How to ask a girl to come over, without implying sex

[saulwhite]

I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks (5 dates), she made it clear that we won't be having sex until we're "official" (which I don't mind). Everything is going perfect we have fun, we both like each other.

We both live with our parents, so all our dates were outside. This week, my cousins are leaving town for a week, and he will leave me his house.

I want to invite her to come over. I was thinking of cooking something and then watch a movie, or something like that. The thing is, I don't want her to think that I want her to come, so we can have sex. (I know she won't come if it's for sex). So how would you ask someone to come over, letting her know that is just dinner and a movie, there will be some making out of course.(She can sleep over, we can kiss, cuddle, everything but sex).

Notes: I do want to have sex, but I respect her decision, so I really want her to come over the house, so we can be alone and enjoy the night.

Updates

+1 y

She came over, we ended up having sex. She was the one who initiated it.

[Anonymous]

Sorry, I don't have an answer for you :p But just wanted to say that I am glad to hear that you respect her decision. I was in that position once. A guy that I really liked asked me to come and watch a movie at his house like 3 weeks in a row (every time he asked me on Friday after 10pm), but I kept rejecting him. I did go one time and slept with him so I guess from that time on I gave him the wrong impression that he could just use me. And now the whole situation is totally messed up :( Well, I wish you good luck anyway!

[Anonymous]

Omg I love you! Lol what I mean is I want someone like you..every guy I know just wants the sex of course but its whatever. Actually you should just tell her that you wanna hangout and stay in, let her know the plans you have. If she brings anything along the lines of sex, let her know that you weren't even going for that also remind her that you respect her too much to rush her.

[A7Xbabe62]

Just flat out say, "Hey, my cousins are leaving and want me to watch their house. Would you like to come over just me and you and hang out". I'm pretty sure she'll get it. I've been asked this before and knew he wasn't talking about sex. If she knows you're respectful of her decision on not having sex, she'll definitely come over! Hope I helped!

[Nate666]

Just tell her that you want to make her dinner and watch a movie and maybe tell her that you respect her decision that she doesn't want to have sex yet and tell her that you want to get to know her emotionally before you have sex you haven't been dating that long so wait until she's ready

[lumos]

Just ask her, be blunt. If you try to sugarcoat it or act overly casual, it'll just look a lot more suspicious. If she knows how respectful you are, she won't even hesitate. If she hesitates, just tell her she doesn't have to worry and that you're not asking her to come over for sex. If she's STILL unsure, it's clear that she doesn't trust you enough yet, which might be a red flag considering the fact that you've already been on 5 dates.