I want him back. Cancer ex ignoring my messages?

[Anonymous]

I've known him for a year off and on. The break up was do to my behavior. And I've really learned my lesson. I've tried to reach out to him only twice in the last message I said "Just wanted to apologize for my behavior I let the fear of losing you get the best of me, It would drive me crazy. I would flip out for no reason and I ended up doing just that. Hope all is will with you" He still hasn't responded. I want to get over him. I did some what the same to him before I stopped talking to him for a few months. I don't know what to do. I've tried to get over him and don't understand why I've dated other guys keep myself busy now I work and go to school full time yet I still can't move on.

[blackwaterhattie]

okay, I *KNOW* it's totally unpopular to give any credence to astrology, but whatever, I'm into it. So here you go: Cancers. Once they have their mind made up about something, that's it. You are not going to change their minds. The more you poke, the more they withdraw, the less likely they will be to give you what you want. I know- I'm a Cancer, too. Your best bet is to leave his ass alone. He MAY come back around because we Cancers are sentimental as all get-out and we have a thing for the past. We love it. We rehash it. We can't leave it alone. So maybe one day he will find something of yours or a picture (we hardly ever throw anything out) and he'll get all misty-eyed and decide to see how you're doing. But that is not going to happen if you keep messing with him. You have to let him come to you, if he's going to.

And he also might not. If your break up was really horrendous, I'd say the odds of him coming around are slim to none. Nobody holds a grudge like a Cancer- unless it's a Scorpio. If you hurt his feelings really bad or acted a total fool, you best resign yourself to never having him speak to you again. Sentimentality be damned, when a Cancer cuts you off... stick a fork in yourself, you're done.

[jacquesvol]

If your ex has cancer, he has more urgent problems to think about than you.

[Asker]

He's a cancer sign

[jacquesvol]

that's irrelevant.