So girls get called butterfaces but what about the guys?

[Anonymous]

Why are girls called butter faces but there's no term for guys? I think it's disgusting how guys can be so shallow to call girls out on something they can't even help cause guess what? No one chose the way they looked face wise. Why can't guys understand this and stop mocking girls who may have a less hotter face. I'm not saying girls don't judge guys either but it's just that guys seem to take this too far, even having a label for it and openly making a mockery of them. Girls don't sit around pointing out guys physical flaws and ripping them apart about how butterfaced they are. It's really hurtful and makes us girls even more insecure. f*** it even makes me want to kill myself sometimes because this world is so judgmental on things that we were born with. Is it impossible to find a guy who won't want to call girls out on their butter faces and not be so damn shallow.

[Little-Hippie]

It's pretty simple.

Because if a girl has a really nice body but an unattractive face, we're going to notice and probably point it out.

But if I guy has a really nice body and an unattractive face, he's just some buff guy.

And girls will pay more attention to his muscles anyway.

That's why he has them.

Look at Vin Diesel.

Ugliest guy ever, but the muscles more than make up for that.

It works a little differently for girls.

[peace-love-couture]

Vin Diesel isn't ugly :( he's handsome and fineee

[Little-Hippie]

mmmmm 'specially his muscles.

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Nah, he's one of my favorite actors, but he'd definitely land some pretty different roles with a thinner look.

[Asker]

So because mother nature maybe gave us a uglier face we have to accept that it will be pointed out and laughed at... something we can't help. Seems legit.

[Little-Hippie]

Well that's silly.

The other girls will make fun of you sure.

But us guys will gladly sexually objectify you.

No worries.

[lachrymaImplant]

most girls are scared by big muscles.

[Little-Hippie]

Most girls SAY they're scared by big muscles.

They like them.

Think about every major male sex symbol.

Muscles.

[Asker]

I think there's plenty of girls who aren't attracted to big muscles on guys. Guys would want to believe we are all so shallow and be into that but the truth is not nearly as many girls as you'd believe like them. And you're not exactly making it better by saying girls with uglier faces can always look on the bright side and just be sexually objectified. That reminds me of something a pig would say not a guy who has respect for girls in all areas. I'd rather be single then have a guy like that.

[Little-Hippie]

Here's the weirdest thing about it.

Having a favorable thought process and a gentlemanly demeanor, doesn't promise the right kind of attention from girls any more than big muscles do.

Oh it helps. But its absence is excusable in the presence of other traits.

[KingsOfleon88]

Please, don't do anything to harm yourself because of these words. I've been called a lot of names and have been judged many times, so I know how you feel. I've realized that all of us are guilty of judging at one point or another for someone that we don't find attractive. Thing is we just have to work with what we have. You're eventually going to find someone who is going to like all of you, just be confident in who you are.

[Asker]

Thanks, I do try my best to work with that I have. I work out, eat healthy and try and change the things I can but like I already mentioned, I can only do so much to not completely fake it. I hate the idea of living a lie with lots of make-up on. I just sincerely hope there's guys out there who aren't so shallow and who would like me for me.

[peace-love-couture]

Women are judged and valued on their looks

Guys don't go around calling girls butterfaces, but no one wants to be with someone who has an ugly face. It's not right to go calling people ugly or making fun of them though. Karmas a bitchhh

[Asker]

So because of a ugly face that justifies people mocking me and treating me with less respect than the other more attractive girls out there.

[peace-love-couture]

You being a butterface doesn't mean guys are mocking you

[Asker]

Well if you look at the kind of talk connected to guys calling girls butterfaces then yeah, you'd see they mock those.

[peace-love-couture]

Why do you care what people don't say to your face? You're ugly so accept it. That doesn't mean the world revolves around you

[Asker]

Things that people will say when they have no idea what it feels like... so every time someone mocks you for a defect or something you were born with and you complain it's silly because the world doesn't revolve around me... I hope you realize that people in wheelchairs, with deformities, amputees etc. can say the same thing... so guess the world doesn't revolve around them either.

[peace-love-couture]

Everyone has judgements made towards them. Perhaps I should whine because I'm part black. I'll also whine because I have curly hair

[Asker]

Well at least you still know there would be guys interested in you. Having a ugly face is much much worse.

[Anonymous]

Oh, I've seem male butterfaces for certain.

Yeah, I'm tired of people being mean to each other.

[kheserthorpe]

I'm not sure there's a name for really hot guys who have poor to mediocre faces. I think its called 'rugged good looks'.

You realize butterface means overall hot, right?

I would be very happy with a butterface with a good personality. Beats a 'fat but pretty' girl any day.

[xxDizzyxx]

Butterface isn't even that bad of a term they probably still even want you. Try either more or less makeup if you cake makeup on this could be your problem focus on eye makeup the rest is pretty much worthless. If you have a lot of acne get some of those acne products out there.

[Asker]

I don't have acne and do wear a bit of make-up but never over do it. A face is a face and there's only so much a girl can do about theirs without surgery... so if you're telling me that I must wear make-up to have a guy interested in me then f***. I give up.

[xxDizzyxx]

At least your a woman and have the security of makeup...

[Asker]

I don't want to live a lie.

[Anonymous]

Guys just get plain old ugly. Guys are pretty simplistic.

Oh also, a girl doesn't like a guy she can insult him plenty with a simple look more than any name.

Though they get real creative when they try to lower a girls esteem in the hope that they can get it low enough for him to have a "hope in hell" with them ;). Just the jerks there tho.

[Asker]

Makes sense.

[ImperiusRexx]

The ugly are truly the most prejudiced against. No matter what race or religion, a good looking person is going to get treated well by most of humanity. Us ugly folk get nothing but ridiculed.

[kambo_trick3y]

Okay then, make one up.

Butthisface.

[Asker]

You're not really getting my point but nevermind.

[kambo_trick3y]

I get your point. I'm just f***in' with you and pretending I'm not.

[Asker]

I enjoy humor but this is actually serious.

[antonlikesmlb]

Just paper bag it and you're golden.

[Asker]

You're one of those guys. Congratz.

[antonlikesmlb]

Butterface just means that your body is hot at it makes yours face look bad. It's not that bad.