Helpful Reminders For Women

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I did a myTake for reminders for men, so here is one for women.

You can do what you want with your body. As long as you are healthy, do whatever you want with your body.

It does not matter if you do not have:

1. A flat/toned belly


2. A thigh gap- seriously no one cares


3. Perfect hair


4. Shaved legs/underarms


5. A huge/toned bottom


6. Big breasts


7. A perfect vagina (loose, tight, large/small lips, anything- your vagina is unique to you)


8. Toned arms or legs


9. Dimples

You do not need to reach these standards to be beautiful. Remember that.

You can exercise if you want to, or don't if you don't want to. It's your decision.

Wear make up for random reasons just cause you want to!

Don't wear make up because you want to!

It is not your fault if your SO is abusive (same for men).

It is not your fault if you have daddy problems.

Even if you do have daddy problems, do not let it control you.

It's OKAY to not want children, not everyone does, I know I don't. Children just aren't for everyone.

It's OKAY to love children and want many, it's in our genetics as women!

Not wanting children doesn't mean you hate children, there is a difference.

You are strong women.

You can be weak, it's okay.

You can be very sensitive or not at all.

You can be caring or not at all.

Go ahead and cry, it's okay.

Don't want to cry? Okay, we all deal with sadness in different ways.

You do not need a man(or woman) to be happy.

It is okay though if you are happier/happy having a man/woman to love.

Your "place" is not in the kitchen or on the bed on your back.

For women who are submissive, it's okay to be submissive (or even a little in DDLG, I am too). It doesn't make you weak, or weird, and it doesn't mean you have daddy issues.

For women who are dominant, it's okay to be dominant, (like a mommy for MDLG/LB). It doesn't make you weird to enjoy being a dominant.

"Keep your head up princess, your crown is slipping."

Also, you should do what makes you happy.

It is not your fault, you were not asking for it if you were raped/sexuallyassualted or abused. Just because you are a victim of this does not mean it is your fault.

Lastly, you do not need to meet the standards of people who do not matter.

I repeat, you do not need to meet the standards of people who do not matter.

Women, you go through a lot of bullshit.

I appreciate what you go through, thank you.

[RedAmulet]

No one has to do anything but in my personal opinion I wouldn't want to date someone who's overweight or doesn't exercise because I love exercise and I feel we wouldn't get along. I'm all for people being comfortable in themselves but there's no point lying to someone, if they're morbidly obese then of course they're going to be less attractive than someone whos of average size. I think we should encourage healthy living but not force it (except for kids, they should be forced to do exercise)

[shortandsweet24]

This is truly incredible! Thank you for posting it. Though, I would just like to add on to everything so wonderful that you said that, for women:

It is not your fault, if your significant other cheated lied or treated you disrespectfully but, it is your responsibility not to let them do it again.

Other than that, you pretty much hit every point and empowered young and older women with your brave words. :)

[juliaanita]

really good take! You have wisdom beyond your years:)

[Lolomon]

I think your last statement says it all for both sexes actually "you do not need to meet the standards of people who do not matter".

[ClariceOwen23]

I enjoyed both this and the men's take. Good job!

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

thank you

[Heyyakkk]

Thank you for this T_T

[KDA20]

Covered everything in my response to men's take

[AlwaysBelieving]

Good take. Hopefully more gals realize this.

[FirmSteam]

Makes girls all sound like they need 24/7 therapy