Now this is a subject that many of us consider as "Superficial", or even "Exploiting"...
Nature takes over?
Why does the necessity to hate women who "persecute" men with money exist in us? After all, we all know evolution, and even those who do not know, certainly know what it is. I know it's very likely that most women who read this will stay reluctant of what is being said, and that's okay.
But I think that women have nothing to be ashamed of, because some of them have a need that is natural and in a certain place even "chemical." Is it shameful for a woman to feel better in a relationship in which she feels safe? We have already forgotten that we belong to nature, and it is true, humans are much more developed than animals, but at the very end, we are what we are: Animals.
Have we ever blamed a lioness who decided to go with the strong lion and not with the defeated lion? Of course not. The same is true for women. Some of whom do not have the "gene" that drives them to be found among strong men and they have no "satisfaction" or "arousal" once they see a man with a lot of money. And good for them! We advocate women to be like that, but some women are just incapable.
True/Wrong interests?
Let's look at it in terms of "interests." Is the interest of a man who prefers a thin woman less "sacred" than the interest of a man that prefers chubby/fat women? (there are dozens of millions of guys who prefer these women). Isn't this superficiality equal to both cases?
Obviously, quite a few of us will say "no," because society dictates rules according to which the "fat" are "unfortunate", and therefore any preference for them is being considered as "love of good" or the "affection for weak", and these could never be considered as "wrong". But the truth is that superficiality is equal, because any "beauty preference" that exists in us is ultimately "superficial."
So how does this relate to women who love money? Very simple. We all have interests, and every interest is a product of "body chemistry." The same chemistry that directs us all to feel good about ourselves, and to enjoy what we do. Some of us love to "take"/"get", but there are a lot of us who will get a lot of pleasure from the fact that they give/help and contribute to others. Even men with money, a lot of them love when they know their women are satisfied with their money (which comes easily for them as very wealthy men).
The interest of women who have affection for men with power and men who can give them confidence is equivalent to women whose interest is to take over the family and manage everything.
Remember, the fact that a woman loves money does not necessarily make her a marionette of her man. Same goes in nature: the lion is strong, and its role is to "protect" its pack, and the lionesses are the ones who hunt and feed the pack.
We do not live in Utopia. And ideals are ultimately ideals (hard to be achieved).
Sometimes it's just a necessity of nature
So we see a lot of cases where women accumulate a lot of strength and confidence from the fact that their man has "money" and this is their only way to survive in human nature. Not everyone has the ability to learn and develop themselves in a university or in a way that society dictates us, so it is necessary to have such conditions, in which women can progress and advance. We have nothing to be angry with those women.
This does not detract from their value to the relationship, and we will be surprised to discover that most of the relationships that "hold" their status are relationships in which there is great economic security (a simple logic for all of us, but some of us refuse to accept it).
Therefore, any interest is "sacred" as long as it does not harm and tramples on others in order to sustain itself.
How humans (might) see it from their side
I agree with the fact that there are many women who will feel the need to exploit men with a lot of money and prefer to spend the same money on what they just love, but we keep forgetting that we cannot see through the money. We do not know what's going on in their relationship, and from my own experience with friends who have a lot of money and their women spend nearly $2,000/day (yes, sounds delusional, but you'll be surprised how many women are capable of it) it Is always amazing when you see it from the side. The relationship is almost always looks very healthy, in any aspect.
And let's not forget that $2,000 for them is like 20$ for us, and wouldn't we all give $20/day for our women to be more "relaxed" and more loveable? C'mon.... Answer this with some objective honesty.
Sobriety vs indulgence?
Since I love punch lines, I will say that women should not forget that the more "power" men possess because of the money, and the greater the security comes from him, the more reasons he has to cheat and zigzag among women. (just like in nature).
They have to think well before they are ready to enter into such a relationship. Sure, there are thousands of women who do the same thing and cheat on their man while he is cheating, and then, as far as I'm concerned, a balance exists. I wish everyone success with their choices in life.
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