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What I Learned About Women decades in the Friend Zone (Page 2)

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  • Anonymous
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    I hate these friend zoned bitter men that always hate women because she doesn't have sex with you because you were "nice"

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    • Aakash_Hangargi
      Aakash_Hangargi
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      It's not about sex, but they even don't date nice men

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
      +1 y

      The my take isn't bitter. And its true. The act of a man making a move is huge. Either the guy is the creep who tried to kiss you... or the hottie you made out with. The nice guy... like I was... saw myself as being a kind gentleman. "I won't kiss her because I want to be polite. Dont want to upset her." That mindset was wrong.

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    • BlckGrl
      BlckGrl
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      I agree. These "good guys" can be just as bad. Being nice doesn't get you brownie points for sex.

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    • Anonymous
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      Exactly. Ever notice how every guy claims to be the good guy too. Never the bad, its always the other guy. What cry babies.

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    • BlckGrl
      BlckGrl
      +1 y

      Honestly

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    • Ash525
      Ash525
      +1 y

      Gag is filled with a bunch of weak cry baby guys😂 nothing new

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    • KrakenAttackin
      KrakenAttackin
      +1 y

      Very well said.

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    • KrakenAttackin
      KrakenAttackin
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      @Ash525 That is true enough, there are a lot of Captain-Save-A-Hoes on GAG.

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  • DrMeow
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    depends, some people are within the LGBTQ+ , not into sex, or not into whatever u listed.
    Good take tho. 100% agree about the slut shaming part.

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  • Cherokeehp
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    How long did it take you to learn this cause this is basic shit? Most of this stuff is common sense.

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  • Secret6620
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    I am always excited for your Mytakes!!! You have sooooooo much experience!!! Well done 🙋🙆☪️

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  • es20490446e
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  • Twinrova
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    How to get out of the friend zone? Just be Chad, forehead.

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
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      gotta be chad or tyrone. haha

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    • Twinrova
      Twinrova
      +1 y

      or Chang

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  • lockster
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    +1 y

    Well getting women isn't complicated. Just go to a women you like talk to her a bit, and then do a bit of moves, ask her out. If she rejects move on to the next. If u dont feel confident, go work out

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    • lockster
      lockster
      +1 y

      People think getting women is a puzzle

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    • Junior42
      Junior42
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      what are a bit of moves? Can u please explain?

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    • lockster
      lockster
      +1 y

      Well it depends, just do something to make em think ur interested.

      If she rejects u then go to another girl.

      The main problem guys on this site have is that they try so hard to get a girl and then give up 1 time.

      Reply
  • DaddyRollingStone
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    Yoda Age: 28
    +1 y

    Don't you feel weird sleeping with a woman while dating another?

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
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      It was a first date. The answer is no. Women do this all the time. you think that prior to a relationship they are only going out with you? haha. I got news for you. Women on these dating apps are talking to 5 to 12 guys at the same time. Men need to wake up to that even though women like to pretend they are not. They have dozens of guys to choose from on tinder, bumble, cupid, plenty of fish. dozens of thirsty guys. You are just another random dude probably her third date that week.

      Now... if you are talking about having sex with more than one girll at the same time? I dont do that. its not my thing. friends with benefits has the purpose of relieving that need for sex until you find that relationship partner.

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    • DaddyRollingStone
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      +1 y

      I don't think it's necessarily wrong to see multiple people before you go into a relationship but I also tend to approach dating seriously so if I found out a girl I liked was sleeping around after we met but before we started "dating" it would still be the end of us. I know my worth, bad women are a dime a dozen.

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  • NYCQuestions1976
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    Your friends are hot. Can I get some numbers for the women in the top picture? 👍😂

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    • Apope16
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      When I was in the friendzone guys would come up to me in the clubs etc all the time and ask me that. The answer is no. If there are girls where you live that you like I am happy to give you advice on how to attract them though. But getting a number from another guy is very weak man mentality. What attracts a woman is the direct cold approach. confidence. being authentic and to the point. "Hey, nice to meet you. I saw you from across the way. You're really pretty. We should meet up for a drink sometime. Can I get your number?"

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    • NYCQuestions1976
      NYCQuestions1976
      +1 y

      It wasn't really a serious request. Regardless, if directness was always the answer (which it should be, but often it's not), the "wingman" would've never been invented.

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
      +1 y

      The wingman was invented for chickenshit beta male guys. Read my mytake above. Women like boldness. Even if you are an average looking guy you will fuckin stand out. LIke say you are at a bar or a club and there are a group of 6 girls seated. Go right up to all 6 girls and introduce yourself. Just be like "Hi ladies, my name is Todd..." Then shake or give a fist bump or high five to ALL 6 girls. This display of manly confidence and good manners will impress them even if they have a bitch face. Ignore the bitch face and rolled eyes. maintain your confidence. Then point to the girl you like in a group and say, "I really think your friend is pretty. If she is funny I'd like to ask her out for a drink sometime. Do you guys think she is funny?" Then the group of girls who are drunk will be like "She is fuckin funny!" etc. Just kind of make it up. But do not buy the ladies a drink.

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    • NYCQuestions1976
      NYCQuestions1976
      +1 y

      Yeah I've never had any issues with my confidence or humor or creativity and I've swatted enough barflies in my younger life. Plus one divorce is enough for me for a lifetime...

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
      +1 y

      oh i see. so you are full purple pill now. only for fun type of goal

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    • NYCQuestions1976
      NYCQuestions1976
      +1 y

      Nah, no purple pill... yet. Don't jinx me. lol

      Reply
  • TheFlak38
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    you really get the best ones as I see in the photos. Whores in training.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    It's a trial-and-error process, sometimes it bothers me when people call it a skillset or learnable skill, it's a long story to explain but I have started to like the red pill community lately.

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    • sensible27
      sensible27
      +1 y

      If you play the 'game' you're gonna lose sometimes...

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    I guess it depends. Anyone who would try to understand me by reading this would be in huge trouble. But I'm not like other women anyway.

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    • OptimisticDaria
      OptimisticDaria
      +1 y

      Same, I don't do mind games. I'm straightforward and I'm usually pretty good about accepting a change in someone's behavior.

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    • jgibsonian1986
      jgibsonian1986
      +1 y

      There are two types of people in the world and the labels for the two parties are vast. But generally there are those who know their own mistakes and are willing to accept others with their own mistakes, and then there are those who believe by some method they can weed out those mistakes. Be it by time, waiting, force, or manipulation.

      Real love doesn't scrutenize, it it calm, gentile, and forgiving.

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Are these pictures of you and real women you have slept with? Because that’s just tacky

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
      +1 y

      NO! This is a picture of me and my lady friends. This is about me being in the friend zone. So these are all my lady friends while I was in the friend zone. They are still friends to this day. But I learned a lot from them about women. It is funny.. whenever we would go to the club it would be just me and all of these ladies. And whenver they would gather to talk about sex with men they would say, "It's okay. It's just Steve.." and then I would hear all of their deepest secrets.

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    • tallandsweet
      tallandsweet
      +1 y

      "I would hear all of their deepest secrets." - I hope that you realise that not all women are like this.

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  • Wolkmi
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    Xper 5 Age: 28
    +1 y

    no offense but you only go with white women haha ​​... I'm not telling you bad.

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
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      I grew up in a predominantly white neighborhood. hardly any black chics. With that said... my preference is white women however I date all races.

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  • wewpet
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    Xper 3 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Women are very important to men during the start-up

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  • A1234
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    Xper 3 Age: 31
    +1 y

    Sorry not all women like sex.

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    • more_than_a_guy
      more_than_a_guy
      +1 y

      Most people in general like sex. Over 99%. Biological and hormonal effects.

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    • A1234
      A1234
      +1 y

      @more_than_a_guy well then I guess I am part of that 1% that doesn’t.

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    • more_than_a_guy
      more_than_a_guy
      +1 y

      Asexual?

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    • Apope16
      Apope16
      +1 y

      She sounds asexual

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    • woodyisready
      woodyisready
      +1 y

      Full of shit

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    • A1234
      A1234
      +1 y

      @woodyisready nope not full of shit

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    • A1234
      A1234
      +1 y

      @more_than_a_guy maybe. Sex just doesn’t feel good. It hurts. Already been to the doctor and everything.

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    • more_than_a_guy
      more_than_a_guy
      +1 y

      Yet you do attracted to people? Is the cause of pain Vaginismus or a syndrome?

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    • A1234
      A1234
      +1 y

      @more_than_a_guy yeah I guess guys can be attractive but I would be happy never having sex ever again.

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    • Ámayas_20
      Ámayas_20
      +1 y

      @A1234 Hey, if you don't wanna talk about it that's fine but I was just wondering do you feel sexual desire but are put off knowing it'll hurt? Or was it more of a case of you never particularly wanted to have sex and doing so hurt?

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  • woodyisready
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    Xper 3 Age: 45
    +1 y

    This is one of the smartest men I've ever seen

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    • woodyisready
      woodyisready
      +1 y

      Thanks

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  • anniisa
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    Why are people being so mean?

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  • Naughty_Gentleman
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    +1 y

    It was informative... Thanks sir..

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  • Anonymous
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    This is... embarrassing.

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