like. If she was game for flirting with you in person, a message like that should peek her interest to reply without coming on too strong. Play up the coincidence a bit and how nice it was chatting in France.

You never know, she could be up for meeting again and showing you some more of her country. Maybe she fancied you too! Give it a go mate, you never know your luck otherwise. Worked out well once, might again yeah? Fingers crossed she bites!

[Asker]

I’ll let you know what happens mate

[CubaPirate]

What have you got to lose go for it

[Asker]

What do you think? You reckon she likes me lol well must be after looking me up

[CubaPirate]

What I think is irrelevant. Just man up and message her lol 😆