This really attractive guy is always alone?

[Anonymous]

I'm in college and live on campus and I always see this cute guy who is always alone. I see him mostly in the cafeteria but other places too. I've never seen him with anyone else. Its just weird because it seems like he could be a really cool guy but it looks like he has no friends. I kind of want to talk to him but would it be weird if I invited him to sit down with my friends and I one day?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

maybe he is shy or doesn't know many ppl. I knew a guy like that in HS, I was so surprised because he looked like he should have been popular and get a lot of girls but he was kina shy unless you talked to him first. that can be hard because a lot of people are cliquey these days and don't really talk to you unless they already know you or wants something from u. I think it would be nice if you invited him to sit with yall if he's not crazy then he should appreciate it lola

[upood]

Being a shy girl, I always end up alone around my crushes... he probably thinks I have no friends or voice box haha... invite him, he'll be flattered even if he says no thanks :)

[nfigure]

Haha that puppy! :D

[RememberWhenItRained]

being a fairly shy guy myself that is alone a lot at the cafeteria, I'd suggest this - it's much less intimidating if it were just you; instead of inviting him to set with your friends, go one day without your friends, and just ask if you can sit with him.

Certainly couldn't hurt - I'd prefer that much more than being asked to sit with a group of people I don't know - I wouldn't know how to respond that one.

Best of luck!

[Caustic_Fox]

i wouldn't invite him to sit with your friends, but you can go sit by him and try to strike up a conversation and see how that goes

[Anonymous]

I'm usually alone at my school. I wish somebody would invite me too hang out with them. I think its a great idea to reach out towards someone. Most people are nice and normal, but some just have a harder time fitting in.

Best of Luck.

[jay22]

Go for it. Most people are always looking for new friends. It can't hurt.

[Anonymous]

yeah, i guess its better to make a move and invite him.

[JayCutler]

probably aas a girlfriend back at home