Why do some girls ignore when you confess your feelings to them?

[Anonymous]

does this mean they feel the same way to and doesn't want to be in a relationship? because I have this friend and we've been hanging out like for 2 months. everything was fine until I confessed to her about my feelings and now she's been really cold to me.

How can I make her talk to me again? I always text her good morning and other stuff hoping she might text back. what can I do? I need help..I really really like this girl.

[Aniratak]

To be honest she probably doesn't reciprocate your feelings and now feels awkward around you (thus the cold shoulder). You constantly texting her and pursuing her won't help the matter. Probably has the opposite affect and makes you seem needy and clingy.

You threw the ball into her court. Now it is her turn to throw it back. But she might also choose not to.

However if you continue pursuing her like this, she'll disappear completely.

Better a friendship rather than nothing?

[Asker]

so there's no way to fix this..? I just couldn't let go. I always think about her.

[Aniratak]

Well you told her your feelings. She knows. So there is nothing else you can do. If she had the same feelings she would have reacted positively, even if it was in a shy way. She obviously isn't interested in you right now. However if you back off and stop contacting her, she will feel less pressure and maybe even start getting curious as to what happened to you. Curiosity did kill the cat after all. But even that might not work. If it doesn't, then that's OK too.

[Aniratak]

It might not feel like it right now, but there are plenty of other interesting fabulous girls out there ready to meet you :)

[Asker]

it's all ready been 3 months since she's been cold to me..I guess that means she's not really interested. because the other day we accidentally cross each others path. but she just looked away.

[Aniratak]

Yes. Sorry to tell you this, but she is definitely avoiding you then. I guess you made her feel pretty uncomfortable. Just learn something from it when you approach a girl next time. You can make the first move but then you need to wait for her to make her move :)

[Asker]

so this mean I don't have a chance on her ever..?

[Aniratak]

Yes. Probably. Just put her out of your mind.

[Asker]

what if I continue chasing her..? would it change her mind and see my effort?

[harangako]

If she ignores you or she acts being cold, just do the same thing then maybe after a while she may realized that she likes you. And if she comes back to you again then do the same thing too. But if she never came back find another love.

[thisislifebaby]

No it means she is ignoring what you are telling her in the hope that it will go away, she is so not into you.

[pips1]

stop being clingy give her space and she will come through maybe. perhaps she is just shy

[Asker]

I just couldn't help it. I'm just curious why she's been cold to me. I guess I really messed up..and now she's gone completely

[Jager66]

she desnt like you, she doesn't even like you enough to tell you she just wants to be friends. she would rather you think she hates you then tell she does not share those feelings, there is no respect or caring for you from her at all. time to learn your lesson and move on.

[Anonymous]

Yeah she doesn't like you. Back off and she may contact you eventually. Sounds like you smother her.

[pips1]

sorry to hear that plenty more fish in the sea :)