Why do girls lie or make an excuse instead of rejecting a guy? (Page 2)
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mostly because we don't want to hurt your feelings.
1-2 months is a substantial amount of time in which to make yourself ready for a relationship. I don't see what the problem with that is...
youre not pissed because of the excuse which seems legit from those time frames, you're pissed because they turned you down
You don't know the situation, don't make assumptions. She wasn't gonna date x why and z happened, none of those things changed or happened and she still turns around and dates another guy.
well give all the information then, people can't guess based on things you never mention
im not asking about a personal situation, hence why I did not provide any info, I'm talking in general, I know the reasoning behind my own
i gave a general answer which you snapped at me over though, if someone comes out of a relationship theyre going to need time till they date someone else, 1-2 months is a perfectly reasonable time to move on in from their previous boyfriend and from anothe guy asking her out, its not like she turned a guy down then the next day you saw her dating someone else
Not always true, time can be subjective, for example in the situation I was in, the girl was going through multiple issues that she did not want to bring into a relationship before they were resolved, for example her parents were going to divorce soon, she planned to move to another state over 100 miles away and did not want to date until she moved, she was going to therapy over a personal problem she was having , when she started to date the guy none of the issues were resolved, so no.
In the tribal days a woman shooing a man down resulted in getting her titty punched off and thrown in the trenches.
They're probably programmed to avoid potential dangerous conflict.
Because they don't want to hurt your feelings. We say "not really" when we mean "absolutely not" as we know you would take the later so badly...
Yeah I don't know why most women have a problem with being straight up. Those girls who dissed you could've been straight up about it then at least you would know where you stand with them.
Because a lot girls don't know how to reject nicely.
Coz girls want to protect the hearts of the guy
Because she doesn't wanna hurt him
For the same reason men lie...they're gutless
To not hurt feelings.