Ladies its research haha how do Act around your crush?

[OldboyJon]

i'm trying to see how girls handle themselves in certain situations and I'm curious to know how you handle siting next to your crush or walking them...honestly I want to learn more about you females and how you handle things I know you guys over think things not that its a bad thing but I just would like to know how the female mind thinks when your around your crush or a boy you like? details would be dope hahaa

1.do you flirt?

2.do you talk to them?

3.if don't talk to them why exactly?

4. body language

5.do you stalk their social networking sites?

6.do you test them to see if they like you or what not?

7.how do try to get their attention

8.are you more talkative or not?

9.how would you subtly hint to them that you like them or interested in them?

[Moonrisekitten]

This question comes up so often. But if it helps someone, I'm glad to repeat myself.

First off, it ALL depends. On the guy, my mood, how much I like him, where we are, how much I know him, and even how I feel about my hair that day. It's important to keep that in mind. There is no right code to reading a girl. We are annoyingly/beautifully complex and we can't really help it. A girl might flirt with one guy just by smiling but then smile at some other guy just to be polite. You never know!

As for me?

1. I love flirting! So much fun. And it really turns me on too. I like the tension

2, usually. I'm a people person. Even though I don't usually like people.

3. They'd have to be hot enough to make me shy. But I'd probably still try to say hi

4. I'll be near them when I can but not too close and not all the time. I want to be near my crush but I don't want to look all obvious.

5. No.

6. Kinda.. For instance I might ask their opinion on my dress or something and if the answer is simple, I assume they don't care, but if they get awkward or say something more interesting like "it fits your body really well" then I'm thinking I might be onto something

7. I try to look good. Even in my sweatpants. I make jokes. I relate to them

8. Maybe more to them compared to the next guy. But not really anymore than I am in general

9. I would hint that they were attractive and I would hint that I thought highly of them. Something like.."I always love what you say. I agree with you almost all the time" and "you always look so spiffy! I love that sweater!". That's me being subtle. Or friendly. But I'll put out a more flirty vibe if I like the guy

[luckyGurl]

Every girl's response is different from others, depends on the girl's personality (introvert/extrovert). I'm an introvert so my responses are below.

1.do you flirt? No

2.do you talk to them? Too shy to talk to my crush

3.if don't talk to them why exactly? Fear of rejection

4. body language. my body language will show nervousness

5.do you stalk their social networking sites? Not all the time but sometime to see pictures :)

6.do you test them to see if they like you or what not? not really lol

7.how do try to get their attention...I smile a lot when I'm talking to others

8.are you more talkative or not? if he can't hear me then I would talk more, if he can hear me then I'll be super quiet lol

9.how would you subtly hint to them that you like them or interested in them? I'll be super nice and sweet when he approaches me.

[OldboyJon]

interesting you kinda like this girl in my class who I sit next to who I'm crushing on who like never talks to me haha

[luckyGurl]

Why don't you initiate stuff since you're crushing on her :)

[OldboyJon]

Haha I've been doing that since the being of the semester I talk to her all the time in person but she doesn't talk to me unless I talk to her so I thought she was shy so intrepid on twitter but she ignores me in there too so I kinda just have up on her hahaha

[luckyGurl]

Did you ask her out on a date yet?

[OldboyJon]

nope she has a boyfriend apparently hahaha that I never knew about she tweeted & they had a picture on instgram something about it so its whatever -__- lmao

[thelowanthem]

Because I'm very shy, especially around people I care to make an impression on, I might sit near him but I might not start a conversation, especially not right away. But my mind will be turning thinking of things that I could say to him. If he actually talks to me I become very talkative and happy.

I have become very aware of how my body language appears to other people so I always keep myself "open" - uncrossed arms, good posture, smiling. This actually helps quite a lot with having people approach me instead. But I still find men's body language strangely difficult to read.

As far as flirting goes, I'm not a touchy-feely type right away. But chances are if I'm smiling a lot, blushing, joking, slightly nervous, and making good eye contact then yes, I'm flirting with you.

Subtle hints? I'll probably glance at him quite a lot in the hopes that he would look back at me and I could flash him a smile. Hanging around near him (but not in a stalkerish way).

[bellabionda]

This is a good question. :-)

1) yes I flirt

2)sometimes I talk to them, depends on how much I like them

3)if I don't. It's because I'm nervous. But I make a lot of eye contact esp if its reciprocated.

4)play with my hair. I look back at them. I don't really remember my body language.

5) NEVER EVER do I stalk them. Ever

6)no I don't test them. I say hi, I gauge their willingness to talk to me.

7,8,9) I make eye contact. Make small talk. Try to engage in a small conv. Maybe joke. I don't overtalj. Nut if I'm nervous. I may stumble when I talk. All this gives them insight that I'm interested

[basketballgirly7]

1. I try to flirt but they usually just take it as me being very nice.

2. Yes I try to talk to them, I'll txt them and if I see them I might initiate a convo

3. Sometimes I don't because I don't want to make it seem like I'm annoying. Because then I think it will freak them out.

4. I act like an idiot.

5. yes.

6. I usually try to make them admit it first.

7. I try to dress pretty. Usually I end up liking guys I work with. So I'll go in when their working and I look pretty, walk past them talk to them etc. Or if I'm working I'll mysteriously have to show up in their department. :)

8. Yes. I'm a girl remember? lol

9. I smile a lot and act like an idiot.

[Anonymous]

1. Yea

2. Yes

4. Not sure how to answer this one

5. Yea but we are also friends so I tell him

6. no don't want to do anything to mess up our friendship ( we've only known each other since September so it's sorta a new one)

7. Text him and ask about the homework sometimes I already know the homework and sometimes I really don't

8. Yea kind of and when I'm not laughing at him being goofy and silly

9. I don't know I really don't I want to I just don't know how ( I have never been with anyone and am currently crushing big time, it's never been this bad before )

I know this is your question but I would like to know the same about guys so could you please answer your own questions from how you act around your crushes ?

It would really help me

[OldboyJon]

1. all the time

2.all time the time even though she never talks to me unless I do ahaha ;/ ( we sit next to each other)

3. I think she hates me or is annoyed by me talking all the time

4. I have a nervous habit of lickng my lips, and raising my eye brows around her

5.eh I try not to kinda hard not to on twitter thou,lucky she's not on instagram lol

6. Nope

7.being funny, embarress myself on purpose makes them laugh, uhh random laughing gets her attention since we sit next to each other

8. yea

[OldboyJon]

9. uhhh I would ask her if she was single or had a boyfriend, ask her how her day is and nwhat not, uhh compliment her hair or w/e notice when hse gets her hair done or its its always up ill say something when its down

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you

[springbreaker]

1. In a way, yes. But not very obviously

2. I'm trying if I find something that is not a ridiculous question or topic

3. I am too shy or someone else is occupying them

4. I try to be open, not closed positions and I have a tendency to use very much gestures anyways

5. YES!

6. I smile and if they kind of smile or giggle back.. depends

7. I try to make a sweet, not too attention-seeking joke

8. No I am not more talkative

9. I'd comment something that they did or something about them.

[Haeleyizzaynsgurl]

1. To shy too

2. To shy

3.because my stomach does cartwheels and I can't think my mind goes blank.

4. I sneak glances. And I move closer.

5. ... I wouldn't call it stalking just making sure I didn't miss anything

6. Yeah

7. It's a bad habit but I talk louder and see if they look at me.

8. I'm shy so I'm quiet unless spoken too then I'm the mist talkative person you ever meet.

9. "is this shirt bad" or "I look horrible don't I?" or I just tell them

[Brianna2010]

I am a confident woman, so I flirt, I talk and I tease. It is a game, boys like the chase as do most women. I like to study a guy's body language to tell if he is interested. You can do the same by seeing if the crush is mirroring your body language it is a good sign they are into you. I do not stalk people on social networks, I find it irritating, because I would not want him doing that to me!

[Ms_stealyoman]

Hi, I currently have a crush on a boy and I sometimes: Try to look away. Sometimes when a girl likes you she will look the other way when she walks past u , the reason she does this is because she doesn't want to look creepy staring at you.