Do you get inappropriate messages on GAG?

Question

Are people too flirty in dirty ways

Naounawo · Accepted Answer

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There are times in our convos where he asked me if am I gonna leave my husband if I found out he's infertile, he noted that it's legal to leave and also, he said that I just found out about it after getting married, will I leave the guy? I just said no and explained why... Then, he just randomly said about what if he's infertile (referring to himself).

There are times where he talks about his life, he's issues, his past relationships, his struggles, his unfulfilled dreams and I'm just there actively listening. Sometimes, he's telling me that I should not hold back. And even asked me what it is like to be loved by me.

I really didn't read much into it before but looking back at it, it feels like there's something more to it.

What really made me suspicious was one time (it's didn't happened once), he just placed his hand on my back and gently rubbed it up and down while casually talking to someone and tend to place his hands on my lower back sometimes. Also, he's quite a childish one but not immature. One time, he was being too childish and just randomly said "sorry (my name) if I'm being childish" and I just replied "it's okay. I don't mind" and he said "love you (my name)"

I don't have the courage to ask him at the moment for clarity.

Am I reading too much into things?

It makes me wonder—could he be interested in me?

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Almost daily. Most I just laugh off, but I make at least one report and a block every week. I wish it wasn't like that, but this site seems good at attracting creeps.

ShellyB · Answer

No bc I don’t follow anybody here so I get no DMs except from the people who run the board making announcements. I feel guilty sometimes, I see people follow me and sometimes they directly ask me to follow them on the board but, I am in a LTR and am not here to flirt and don’t know anybody here in real life so the way I think is, there is nothing you’d need to say to me in private you can just post it on the board.

However the reason I do it that way is, on a previous board I got all kinds of flirty or manipulative messages, people would send me nudes of themselves and get annoyed if I didn’t send nudes of myself, it was a lot of drama that served no purpose for me so that is why I completely skip that here. I also block anybody who I think is very rude (for example there was a person who called me insane for wearing shorts).

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

I haven't gotten anything inappropriate. I've definitely been thrown-off by getting messages from a woman wanting to talk dirty.

Not that often, but a handful over times. It throws me off simply because I'm not on that vibe when I'm on GAG. Its not inappropriate, its just a little jarring.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope. Never anything inappropriate since being on the app. Lots of random DMs but mist being in the form of questions or comments regarding either something I responded to or liking my response so they ask another question. Occasionally also just messages of appreciating for something I responded without being a dick about it or whatever.

There have been a few random people DM me to strike up a friendship of a sort. I mean, I still talk with the first person who ever DMed me here. Now we just text one another. Still nothing tawdry.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope. I've only been here for less than 2 months but I haven't received one flirty or inappropriate message. In fact, i've only received one contact via DM. It was a little off the wall but not flirty or inappropriate. I just blocked her. Problem solved.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Sometimes, but I don’t give a shit. Just the way I hope people don’t give a shit about things I say, I never attack anybody or make them feel stupid. At least I try not to. I just come out and say what I think. It might come out wrong, but like I said, I don’t care they’ll figure it out what I’m trying to say and if they don’t, then they’ll get over it.

4ngelic · Answer

no i put my settings so only people who i follow who follow me back can dm me. so i never get anything on old accounts i didn't privatize my dms so i'd get a loads of weird people in my dms

wynning · Answer

GAG used to be way worse for wear for that sort of stuff years ago. And I sad just a spectator! I left partially because of it. Not so much now.

BCRanger10 · Answer

No. Every now and then, I get follows from spam accounts featuring scantily-clad women, who, assuming they're real, are probably looking to exchange inappropriate messages. It won't happen though.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

It has been a while, but like many other guys I have been a target of „Pedowoman“ and her infamous offer of anus massages. Apparently, she is still around.

Arwen06 · Answer

Yeah I get quite a lot, I don't know why. It's sometimes fun to go along with it tho

itsannalee · Answer

Maybe moved on too fast and don’t want to create bad images or cheat.  Or still want to go back together

exitseven · Answer

I did get a text from a woman who wanted me to meet her on a different site. I just ghosted her.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

I block them the moment it happens so I almost forget they exist

Loverofwisdom · Answer

Not yet but I've gotten them on many cases on social media... people never learn.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

disrespectful, sexual, offensive, degrading... I think I experienced here everything :D

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Every now and then a spam attempt. But not enough to heat myself up about it :D

lyrem04 · Answer

Yes all the time I been on gag for a long time since I was like 14 and now 20 had to make another account cuz of it sooo many creeps

blackeagle007 · Answer

I’d be jumping for joy if women sent dm’s like such to me

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

I used to and when I started ignoring them, they would really rude things. I don’t understand why people have become so desperate.

Manuelwe · Answer

Loads of times and my account frozen for replying to them

NickiJo · Answer

Always happy for a chat! I used to get bizzare ones when I used the app years ago!

Shiprex · Answer

Wouldn't say inappropriate ones but ones that are unnecessary.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@summeroflove mailbox is empty 💌📬

Lokiion · Answer

Yes all the time sadly

jahaims · Answer

Yeah all kinds of weirdos

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I get blocked.

alice55 · Answer

sometime

serious · Answer

No, I don't.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Yeps all the time

Makeushiver · Answer

Not nearly enough

Iron_Man · Answer

no I don’t get random crazy messaging me

eliegia · Answer

he’ll no

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

It's happened before

DrPepper12 · Answer

Sometimes. 😏

TwoToTooTutu2 · Answer

I have had some.

Madgedays · Answer

No i don't

fish5505_87 · Answer

Not yet.

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