He says he wants to tame me?

[Anonymous]

This guy I have been flirting with says he likes the challenge of the "taming" because I didn't allow him to dominate over me. Clearly he has slept with hotter girls but it turns him on that I don't take anybody's sh*t. Why does he want to change what he likes?

[serendipitous]

It's not so much that he wants to change you, it's more likely that he’s just into the challenge you present. Guys (and girls alike) love a chase, especially when it leads to the bedroom; I'm guessing that his desire to "tame" you pertains to this. No guy wants a totally submissive girl in the bedroom; guys usually prefer a feisty girl who takes control, only so that they can ultimately dominate her. He wants to tame you in terms of your sexuality, not your actual identity as a strong female.

[Anonymous]

he doesn't like you, he doesn't know you. he wants the challenge, it's all a game to him

[Asker]

I agree with you on that. He cares just as much as I care for him. Which is really nothing, I just find him hot because he knows how to please and seduce but I'm not stupid enough to think that he has more feelings.

[She-wolf]

Google the phrase "I Love You Because I Can't Control You", and click on the TV Tropes link.