Is being a "butterface" completely tragic?

[Anonymous]

Please no rude comments or jokes

I am a butter face , I have a very masculine face but a curvy gorgeous body , I've worked on my body and toned everything plus I have a natural hour glass figure , think kim kardashian but with slightly less butt and more tone overall . So how bad is that ? ( I'm not showing a pic so please don't ask for one)

I'm obsessed with my calories and with the gym but I'm never satisfied because all these pretty faces have a more advantage over me .

So how bad is a butter face to guys ?

[Anonymous]

I have a bit of a butterface too ... it sucks, BUT:

Some guys are actually into chicks with stronger features. I say this because I've dated them. You won't be able to get with every guy you want (but then, not all really pretty girls can, either), but there are enough guys around who dig this that you shouldn't go dateless, either.

My advice... If you see a guy who tends to go after "cutesy" girls. Try to avoid crushing on him. But the kinds of guys who are into you, will be into you. You can sometimes figure it out by seeing what his exes look like. You also need to find flattering haircuts that tone down the hard angles of your face and look up some make up techniques to "soften" your features.

In my opinion, most of us "average" girls are in the same boat ... It could be body shape, facial shape, general symmetry ... but we aren't "hot." However, very few people ARE hot and you will be perfectly happy with a good guy who works out, but isn't Brad Pitt gorgeous.

[stillagoodgirl]

Some guys care about body more than face so don't worry..I think I'm the opposite

[PoeticNinja]

It is very tragic. It's hard being below average with a decent body.

[AltoonaYourPiano]

You don't have a pic so I can't say for sure but I have a feeling you're being WAAAYYY too hard on yourself. From what it sounds like your face is a 7 or 8 but your body is a 9 or 10. That's not a butterface (infact you may actually have a VERY BEAUTIFUL face and not know it), a butterface is someone who has a good body but a face that looks like something out of a horror movie.

[Prof_Don]

No its not completely tragic...there's something for everyone! :)

[kheserthorpe]

The older you get, the better it is.

When you're like 17, tons of girls still have pretty good bodies, basically because it hasn't fallen apart yet.

By mid 20's, 2/3 of women are fat, so a butterface stacks up pretty well against them.

By 30+ butterfaces are pretty popular relative to other women their age.

I'd also throw out there that masculine features age well in 50+ range.

[Asplode]

There will be guys out there who are attracted to you, our opinions on beauty can vary a lot. Plus the fact that you're toned means you've put the work in where you can (your body) and it's hot when girls make an effort to look good without plastic surgery or anything.

[supersean123]

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ehh some aren't so bad. You're asking "Guys". There ugly guys too. So yeah it matters the same as how you want a tall, humorous, good looking guy. Take out one of the positive categories in the guy you want. And ask yourself do you still want him?

(you're in college, so you're just hooking up anyway. It's way different after college imo)

[dawnfang]

That's up to the guy. This one girl who was in my 11th grade chemistry class was on the weightlifting team and I though she was beautiful, while one of my friends said she was a butterface. So, different guys have different opinions.

[Anonymous]

It's not tragic at all. You have an hourglass figure which is so hard to find and a toned body so you have a lot going for you. Different people have a different idea of what a pretty face is, so there'll certainly be guys who will love your face.

[Little-Hippie]

I'd rather have a butterface than a fat girl.

So you've basically beat out EVERY fat girl with a pretty face.

That's a LARGE demographic of the population, especially here in America.

[antonlikesmlb]

Just paper bag it. Since I spend more time looking at a girls face than her body, I need her to have a pretty one.

[Oneubcman]

Yes it is tragic for a lot of potential relationships, butsomeone will love the way you look. Spend time with people who like you for you.

[Anonymous]

butter faces aren't marriage material, so I've heard.

[Prettygurl12]

What IS a butterface?

[PoeticNinja]

Ugly girl with a nice body.

[Asker]

i like everything BUT HER FACE = BUTTERFACE .

[ArrograntWarrior]

You are still in the game

[Anonymous]

It is pretty bad