Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men




It's no secret that, on average women live longer than men and on top of that generally score higher on happiness ratings, especially in elder years although both men and women are generally less happy when elderly than when in their 30s by a significant amount.



The first reason why women enjoy life more than men is that they are not intelligent, or rather curious, enough to look out for the bad things in life. I am not saying that women don't worry and feel anxiety because they usually feel this worse than men do but the difference is that men tend to take any spotted danger and make it into a much bigger issue than it really is.



Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men.

Men tend to take any issue in their life and immediately try to apply logic to find a solution. The problem is that what they tend to do is use emotional anxiety to 'motivate' their problem solving and it ends up being that if they can't find a solution, they then use anger and sadness to motivate them to keep trying to find the solution.



Women, on the other hand have simpler solutions to 'problems' that all fundamentally revolve around soothing their pain and not really addressing the cause of it.


Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men

Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men

In general, females tend to take the 'bad side' of life and turn it into an opportunity to indulge in things they otherwise wouldn't (such as chocolate) or instead of worrying about fixing it, they just enjoy the problem by showing off to their friend how much worse their hardship is than the friend's. In essence, when women spot bad things their brain blinds them to what the real issue is and immediately sets into cope-mode.



Now, let's look at the second reason why women are happier than men... Oh, that's right, because women ration their happiness. This is a very simple idea that men fail to grasp, many for their entire lives. If you aim to always be happy, you end up being extremely unhappy. If you aim to be fairly okay, you end up being very okay and this is the art that women have mastered over years of evolution.


Example 1) The giggle


Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men

Women love to giggle. If they find anything slightly amusing, they don't simply smile or think 'yeah that's funny' they physically giggle and think 'that wasn't really that funny' afterwards. By putting in thought after the amusement, they manage to both enjoy it and to see how silly it is nonetheless.


Example 2) Sarcasm AKA passive aggression


Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men

When women have an issue, they don't simply face it head on, as we already established but if that issue is a person and the person is directly annoying them, women enter passive aggressive mode to pacify the individual while feeling like they are 'releasing' parts of their anger through the sarcasm despite it not being felt on the other end most of the time. This not only avoids conflict but helps women to make the person feel as if the woman is pleasant and in turn often favoring her and being kinder to her than they used to be, rinse and repeat with anyone.



Onto the third reason why, this is perhaps the most important thing to understand because it's very harsh but true. Women are pathetic and they are content with that fact. Deep inside women lack the urge to be worshipped, or at least most do. They instead seek out men and even women who are off-kilter to entertain them and bring them joy. TV series are far more viewed by women than men, so on and so forth. On the other hand, men tend to be far more obsessed with whichever series it is they watch or something similar. The divide is more obvious with books (count the number of male authors, now count the nunebr of avid readers you know who are male and switch the gender). Men seek to entertain and women enjoy it, they sit back relax and let men run the world, or at least it used to be that way.


Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men

When you are the audience, it's simpler and simple to a human mind means easy to work around. Women don't need admiration per se, they simply need to show it and feel the other person appreciates the appreciation. This gives them a real upper hand in life as they needn't put effort into dealing with people, the effort comes in when they meet someone who has put the effort in previously to impress them.

Sexist Take: Why Women Enjoy Life More Than Men
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