How do you feel if your work crush says you look good?

[Manipgot]

I feel kinda like ugh, it’s more exciting when you don’t know how he feels about you. If he’s just outright flirting it’s like wtf now the mystery is gone. This sucks. It’s probably mainly cause he has a girlfriend already so I know nothing is coming from this.

words are empty. Compliments are empty.

[DerekC321]

Outright flirting gets boring fast. Find a guy who wants to spend time with you, like over dinner or something like that. It's more a romantic atmosphere and I think romance is a lot more exciting than just words, it's feelings. Butterflies

[Manipgot]

Ugh, well said. That long drawn out courtship is beautiful feeling. Flirting is just laying it on the table cheap and quick. It kinda makes me uninterested. I love when a man is mysterious in a good way (not evil).

[Manipgot]

I’d love to spend time with a man over dinner or just anything special. I never really get that from men :(

[DerekC321]

It just seems like old fashioned romance is so rare, I'm totally on the same page a you, like having a special connection from someone who takes the time to get to know you is key, and has feelings because he's drawn to what makes you personally special. And the mystery of a deep relationship and all the exciting things that can lead to is kind of like an aphrodisiac lol

[Manipgot]

That’s nice. I wish I knew some men like you. I’ve never experienced such a courtship. Just lies and fake temporary stuff which I either fell for or partly participated in thinking it would end up good.

[DerekC321]

Thanks. I'm sorry, but I think we often fall for stuff we later regret. It's understandable when you feel like empty/need a real connection. Makes us want to believe things even when there's some doubt. I've gone pretty far trying to believe something is true when it really isn't

[Manipgot]

Oh really? Sorry to hear this. What did you wanna believe?

[DerekC321]

I wanted to believe that someone really loved me, when their actions said otherwise (spending hardly any time together, her talking/hitting on a friend of mine, some other things). I wish we could have talked more, but no. I think our breakup was probably for the best in the long run, but splitting was tougher for me than other people i know

[Manipgot]

Relatable. I love guys and they end up being unfaithful people. They flirt with others or even literally cheat. Sucks

[DerekC321]

Ugh, sorry you've been hurt. It really hurts bad. And I was cheated on too, sigh. I know that feeling

[Manipgot]

Sorry. It sucks. I’m actually taking to a guy who has a girlfriend. He’s a coworker. He won’t leave me alone. I don’t get why taken people are often the most aggressive.

[DerekC321]

I'd ask him if his girlfriend knows what he's been saying to you, how he thinks what she might feel/do if she were to find out something like that

[Manipgot]

True… people can be so heartless to the ones they supposedly love most. I don’t get it ;(

[DerekC321]

They're heartless because I don't think they really feel the love. Betrayal sucks, it makes it harder for to really trust someone until I know them pretty well :(

[Billlewis]

Anytime a guy says you look good, you probably do;)

[Manipgot]

lol ok. But I care about deeper things. I do enjoy pleasing a man thoguh and if he likes my looks I hope it’s enough to make him cum ;)

[Billlewis]

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[Nikki1989]

If you are over 16, you are far too old for crushes.