My mind is full of very random questions most days but these I've set aside for you alone to answer. It's also very frustrating only asking 3 of these at a time in a 24hr period. Especially when I have other questions to ask on top of these. I've decided to ask these all at once just to clear my head of them. (Guys, if you feel the need to chime in try and be respectful.)
What goes through your head when a guy gives you a compliment?
I often give women compliments on small things like Hair, Eyes and Shoes. Mainly because I think anything else might mark me as the dreaded "Creep" which I try to avoid at all costs. But I always wonder if women think I'm hitting on them or I'm just trying to be nice to make you feel better. Rather than just remarking on something I really like from a visual stand point.
Have you ever run from love?
Say there's someone who's really in love with you but for whatever reason you don't think you deserve it or aren't ready for it.
How often have you pursued a crush?
In my experience guys always have to chase after the girl. Kinda like we're always running a race to nowhere that never ends. I've always wondered how much a girl goes after a guy and what makes a guy worth that kind of effort? (Even finding that image took some word play.)
Have you ever been attracted to a guy you didn't date, even though he wanted to date you? If so, why?
When I was 14-17 I tired very hard to convince one girl to date me. Even she admitted to being attracted to me but wouldn't date me. Years later she told me she would have but feared after rejecting me the first that I would do the same back to her.
How often do you need to change a tampon in a day?
I didn't want to look up a picture related to that question so I went with a cute puppy.
What's the one thing you won't do sexually?
Do I really have to expand on this question...
How honest should a guy really be?
An Ex stressed to me in the beginning of our relationship that she wanted total honesty from me in all things. Repeating that over and over. One day in the spirit of that I told her that I got hit on by a 15yr old, to which I only responded with "I'm flattered, thank you." and promptly left the area. But still in that spirit I made the comment "I wish more girls were like that when I was 15. It would've saved me a lot of effort." Which started WW3 between us and left me confused as to why.
Why don't more women get along with each other?
If guys don't like each other we usually just avoid each other but there's always an unspoken truce in public. Unless we're provoked. Women seem to really let each other know they hate the other. I've always wondered why women can't get along too much.
How rough are your Physical Exams?
I had to take an Ex to the E.R. one day because she had some severe pain in her stomach and she wanted me to stay with her in the room. The Doc came in and after some questions started a pelvic exam but he was, to me, being INSANELY rough about it. I saw my ex wince in pain prompting me to threaten the doc and I almost got kicked out of the room. But it made me think "Fuck, is that what it's like for women!"
Bonus Question: Name one thing you wish men would do more of and one thing they'd do less of?
Q: What goes through your head when a guy gives you a compliment? A: Something like this: Aww!! This made my day <3
Q: Have you ever run from love? A: Not yet
Q: How often have you pursued a crush? A: I have a few times
Q: Have you ever been attracted to a guy you didn't date, even though he wanted to date you? If so, why? A: Initially I liked him but didn't wanna date him.
Q: How often do you need to change a tampon in a day? A: 4-5 times a day, depending on the day of the cycle.
Q: What's the one thing you won't do sexually? A: no pissing or any of the shitting fetishes... but other than that I'm fairly open.
Q: How honest should a guy really be? A: 'Honest with a cushion'. So be honest, but don't be brutal.
Q: Why don't more women get along with each other? A: They're catty, immature, bitchy and jealous.
Q: How rough are your physical exams? A: Never had one.
Q: Bonus Question: Name one thing you wish men would do more of and one thing they'd do less of? A: Srs, talk about their feelings. and stop being so damn pervy!
I actually think a lot of them can be both gender questions apart from the tampon and physical exams. The bonus question is a good one , of to read answers now.
What goes through your head when a guy gives you a compliment? That depends on the situation, my mood, the person who says it, what he says and how he says it. I often tend to think of it as a way he wants to hit on me and then I feel quite awkward and think 'could you please not. I don't want to reject you since I already have a boyfriend.'. If that's not the case then I would think of it in a good way, but again, it all deoends on what he says and how he says it. Have you ever run from love? Yes especially if I don't have strong feelings for that guy. I kinda had that when i started dating my boyfriend because I liked him but didn't love him in that way or anything and I also wasn't sure if I should be in a relationship because I still had some issues with myself and didn't want to put him through all that. How often have you pursued a crush? Almost every time but i don't develop a crush very often and the only times I didn't persue it was if he lived abroad or something. Have you ever been attracted to a guy you didn't date, even though he wanted to date you? If so, why? Yes. It was because the guy was really sweet, but wouldn't get personal or take initiative and I already knew it would work out. Later he got a girlfriend and she broke up with him pretty much over those reasons. Just because you like someone, doesn't mean they're dating material. How often do you need to change a tampon in a day? I almost never wear them but then 2 to 3 times a day, but that's because i wear inimini tampons What's the one thing you won't do sexually? Threesomes or more or anything that hurts me physically. I get turned off directly by pain. How honest should a guy really be? Difficult question because i think a lot of women don't know either. I think what a lot of women think is annoying is that a lot of men don't really express their feelings and frustrations, because we are really interested in how you feel and what goes through your mind. Till the point where it doesn't hirt our feelings I guess. We don't really want to know you're interested in other girls. Why don't more women get along with each other? Not sure. I think a lot of women try to fit an image of themselves and it depends if other women like that image or not if we hang around them. I only hang around women I don't like if i really have to because we have a mutual friend or something. How rough are your Physical Exams? No idea. Never been to a doctor.
Q: What goes through your head when a guy gives you a compliment? A: Something like this: "Thank you, [name] for being observant. You have made my day :) "
Q: Have you ever run from love? A: Not yet.
Q: How often have you pursued a crush? A: My answer is "never" when you speak of my intention of having a guy as my boyfriend. However, my motives may be subtle like compliments and frequent conversation initiating. Let me share a story (lol). I had a crush on the most excellent boy in Programming class on 10th Grade and I always showered him with my compliments whenever he efficiently ran programs like a guru. It was the farthest I managed for a guy I liked.
Q: Have you ever been attracted to a guy you didn't date, even though he wanted to date you? If so, why? A: I have never been. I haven't been attracted to the guys who asked me out previously.
Q: How often do you need to change a tampon in a day? A: I don't use a tampon since they're almost non-existent here so I haven't seen one in person (it's not popular here in the Philippines and I hear they're expensive so tampons are out.) I use a sanitary napkin and I change them for about 3 times a day, I guess.
Q: What's the one thing you won't do sexually? A: Having sex itself. It's horrific.
Q: How honest should a guy really be? A: All the time. I despise a person using selective truth as a mechanism to keep the "ugly truths" to himself. Tell all of them! It's up to me to internalize the information you have told me. I'll always prefer myself uttering, "Thank you for informing me," over a sentence like, "I should've known."
Q: Why don't more women get along with each other? A: Girls my age always declare a major dislike among the peers they utterly hate. Some even bring it up online. Three reasons: jealousy, competition, and immature behavior.
Q: How rough are your physical exams? A: They're not painful to me. That doctor in your scenario sounds terrible, to be honest.
Q: Bonus Question: Name one thing you wish men would do more of and one thing they'd do less of? A1: Do more of? Accept rejection. No means no. A2: Do less of? Hating feminism and feminists. It's a movement and an ideology, yes, but it does not intend to trample men's rights. Understand, please. :(
What goes through your head when a guy gives you a compliment? - I am a plain jane. So if a guy compliments my looks, I am really flattered on on side and my other mind is like 'did he actually mean it? Or it was just to make me feel good?' If he compliments my shoes, clothes, work etc I am like 'oh nice' in my mind. If I like that guy, I feel really good. Have you ever run from love? -Never been in that situation Have you perused tour crush? -Yes. I was / am quite a socially awkward person. I liked this senior guy in my college. I tried to pursue him. Did stupid things in the process. Long story short, he called me 'one irritating girl' behind my back. Have you ever been attracted to a guy you didn't date, even though he wanted to date you? If so, why? - He was happy to lucky type. Not a fan of it. How often do you need to change a tampon in a day? -I use sanitary napkins and I change them 4-5 times a day. Even more sometimes depending on the flow. What's the one thing you won't do sexually? - There are quite a few things. Threesome, sex with a girl, being fisted, pegging are some of them How honest a guy should be? -Asking honest as it can be. In general, I don't like people who are not upfront about their feelings. I may not like everything they say to me, but I can deal with better than dealing with lack of clarity Why don't women don't get along with one another? -I think it is because of comparing oneself too much with other women. Also jealousy. I feel that women get more jealous of other women , compared to men. Dunno why. How rough are my physical exams? -Just okay
1. 'Aww, that's so nice!' Which is roughly what I say aloud then get embarrassed with myself for reacting weirdly.
2. Nope.
3. I personally haven't.
4. Nope.
5. I don't wear tampons, I use pads instead and I dunno, I think that I'll usually use like at least three a day, most likely more, but I don't really keep track.
6. Uh... I guess scat?
7. Honesty is important. Lying shouldn't be acceptable but at the same time, you don't need to tell each other 100% of what you're thinking. If you know that saying something is going to hurt the other or cause an argument when there's really no reason for it, then I guess just keep quiet? Honesty is good but so is tact.
8. I dunno, dude, I love women and tend to get along with them really well so I can't really answer it. I guess for others it's competition?
9. It's been uncomfortable for me in the past but not really painful.
10. I wish that more men would be able to have friendships with women without trying to progress it into something more. Friendships are just as important as relationships really, not everything needs to be looked at as a potential romantic relationship. Uh, less of... I guess less of bottling up emotions.
1. All I think is, "He's so nice!" 2. Yes, I have run away from love. In one situation, it was because I wasn't ready. Another was because it was with a best friend and didn't want to ruin it. 3. Every other guy I have been with was because I first initiated it. It's weird that there is a pattern, but that's how it's been. 4. I recently did this to a best friend because I was afraid that I wasn't good enough for him. He deserves a lot better person than me. 5. I don't like tampons for many reasons, but the requirement is every 4 hours and no longer than 8hours. 6. Threesome because I want it to be between me and one other person. It's more intimate. 7. I don't want someone to lie to me, but they don't have to tell me everything unless it'll hurt me to not know. 8. I don't have anyone that I've straight out had problems with. I have disagreements and sometimes personalities don't click, but I just avoid those people. I wish I had an answer, but I've never been in that type of situation. 9. It depends on what they are trying to check for. Sometimes doctors have to apply more pressure to test the area. I've only had one that was rough. He was pressing really hard, but he was trying to feel under the skin. Bonus: I wish they would give off the vibe of wanting to know me more as a person than a sexual vibe. Wish they didn't send unsolicited dick pics.
1. I'm super awkward with compliments. Initial reaction is simply "fuck ooooooooff" (has nothing to do with the compliment or the person complimenting, but simply the fact that I have to deal with the situation). Then comes one part wich is kind of flattered and happy and stuff. But then there's the nasty part wondering weither he really meant it, and disagreeing with basicly whatever complement it is :D 2. Yes and no? There was a guy who was in love with me, and I had confused feelings, but just decided it would be better if not. 3. Nope 4. No? I think. 5. Depends on how early in the period it is. First two days probably 5 times? 6. Daddy-kink. Not meaning to offend anyone, but I feel it's just real weird. 7. I value honesty, but use your own judgement. 8. I don't know. I'm more of a guy in that sense. If I don't like someone, I avoid them and make sure they leave me alone. I hate drama. 9. There is quite some prodding involved. But I guess it also depends on pain tolerance. 10. (Bonus) a) I wish guys would be more willing to initiate friendship. I don't know weither it's that way with everyone, but guys can be quite shy if they're not trying to get into your pants... b) I wish guys wouldn't try so hard to be cool. Either you are or you're not. And guess what, it doesn't matter that much! Being who you really are makes a much better impression.
1. If it's my boyfriend, dad, brother or other close person I feel happy and appreciated. If it's a guy I don't know that well it still makes me glad. Both brighten my day.
2. No I haven't. I don't think I would, at least not for thinking I didn't deserve it but maybe for not being over someone else.
3. I've done this once. He must have shown interest too and he must be a decent, nice guy.
4. No, I would kick myself for missing an opportunity like this.
5. Haha. Thank you for not being graphic about that. I'd say about 6-8 times a day, at the worst days.
6. Reversed cowgirl. I'm a bit too self-conscious for it. Also, it would feel weird for me. When on top, I'd like to face him. And definitely not peeing or crapping on each other, no way. Anything else I'm open to trying, at least once.
7. I would like him to be honest about what he's thinking and feeling or I feel like I don't get to know him for who he is. I also do recognize I then have to behave in a manner that doesn't make it uncomfortable for him to do this. He doesn't have to blurt out every single thought, especially if it could be hurtful, but honesty about things that matter and that affect me.
8. ... I honestly don't know. I know what you mean but I never got why. It's just saddening and tiring. Women compete more and believe they put themselves in a better light if they openly point out someone elses flaws, maybe?
9. That sounds to me like a doctor that wasn't good at his job. I haven't had an experience like that. But I have been responded to in snarky ways a couple of times and treated with indifference.
10. I wish they'd be better at communicating their expectations/wishes. I wish they'd do less of the being quiet and distant, and just say it straight out if they're angry/disappointed about something we did (or didn't do).
#1- Compliment by Guy I care about or otherwise- My head sends a signal to my heart to be humble and thankful that someone even cared enough to pay a compliment of any sort!! #2- I have never ran from love- I embrace it, but I have had someone run on me... #3 -- When I was young, I pursued crushes more than once, but the older I have gotten- NOPE I let the pursuing come to me... #4- I am attracted to at least 4 male friends physically. They are my buddies and would NEVER date them. I know their baggage and they know mine! Friend Zone, but Hotties anyway... I think you just have to have the maturity to know your boundaries #5-- Sorry at my age- I don't have a tampon dilemma any longer, and love every minute of missing that... lol #6-The one thing I would never do sexually is get a "Golden Shower" how nasty, while sounding erotic sometimes, really thinking about that makes me gag... #7- I want true honesty. All cards on the table. If it hurts so be it, I would rather hurt by honesty than hurt by a lie # 8- Women are full of emotions and have a hard time controlling them. Those emotions include jealousy, anger, etc... I think I understand men like I do so well because I have always had male friends over female friends, and working with all women, forget it... I love working with men, I have men work for me too... just works better #9-Physical annual- not so bad, I treat it like car maintenance. Get in, get out, get your results. If the "computer" doesn't say there is a malfunction, then check that one off till next year... # 10- I wish men would learn to stop compartmentalizing everything, and be more open emotionally ( not walking around crying all the time, but just tell us how you feel more, don't hide) and I wish more men would grow a light beard- they are HOT!
1. I feel flattered but I'm also a little awkward. But I like receiving genuine compliments from someone without any intentions. 2. Yes I've run from love and tried to ignore it because I wasn't ready and he was my best friend. But I later really regretted it because I fell for him and it was too late as we weren't living in the same city anymore. 3. I don't often pursue crushes. I did for my last relationship many years ago and it was great but also nerve wrecking.
1. I think my first reaction is 'yeah right, now what do you want?' I'm trying to change though but that's the reflex for now. 2. Yeah I have, probably because I thought I didn't deserve it. 3. I didn't exactly pursue it, just told him I liked him and wouldn't mind dating him... does that count? 4. Same answer as number two, thought I didn't deserve it. 5. I barely bleed so as soon as I stop feeling uncomfortable... and I use pads. 6. Anal, pain, like 30 percent of fetishes, I'm a very vanilla person. 7. I like honesty but if what you're saying is harsh, please smile after it, really softens the blow but the message is in. 8. Why don't humans get along with each other? It's because we're different, with different upbringing and ideals and hopes and dreams. 9. I hate them because I usually feel violated, it's like a stranger prodding at your parts. 10. I wish guys would stop generalizing us ladies and start talking to ladies outside their comfort zone.
Haven't you figured out that all the "girls" on this site are fully automated droids? It's so obvious that they're just a bunch of mindless drones controlled by a few simple if/else statements. That's why they repeat the same nonsense over and over.
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