Should I tell her my intentions?

[ablindman]

I've meet this girl a month ago, before we even knew are selves, I made out with her in her car, then at my place. She mentioned she wanted to take things slow I replied that I understood. We hung out a bit before that. We talked on Facebook and arranged day outs with friends. Was alright, although sometimes I feel her feelings might of changed for me. She told me she was interested in me and I told her the same. A small background about us. We can only talk on Facebook since her phone was stolen, she was the first to open up about her problems (friends,accident) I followed after.

To me opening first is a good sign, now what I'm wondering is should I ask her what her intentions we're and explain he mine. Because honestly I've never heard a guy ask a girl's intentions -ever- I'm not saying I won't do it cause if she means something to me, I'll get to the bottom like. Although I'm still now sure, what do you girls think ?

Thanks ;)

Updates

+1 y

When I step out the bubble. I do think I don't know her well enough, although I know we have deep connections. I also do feel that if I ask her I'll back her off but something else is telling me that it'll work out.. My brain worries about her clothing a bit and she lives 30 minutes away. Mainly she'll have to travel for us to hang out or be together, since I don't have a car. Although my heart tells me I should tell her my intentions, but only my intentions. To see if she feels the same.

[bassman]

Dude...no no no. You're not a pilot...you don't need to state your intentions, or ask her about hers. You need to man up and see if she'll go on dates with you on a consistent basis. Take her out and have a good time...no friends allowed until she's your girlfriend. The lost phone deal is sketchy...not sure I believe it. Call her on her home phone.

[ablindman]

I disagree but thanks for the reply.

Her phone was stolen.

We've been in dates before.

Seeing someone too much, talking to her all the time will just bore her the f*** out.

I know my game bud, I'm just not sure about this yet.

[bassman]

I didn't say to see or talk to her too much. Stating your intentions and how you feel about her will bore her. It will not be the first time she's heard a guy say what you're going to say. If you stop being a challenge,she will be done with you.

[ablindman]

I ended up realizing she was mostly seeking men attention and validation for her own value. As soon as I gave her ''attention'' she kind of backed off. She's cool and all but I already backed off. She hasn't called today to hang out nor I really expect or care anymore.

I was played for the first time but smart enough to figure it out. Its funny though because a girlfriend of mine I've talked to told me how she as but I was being defensive about it. Its easy to play her back. I'mma have fun;)

[bassman]

Sorry, it turned out this way, but I'm glad you found out when you did, and learned from it. You luck man.

[Anonymous]

YES tell her that you like her.

YES

I have a good feeling about this. I don't know why.