Guy friend ignoring me since he got a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I have a guy friend. I have fooled around with him before and I really enjoy spending time with him. Now, he has a girlfriend and has been ignoring me. He said he wanted to hang out sometime, but yet I don't hear from him. What's going on?

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I should also mention that he is friends with my ex. I don't know if that would make a huge difference.

[TessAshwin]

BTW I have a guy friend too and we both love spending time with each other. right now he is planning to get married. So he has already let me know As soon as I get committed to a girl. Don't expect me to spend too much time with you. So I am already prepared for the day when he gets a girl he will not see my face ever. :)

Cause he wants to spend more time with HIS girl. That's Natural right!

[Misty_04]

Because he's whipped. He'll come running back when they break up saying how much he misses you.

[TessAshwin]

yeah rite lol

[ilovebender]

I have had some of my insecure male friends do that to me when they got a girlfriend but in these cases nothing ever happened between us. I don't like it because we got along so well and their girlfriend has nothing to worry about. She is always welcome to hang out too. If she is important to him then she is important to me.

[sweet_18]

This is what happens. And this is kind of why girls and guys can't just be friends. Before her, you were girl #1 in his life. Now you're girl #2. There's pretty much nothing you can do. When he breaks up with her, sure enough, he'll come back to you and want to hang out all the time with you again. If you have some dignity you won't let him just do that.

[Anonymous]

this is typical. if you have a guy friend and he gets a girlfriend she doesn't want him to hang out with you. it makes sense, bcs she wants to be his exclusive girl and you two have fooled around b4. This is why its better to make good female friends, because even if they get a boyfriend or husband its possible to still stay friends. Just wait till your friend gets married, then he may totally disappear.

[TessAshwin]

why is it you never could be his girlfriend , if you say you fooled around and had enjoyed each others company ? Is it you guys didn't feel more for each other.

[Asker]

I said I wanted a relationship, but he told me he didn't want a relationship.

[TessAshwin]

wow, then I guess you just have to move on, And find a new guy to spend time with. Currently I am feeling you and my positions are always the same. We both got to find new men :)

[sfauo]

He's ignoring you on girlfriend orders lol

[AidenBlue]

I have to agree here. This could be a cause. His new Girlfriend is protecting her territory. Eliminate all threats. He probably explained you two fooled around and now she's wary of you. As soon as things get rocky with them he'll come around.

[cherryluv16]

I would like to know the same... :\