Why I Think Being An Introvert Is Ruining My Life (Page 3)

[kinetic1983]

I'm a introvert too but you have to make yourself do the things that make you anxious. Its not easy but you have to keep trying. Go on YouTube and search Frank James. He talks about personality types primarily but has good videos on social anxiety and other stuff that you are having issues with. You can do it!

[more_than_a_guy]

I think in addition to the introvertness, you have social anxiety, which is the one that holds you back. Nothing wrong about introverts, but you should work on the social anxiety and care less about what people think. I an not saying that you should be a sociopath, but a little bit more about yourself than others. And even introverts need friends, so try to learn methods to keep conversations going and overcome the fear.

[cheekylad]

Hey am 50 lived a wild life cazry cheeky bloke one thing girls allways say is AM handsome. problem is I can't chat to women unless they chat with me first. even then I missed lot's of sexy fit devine looking women go I missed kissing cuddles showing love flowers and holding hands. a lot single and looking for love. am hard as nails soft heart gd job still available for a soul mate sound's to gd too me ture I know I find my soul mate one Day untill then lives goes on lol x

[Anonymous]

Differences about me, I'm not afraid of people I go outside and talk to them, just find to many of them stupid ( not saying that I'm the smartest one, probably area I live in) and I hate to be filmed or pictured...

I have VERY dark sese of humour a lot could find offensive...

[NatashaJ]

I don't feel the same way but maybe because I always have annoying people inserting themselves in my life to be friends with me lol AKA my best friend.

[Deathraider]

Honestly, just find a relatively small group of people like you, it could just be one person.

I mean you shouldn’t feel forced at all. Take small steps.

[fionaglenanne]

yes, I totally agree.
You have too come out of your shell and face the world. After a while you will get used to it.

[Aethereal]

Your myTake has inspired me to write my own. Because I don't think being an introvert is a bad thing. Check it out if you feel like it :)

[chriss]

Trust me your life is awesome. Would you rather have cancer and suffer miserably? Every cancer patient would die to have your life

[IlyaTheImpaler]

I think some research linked social isolation to higher chance of Alzheimer’s disease, health issues and early deaths no biggie

[Girther10]

Lol! “ Alzheimer’s” and “early death”? Really? What research has made that link? Lol
I’ve never heard even a peep about such a thing.
And, srry, but how does your hyperbole and exaggeration helpful to this Asker?
Just seems a bit cruel...🤷🏻‍♂️

[monkeynutts]

Just be yourself, trust in your intuition. Be honest and loyal to the people you care about. Unfortunately people are not reliable, many are not trustworthy, so be brave.

[PositiveT]

I totally relate to everything you say. The only one way I'm different is when I'm at work. My work personality is confident & can deal with anything. Outside of work it's a daily struggle.

[SearchingTheSoul]

I thing you have a good grasp on what challenges are holding you back. I don’t know as I would say ruining your life. I do think the right friend which may be a guy will stick with you to help you overcome some of the things you have talked about.

[Wizzbang]

You just have to try out more. Take baby steps towards doing stuff that you like, the people and relationships will come when you're ready. Don't worry about it!

[LifeEqualsLove]

It’s definitely hard but I think we can change if we really want to

[Avicenna]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. The main thing is for you to be comfortable with yourself.

[Omar5881]

I share your SAME exact feelings it's like I'm writing the take , sometimes I just wanna scream or something just to speak since I'm so silent all the time

[belarus]

God, I can identify! I think a lot of shy guys have the same problem.

[b_jonathan1]

I for one try to talk to introverted people and try to make them feel like they can talk more at least around me. I like helping people and tbh breaking someones heart will happen in most cases but even introverted people find their special someone

[Andreadeb]

It's ok to be scared... but you can't let fears don't let you live your life!!!

Don't miss occasions!!!