Loser Women and How to Screen Them Out

[Anonymous]

You guys may never have thought that there is actually such thing as a loser woman. When we give so much value to vaginas how can a woman ever be a loser as long as she keeps having a vagina which does not take any effort. Many men thought that they could just have a one night stand with one of the loser women and never call her again but somehow the loser stuck around and then they started SEEING each other and then became a couple and a couple of years later the guy is in a divorce court losing everything he has from his wealth to his children.

So how can one screen out Loser Women?

1. Tell her no.

see how she reacts. if she goes crazy or if she decides to retaliate then that's not the woman who will make you happy.

2. Insist that she shares the finances.

if for whatever reason she finds that unacceptable then you shouldn't be with that woman. This doesn't mean it's wrong for women to enjoy being wined and dined but any woman who thinks she's entitled to your wallet and never has to make any effort in a relationship is not the right choice for you.

3. Single moms.

if you didn't get this one, watch the video

4. Fail her shit test.

fail every emotional and psychological test she puts you through. Show her that manipulation won't work on you. If that's the kind of partner she's going to be, a controlling, manipulative lunatic, then you're better off without her.

5. See how she reacts to your boundaries.

let her know there are certain situations in your personal life where her opinion doesn't matter. See if she can respect your boundaries.

6. Ask yourself " Is she someone who builds a relationship or someone who just takes from one."

this one should be obvious

7. Bring your balls.

you should be the one who decides how women treat you. Have standards, don't get used by losers, search hard and find yourself a decent woman.

[sageevalentinee]

I mean sure I agree, but I also think this is all common sense. I mean I don't know about the specific points you made, I'm not a guy. But no one, male or female should be manipulating each other, playing games or just simply being disrespectful. The fact that you actually have to explain it is surprising, I would have thought that keeping your integrity and not letting yourself get f--ked over is basic rule of life.

[myTake Owner]

you're right all of these sound really simple but i think we may forget them and need to be reminded to pay attention to these points when we're in a relationship with someone we care about. it's important to know where it's okay to make a sacrifice and where you should just stand up for yourself

[sageevalentinee]

Yeah, exactly, you have to compromise, but you should never allow yourself to be trampled on.

[Shamalien]

interesting opinion, where is this 'sane' place that you come from? How much is property over there?

[sageevalentinee]

@Shamalien Hahaha, well I am taking English Literature, so I have to have a pretty good personal philosophy. But if you're serious, I live in Zurich and I'm afraid prices are pretty steep.<3

[LuWe22]

Look out for problematic women.

[Dchrls78104]

It's an unfortunate fact that there are loser women around; and in my country they can get you killed! To say I have a horror of them is an understatement.

[myTake Owner]

that's messed up. where is this country?

[Dchrls78104]

Trinidad, unfortunately.

[myTake Owner]

i didn't know this. yeah they can do some serious damage to a guy's life. there are a lot of ways for them to get a guy incarcerated but i didn't know about getting killed

[Dchrls78104]

More than one guy has been killed here , having to do with interactions with women; the most outrageous incident involved a 16 year old boy who was murdered because he spoke to a girl after a man had warned him not to!

[BestUserName100]

By there actions.

[myTake Owner]

exactly

[BestUserName100]

Yep call it destiny. There’s no way God would want you getting with them. What a easy decision. They are no good and he’s leading me elsewhere.

[BestUserName100]

DAMN.. CREEPY.. WOMEN...

IM NOT THAT EASY.. 👀

[ManOnFire]

Excellent straight-and-to-the-point brief Take. My ex was No.6 and eventually I finally gathered to courage to tell her about her bullshit.

Your brief and simple yet very important Take touches on one of the core problems with women: many simply have no respect for men in a relationship and want men to fear losing them if they push back or stand up to her in the same way that she selfishly feels free to do. They want men to hold back and put them on high and they want to make men afraid of any repercussions for standing up for himself or putting down boundaries. As you said, ultimately men must not give in to the tactic.

[UnicornLobotomy]

Most guys are not taught these valuable lessons and it usually leaves their, and possibly their kids' lives shattered. This is very important information, it won't be received well, its as if this is best received when it is taught by an actively involved father or it is forged by fire (thot drama).

[Anonymous]

One thing I hear a lot of married guys do is say

"I don't wanna get in an argument with her, its just easier to let her do her thing even though I disagree. It'll be easier that way and she won't be mad for 2 weeks."

I can't live like that. I wouldn't put up with that. If I disagree I disagree, and if she does then she does. No one should cave to the other's demands because you feel "its easier that way" just as no one should emotionally manipulate the other because "I didn't get my way"

[myTake Owner]

i can't live like that either but i can understand why those married men say that. after living with a woman for years no matter how annoying she is, those guys become emotionally dependent on those women. now if you add the threat of losing half your belongings in divorce settlement i can see why married men put up with so much abuse which is exactly why i don't want to get married

[Opinion Owner]

well once all this me too stuff falls out and we eventually change marriage laws that won't be an issue

[Hurlyburly]

I do agree with most points but what exactly are shit tests? 😅 Because "randomly tell her no and see how she reacts" sounds like one to me. And what would you do if the woman doesn't do any "shit testing" 🤔🤔

[myTake Owner]

all women test their partners and if one of them doesn't then that's a very good sign

[Hurlyburly]

I highly doubt that it applies to "all women" but okay.

[myTake Owner]

yes they do. and it's not an accusation on women because a lot of times women do this without even knowing it. women just want to see if their partners are committed enough to their relationship but if men agree to be constantly tested at some point that relationship becomes sort of manipulative. every woman at some point in her relationship with her partner buys a new dress and asks how do i look in this dress? or shows her partner a picture of another woman and asks if she's beautiful. these are all tests and they can get more and more intense as they go on so it's on men to stop that

[Hurlyburly]

So asking a man for his opinion is something bad now xD alright.

[myTake Owner]

if you're going to pass judgment based on his answer or if you're going to manipulate him by putting him in a tough spot then yes it's not okay

[Hurlyburly]

And if I just want to know if a specific dress looks okay or if I should look for another one? There's not always some secret intention in people's questions...

[myTake Owner]

i didn't say it's always malicious. i mean if you're prepared to hear any kind of answer then asking questions is perfectly fine. i would do the same if i want to buy a shirt or something

[Shamalien]

it's not randomly telling her no, it's letting her know where boundries are and not being a total pushover

[Eila_]

hahahaha this guy is fucked

[Wolframium]

@Hurlyburly If I imagine I'm in some insane parallel reality, where I have girlfriend and I'm being asked about dress, I'm just saying that I don't know, don't care etc. I'm tech guy. Not fashion guy.
The problem is that some of these manipulative/examining questions are just like regular ones. There is no way of telling them appart.
And all what it would took is just being honest. But I'll gonna have girlfriend earlier than that.

[dianagirl]

@Eila_ That's why I like visiting Girls Forums. There are too many bitter men (maybe because they're not "gettin' any") and they come on forums like these, spewing their hatred, anger, bitterness, etc. towards women.

[myTake Owner]

@dianagirl the fact that you're launching personal attacks based on no logic shows who's really bitter. i think this was a pleasant conversation and i respected all the different opinions and there was no hatred before you came along

[Anonymous]

1,4,5 - you can reduce it to one question "does she respect you?"
2 - true
3 - I don't agree with this point. Girls do stupid things because the first love makes blind and some men reject any care/contact to their kids. It's not always girl's fault or because of her problems with herself if the father disappears and doesn't want participate in child support.
6 - this point isn't always so obvious. If negative emotions are involved is an objective situation analysis not possible (I overreacted often because of that in the past)
7 - don't be evil but don't take shit

[Bananaman177]

Slight problem:

For every good man out there, there is approximately 0.00000000023 good women.

So quite a few good men are going to have to stay single forever. No way around it.

[myTake Owner]

it seems that way yeah

[idarodes]

Not true. You haven't looked for the right woman for you hard enough

[Eila_]

where'd you get that stat from? ohh from your small brain?

[Bananaman177]

@Eila_ Every pink downvote = one million likes.

[Eila_]

You don't have any so..

[Bananaman177]

@Eila_ That's because you're too CHICKENSHIT to do it. But some girl will come along with balls, just you wait. Won't be you, that's obvious. Prove me wrong right now, I dare you.

See, you won't do it.

[BattleKitten77]

I think women who focus on petty things like reality tv and have millions of dumb selfies on social media are red flags as well. Maybe not as obvious but certainly an indicator of low IQ and selfishness

[Eila_]

oh and no men do that

[BattleKitten77]

@Eila_ You are the perfect example of a petty bitch. This question is specifically is asking about women

[Shutupman]

Why anonymous? Why only value a woman’s vagina? That first part made you sound like a loser. Men don’t just crave sex and vagina, they want companionship, someone that can support them when they need it themselves, someone they can trust and protect, men need love too.

But except for that part I agree, those are red flags indeed.

[myTake Owner]

you tell me! what are women valued for other than vagina? what do they bring to relationships and what do they offer to the world? i agree men need love and support but are women willing to offer that to their partners or are they in a relationship to take care of their own physical and emotional needs?

[Shutupman]

Being human, having a brain. Creating society’s, building the future. We do everything men do more or less like most men do more or less everything women do. What do men bring to the relationship that women don’t? Not sure where you are from but in Northern Europe women and men are equal and support one another in a relationship.

[myTake Owner]

how does you having a brain and being human benefit your boyfriend? and no women do not support their men because if they did women wouldn't dump their SO's as soon as they experience hardship. ask any girl if she'll stay with a man who cannot financially support himself and you'll see how supportive those girls are.

[Shutupman]

women should be valued for exactly the same things as men: being human , having a brain (being intelligent), creating societies, etc

You obviously got burned, because you generalize all women lol.

I met my now husband shortly before he deployed, over the course of nearly 3 years we did long distance and it was me who mostly flew over to visit him, I spend well over 10.000 dollars in those 3 years visiting him. Because I knew he couldn’t leave. I worked so much overtime every month just so I could take leave and go see him. If he needed me, he could call me day and night.
It was me who moved and left everyone I knew behind to be with him. I gave up my job, sold my belongings and had to start all over in a foreign country.

He has a respectable job, but does not earn a lot. We love each other even through the hardships and we both work hard towards our future.

Funny thing I know others who have similar stories and that have been together for over 10 years now.
So no, you are simply generalizing.

For all the stuckup awful women there are there is an equal amount of asshole awful men. You are only seeing one side of the story.

[MissChasityL]

Too many women like that nowadays lol. Your post reminds me of 90 days fiancé for some reason lol.

[HereIbe]

My wife was a "single mom". She was a "single mom" because her husband DIED. He developed early-onset Parkinsons, which killed him. Over that time, she cared for the kids AND him. So, there she was, a WIDOW, but according to you, you piece of shit, she is a LOSER. You're disgusting.

[myTake Owner]

how many of these single mothers do you think are single because of their husbands' death and how many are single because they didn't feel responsible to their husbands, their marriage and families? so these women thought it's okay to just throw their husbands away like a piece of garbage just because they were bored and by doing that they were rewarded everything that the husband had saved all his life. that's a pathetic loser and all guys should avoid such women. your wife is merely an exception to what's really happening. and you can't deny that even though your wife is not one of those losers, forming a relationship with her was a big challenge with all her problems and the kids and everything. a challenge that so many guys don't look forward to taking on. i assume you were married once before you married this single mom. that means you had your own problems in the past that you brought into the relationship. but yes single mothers are a terrible choice for guys who have never been married and you can call me a piece of shit all you want but this is reality

[HereIbe]

I don't FUCKING CARE! My wife was a single mother, and you swept ALL single mothers into the same trashcan.

You are evil. WHY DO YOU HATE WIDOWS?

[HereIbe]

As for "a big challenge", weaklings and sissies can't handle big challenges. It's that simple.

[myTake Owner]

alright keep having your opinions

[Curmudgeon]

Of course Herelbe does not care, he cannot read for comprehension and just wants to be an asshole.

[Eila_]

@Curmudgeon you're the asshole

[Eila_]

its always the guys that can't get with girls with these ideas lol, just saying.

[myTake Owner]

@Eila_ what's your problem exactly? why are you so mad? go and share it with people on gag and get some support

[Eila_]

why being chicken and posting it by hiding yourself? you answer that first.
all you're after is attention

[myTake Owner]

@Eila_ you can call me whatever you want. but it's obvious something has happened to you which has made you this angry at men. i'm saying you should deal with your problem instead of insulting random men. and the reason i posted this anonymously is because i don't want crazies to know my username

[Eila_]

dude, you just dissed all females lol?

[myTake Owner]

@Eila_ only a Loser woman would get offended by this. you idiot didn't even read the text because i specifically used the words "decent woman" in my take. this is not about all women but i just looked at your profile now and noticed you're from Australia. i know the feminists from Australia are super crazy even worse than American crazy feminists. so i see where all this anger comes from. but sweetheart no one cares about your fragile ego

[Eila_]

hahaha what a total fool

[Curmudgeon]

@Eila_ whatever bitch. The point is that mytake owner isn't lumping in widows and other tragedies with some butch (like you?) Who just up and left one day because she was vaguely dissatisfied and took away the kids from their otherwise loving dad.

[Eila_]

@Curmudgeon haha Sure BITCH, who knows what you did to deserve that in the first place

[myTake Owner]

@Eila_ wow. some man must have really fucked you up to get you so filled with hatred toward man. or some woman. you certainly look like the type. my point is you should relax

[Eila_]

Says the person posting about loser women? Lol

[myTake Owner]

@Eila_ you know talking shit online is not a good substitute for therapy. you need professional help. what i say about women does not come from hatred. i've just observed a lot of assholes like you

[CasaNorba]

Bro very few "single mothers" are actually single mothers because their husband died

[D_Bone_Steak]

A male or female raised with no male role models or a model that was a vagina sycophant to every vagina he had to deal with is not going to know any of this.

Common sense to the rest of us, male or female.

[IMainHanzo]

Yeah a lot of these are true. More men need to actually set boundaries and be more honest with themselves regarding relationships.

[ronaldo75]

Millennial woman HATE when men refuse to take their shit. They either lie about you victimizing them, they ghost on you OR they become aggressive and deflect.

[GermanGuy87]

a lot of this is good information. Unfortunately a lot of guys ignore all of this and try to bend themselves for a 'loser woman' so to speak

[CasaNorba]

good article bro, this shit is worth gold!

I think we need to see more of this and less PUA/Dating Coaching bullshit once and for all.

[Anonymous]

Any woman who thinks she can sleep around throughout her 20s and feel entitled to "Mr. Right" when her looks start to fade away and she actually wants to settle down is a loser.

[Eila_]

maybe stop being so weak when you see a girl, ta daaaaaaaa problem solved

[myTake Owner]

have you heard the expression "with age comes wisdom"? let me just say you're really wise

[Eila_]

it def hasn't worked for you mate

[myTake Owner]

it will when i get to be as old as you are

[Eila_]

doubt it, you're male.

[myTake Owner]

thank you for being the perfect example for mytake. next time i write about crazy women i'll use your profile pic

[Eila_]

Make sure to hide your name then too

[myTake Owner]

is this about the boyfriend who told you to piss off? is that why your so mad at everyone? listen if your going to be mad at me instead of your boyfriend you might as well give me a piece of a$$. i mean if i'm going to play the part of your unloving boyfriend that would be the least you can give in return

[ImJustCurious13]

So women should never take personal responsibility for their own bullshit?

[CasaNorba]

and what exactly is your definition of being "weak"?

[nerms123]

Do non loser women even exist? 😂😂😂

[myTake Owner]

you tell me. i hope they do

[nerms123]

I think I’m a loser but the problem is I used to be a non loser but guys took advantage of that and I dated a wide variety of different types of guys. I really loved my ex but by that time I was already acting loser ish and I resented him for trying to control the situation through some of these tactics. I just feel like we can’t win.

[myTake Owner]

those guys who took advantage could have been hurt by some other women. who knows where this cycle starts. but if your ex used these tactics to avoid being manipulated can you really blame him? i don't think anyone should win in a relationship because if you're winning it means your partner is kind of losing.

[nerms123]

Yeah I have to agree with you

[MajesticTwelve]

Oh MGTOW, how I've missed you.
As anti-feminism as I am, I'm also anti MGTOW.
You're both the same groups, just with different sex organs.

[myTake Owner]

this is actually not MGTOW. if you want to accuse me of something at least use the right term. and i didn't say all women are losers so i don't see how you can be against this unless you see yourself as one of these women. MGTOW's don't seek relationship with women at all and mytake is about finding the right women to start relationships. can you see how this is not MGTOW?

[IMainHanzo]

Pretty much my take on both sides. Thanks my guy

[myTake Owner]

@IMainHanzo thanks for reading man

[IMainHanzo]

@mytake you're welcome my guy

[MajesticTwelve]

Ok, since you seem thick, let me break this down for you 1 by 1.

1. Tell her no.
To what? No... she can't go out? No she can't cook that for dinner? What are you saying no to? What are you testing her for? Her response, or your ability to control her and what she does?

2. Insist that she shares the finances.
What if she's a stay at home? What if she's your wife and is completely reliant on you for finances? A guy like you will likely seethe with resentment at that fact, and constantly argue about it.
3. Single moms.
Depends on circumstances. What about single dads? Should I avoid them? What if they're great dads? What if it's not their fault?

4. Fail her shit test.
Assuming every woman will test you, manipulate you, and push you. Just wait around for her to try this and then, what? Look for an excuse that may not be legitimate and then ditch her because, this video says so?

5. See how she reacts to your boundaries.
"there are times when her opinion doesn't matter" Ok.
Then there are times when "your opinion doesn't matter" and she should be able to do whatever she wants in those situations, because your opinion doesn't matter. After all, every healthy relationship has times when they completely disregard their partners opinion.

6. Ask yourself " Is she someone who builds a relationship or someone who just takes from one."
That's every relationship, whether or not you're female or male. In my experience MOST times I give far more than I get back. Most guys just want to fuck their girl and then go out with their friends. That's fine. So what am I getting back? Should I only ever do things in my relationship to get something in return?

7. Bring your balls.

If you can't stand up for yourself, you're 1far too immature to have a serious relationship of any kind anyways. Forget about bringing your balls, if you can't stand up for yourself, your balls probably haven't even dropped yet.

[IMainHanzo]

@MajesticTwelve oh my bad. I was agreeing partially to both mgtow and feminism being toxic. As well as the original poster making valid concerns.😂

[MajesticTwelve]

@IMainHanzo All good, I just saw this thread going on longer, so, I wanted to be part of the group!

[IMainHanzo]

Thanks fam 👍

[silvermoon84]

I don’t understand how this is a mgtow post though. We have stuff on the Internet telling us how to weed out loser guys, and there are just as many shitty females as there are shitty men. Isn’t what’s good for the goose also good for the gander?

[IMainHanzo]

Yes. Smart outlook. Keep it up

[Evil_Chuck]

@silvermoon84 You are absolutely correct. I've read similar articles geared toward women advising them not to get involved with unsuitable male partners, and I don't consider that sexist or anti-male. So why should such a message to men about female partners be presumed anti-female? Please continue making sense, and using sense; the Internet needs more like you.

[Wolframium]

How is this MGTOW? It's basically „don't let women trat you like shit, don't think with your dick“.
How would you reacted if the sex-roles would be reversed? Probably something like „you go, girl“, right?
You are anti-a lot of things. Me too. But you are pro-equality? Because that takes away your girl advantages in dating and relationships. Men's too, but there is so few of them it's basically not worth mentioning.

[CasaNorba]

"You're both the same groups, just with different sex organs."

you mind explaining why?

[Anonymous]

First question... ask her if she is a feminist.
If she says YES. Run like a motherfucker.