Okay, I'm kind of in a similar situation. This one guy and I have been hanging out a lot lately. At first, it was due to me. He wouldn't ever text me or contact me first. I felt like I was being desperate, always initiating the conversations, ya know? But we've gotten a lot closer since then, and I asked him a while later why he was never texting me first or anything. He said straight up, he was just intimidated by me and my beauty, and didn't really think he had a chance. So that may be the same in your case? Its hard to tell. I would ask him again, and don't accept "i don't know" as an answer.
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He's probably not interested. Try not texting or calling for a few days to find out, see if he'll come to you. I've had this same problem, and the guy ended up texting me after a day asking why I hadn't talked to him, you're probably just making it too easy for him.
You're confused? Hell, I think the guy is confused himself. He probably has his mind on other things (perhaps on another girl as well) so if you like him then be patient until he figures everything out. Otherwise, move on. A guy doesn't necessarily have to be the one to initiate hanging out with a girl, but if he likes her back then he would agree to it even if it means scheduling it for a different time and day. If he doesn't offer suggestions then the guy might not be that into you (yet).
when a woman chanses a guy, that's called interest,
when a guy chases a woman, its sexual harassment.
stop sitting on yer ass and go after what you want, and stop waiting for it to fall in yer lap.
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Hey girl it looks as if you are giving that guy way too much importance.
try or pretend to ignore him for few days and if he really likes u
he will surely understand ur importance and will treat you nicely.
take care
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