Put your best food forward and be yourself. Forget about the other guys she's the prize forget about the obstacles. Just be confident and sweet towards her, go for it and ask her out on a date. Compliment her almost every time you see her, tell her she looks stunning or beautiful, tell her her hair looks nice (us ladies spend a lot of time making ourselves look our best, it feels great when people notice) Ask her about what she wants in the future, where she wants to travel, what her family is like, and most important! Ask and show interest about her best girl friends (they will always be more important to her than you, it would be best to get on their good side) Also, put your thoughts and opinions into these questions so after she answers you have something to talk about. Get to know her and if she falls for the real you than sweet, if not it just wasn't meant to be.
Is she dating anyone? If not, you need to go for it! Seriously, just because other guys like her doesn't mean she likes them back. All the guys could be thinking the same as you, not wanting to make moves thinking they don't have a chance. And because of that, no one approaches her. And what's the worse that can happen? She says no? Just be yourself. Ask her out on a date. Be thoughtful, caring and flirty. But if you give up before the game starts, then why bother liking her? She clearly wasn't worth fighting for, right? IF SHE'S WORTH FIGHTING FOR, THEN FIGHT FOR HER. Dang it. Just be around her a lot. Proximity sparks familiarity and intimacy. Just be there for her and you already have the upper hand. Just don't hesitate and wait too long. That's dangerous.
Forget the competition. It's about her and not about them. Don't try to one-up the rest of the guys that hang around her, just show her that she is special to you. Show her what you have to offer, what about you is interesting and she will make her own decision about you. You have nothing and no one to prove yourself to except yourself. A girl will fall for a guy that is comfortable and confident with himself. Just go up to her, whether she is around the other guys or not, keep your posture relaxed but confident and just talk to her. Ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime.
I honestly don't think you have a chance bro. You're already doubting yourself, you've got to completely rewire the way you think so that you don't even care that other guys are after her.
You've got to be of the mentality of "of course she will be mine". And if you fail, you've also got to learn to not really care and move on quickly.
That kind of thinking takes practice to make.
Read the game. Has some pretty good advice on the subject. Pretty much it says to befriend any female or male friends she is with and make sure to keep the focus of the group on you so you look like the prize. Then find a way to isolate and close. The book has a lot of good advice despite all the bad rep it has gotten from haters.
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with girls its all about chemistry and a spark if she really wants a genuine relationship with you so if its not there... the girl won't fall for you. If the girl is looking for a fling... she's looking for the obvious signs when a girl is attracted to a guy.. it could be eyes, face, hot body, a sexy bad bad boy.. it depends on what the girl is attracted to but we don't that so if you have what she's looking for.. youve already won but if you dont.. bad luck
just move on to another girl man, it's not worth it
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