I could discuss this topic in depth for a very long period of time but I get the feeling, that in general men wouldn't fall as often for these poor choices as women do mostly because we have prostitutes and porn readily available to us, which keeps us going for a certain amount of time and we call the shots when women start raining on us because we got financially successful and successful in life in general. And I don't feel like writing a whole book about it.
Men are providers and protectors. Women are bearers and primary care for the children and nurturers. It's a deal that has been set in our DNA for millions of years by evolution. Men are designed by nature for their role, and women for theirs.
So man's role is to provide. That doesn't make it prostitution, it makes it nature.
The best option is to get a good and hardworking man or just staying single. Money is necessary but it doesn't buy happiness so there is no point in chasing the rich guy.
the women I know and am actually attracted to have shown time and time again that they don't care about money much, some care about looks and some care about being the perfect fit or someone who loves them for who they are. some relations start by having common interest. you can avoid a gold digger woman since she is the perfect fit for someone who doesn't know what to do with all the money
It's unfortunate that you just got burned by someone. I pity you. People are people. There are shit ones and magnificent ones. You get to choose who you are. You get to choose who you associate with.
Pretty much that. It's why many men are single for longer periods of time. They won't allow themselves to be used by those, who don't really care about them.
Honestly girls do get discriminated against in certain areas such as pay checks. I could be a white male accountant and get 40k a year and a female could have the exact same job and get 36k a year. Eventually that will end. But for the prostitution part, from what you're referring to, women do put themselves out there and they accept the payment.
So many generalizations on this post.. Not all women are straight or care for money.. There are also homosexual, transgender, asexual, a romantic and non-binary women
Haha!!! They sound like women who have those impossible standards for men. I mean, his number one issue is women using him for money. But he probably is also the type who hates women who are extremely independent.
Sigh. Typical. A man commenting about women. Here we go again Women are free in that they no longer need a mans permission to tell them how to live their lives. They can choose to have children or career. They can choose to have both Some women like wealthy guys. So what? They’re not gold diggers. They’re following their own free choice
Some women turn down wealthy men because they are committed to the man they love or it doesn’t appeal to them
Let women be. You don’t think some men use women for their looks? The trophy wife? Rich guy with a hot young girlfriend?
However, riches are a dealbreaker for me in a relationship. I'd feel deeply insecure if he's higher money status than mine (and with my poor luck, 70% men are richer than me so cheers ).
Hmm. Two people in a relationship never stay equal financially. One person will have a better career/business. Always happens. I suggest you figure out how to fix your feeling asap.
Or a gold digger, who deceives you with love and then jumps into the G-Wagen, that almost passed by her and the driver honked at her and when he rolled down the windows the music is blasting from it's speakers.
This whole line of thought is useless. Nobody is free of influence like your suggesting unless you live on an undiscovered island by yourself. Then you would be free. Period the end.
I don't know how to trust anyone with this mindset. Is that trust something I'll have to give up on? Why should I care about women if all they want is sex? Why should I care about men if all they want is pussy?
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Yeah but having sex for free and getting your heart broke doesn’t seem very beneficial either. You love someone and they’re basically screwing you over.
@KrakenAttackin First of all I wanna relationship I don’t want to be a prostitute no thank you. I get fucked over because I’m gullible and I am too nice so no
@KrakenAttackin & @CasaNorba I think it softens the blow pretty much. Like I was with this guy and I loved him and he lost his job he’s even you know moved and I was there her kids and I’m still here. But in all actuality he was never going to commit to me. You guys act like we’re not here and we be there for the long haul. But those women aren’t the ones that y’all end up with.
Trust me I really don’t care about money I take care of myself. I am striving towards stability it myself. My father told me to be sufficient on my own. So I kind a look to a guy for emotional support than anything else
Plus he didn’t have a license he came straight out of Philly Siri his mother died my mother died I tried to be there for him but I got treated like the other woman
@cloud9vortex1234 it’s not contradiction in the beginning and still are to some extent a loyal good girl. After getting fuck over like that situation. I see why women want to be compensation.
@cloud9vortex1234 I’m not disagreeing with you but that’s situation really fuck me up inside. Because he still tries to come around like he cares about me. And even says he loves me it’s just the manipulation
@KrakenAttackin I would love to be emotional support for the guy that I was saying hell He has a lot on his plate I would want him to unload not just be a sex partner
@cloud9vortex1234 I’m not for sale. I wanted an actual boyfriend in a relationship and future husband and I thought that is where we were headed. I was stupid to hang in there with him.
So you think pieces of paper, ones and zeros that you can buy useless junk with is fair compensation? 😂😂😂😂 So what do you need a man for then? Get a job and buy that useless junk. Don't expect a man to spend his money on you. The guys that have a lot of money aren't interested in girls like you. Women are not worth the time or effort.
@KrakenAttackin How do you tell the difference between chads and incels. I dated this one guy who was a self described incel (browsed r9k "before all the normies" and would constantly tell me how he was afraid that he wasn't handsome or rich or whatever enough. He was also thinner than other guys, but that was just a non issue for me. I liked him and thought he was cute, and he assured me that he wasn't like other guys who only wanted sex. ... So he kind of lied about that. These guys can put down other men all they want, but they are no better. The only difference is that they are bitter than handsome men get it more often. Any incel will act like a chad if given the chance.
Look I have job actually two. I never ask a man for anything but time. And if I’m really in trouble it shouldn’t be a problem if I do ask it’s not like I won’t pay them back or anything. I’m very independent I thought this person was going to be my boyfriend maybe my husband and the father of my children. I put time and energy into something and obviously it was the wrong choice. Why would you get on me for some thing that I don’t know
@RotRot Women need to stop labelling guys with terms like incel and mainsplaining and other such bullshit. All that does it make you look like a bitch.
I hear that 6mo worth of income in precious metals are sufficient temporary economic collapse insurance & that stocks are best for resisting inflation. I like the cut of your jib, my guy.
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Actually, I won’t give up that pussy until the I can trust that the guy won’t fuck with my feelings. So yeah, we aren’t all like that.
Why would a guy do that though? I don't get it.
I could discuss this topic in depth for a very long period of time but I get the feeling, that in general men wouldn't fall as often for these poor choices as women do mostly because we have prostitutes and porn readily available to us, which keeps us going for a certain amount of time and we call the shots when women start raining on us because we got financially successful and successful in life in general. And I don't feel like writing a whole book about it.
Not really.
Men are providers and protectors. Women are bearers and primary care for the children and nurturers. It's a deal that has been set in our DNA for millions of years by evolution. Men are designed by nature for their role, and women for theirs.
So man's role is to provide. That doesn't make it prostitution, it makes it nature.
The best option is to get a good and hardworking man or just staying single. Money is necessary but it doesn't buy happiness so there is no point in chasing the rich guy.
You are absolutely correct!
I am an exception however because money buys me happiness.
the women I know and am actually attracted to have shown time and time again that they don't care about money much, some care about looks and some care about being the perfect fit or someone who loves them for who they are. some relations start by having common interest.
you can avoid a gold digger woman since she is the perfect fit for someone who doesn't know what to do with all the money
It's unfortunate that you just got burned by someone. I pity you. People are people. There are shit ones and magnificent ones. You get to choose who you are. You get to choose who you associate with.
Pretty much that. It's why many men are single for longer periods of time. They won't allow themselves to be used by those, who don't really care about them.
Honestly girls do get discriminated against in certain areas such as pay checks. I could be a white male accountant and get 40k a year and a female could have the exact same job and get 36k a year. Eventually that will end. But for the prostitution part, from what you're referring to, women do put themselves out there and they accept the payment.
Two things make this possible: hypergamy and competition among men for women
And the simps elevating women's sense of self worth beyond the realistic limits.
Real love costs nothing. The "love" many women give these days will cost you everything. Be smart, and make the right choice.
Got that right! I'll keep making the right choices.
So many generalizations on this post..
Not all women are straight or care for money..
There are also homosexual, transgender, asexual, a romantic and non-binary women
You need to get over this obsession and actually get a girl.
Damn right.
Okay well I'm rooting for you
Yay! Cheers!
Haha!!! They sound like women who have those impossible standards for men. I mean, his number one issue is women using him for money. But he probably is also the type who hates women who are extremely independent.
You can't win. You can only please him by losing.
Sigh. Typical. A man commenting about women. Here we go again
Women are free in that they no longer need a mans permission to tell them how to live their lives. They can choose to have children or career. They can choose to have both
Some women like wealthy guys. So what? They’re not gold diggers. They’re following their own free choice
Some women turn down wealthy men because they are committed to the man they love or it doesn’t appeal to them
Let women be. You don’t think some men use women for their looks? The trophy wife? Rich guy with a hot young girlfriend?
Money does turn me on.
However, riches are a dealbreaker for me in a relationship. I'd feel deeply insecure if he's higher money status than mine (and with my poor luck, 70% men are richer than me so cheers ).
Hmm. Two people in a relationship never stay equal financially. One person will have a better career/business. Always happens. I suggest you figure out how to fix your feeling asap.
... Haha appreciated
That's a difficult combination, being turned on by that which causes you to feel insecure. How do you resolve that?
I don't date so I don't have to
I mean it depends on the woman and if she's already
worth more than just sex.
"Worth more than just sex". Now this is a phrase I love hearing :D
True love is free or at worst, equal, mutual giving.
True love is also legendarily rare.
I agree on that completely!
Anything worse than that is hardly a healthy relationship.
FACTS.
A lifelong companion who truly loves you is so much better than a sugar daddy/momma.
Or a gold digger, who deceives you with love and then jumps into the G-Wagen, that almost passed by her and the driver honked at her and when he rolled down the windows the music is blasting from it's speakers.
Hypergamy.
@Juxtapose. True love only exists in the form of a parents love for a child.
This whole line of thought is useless. Nobody is free of influence like your suggesting unless you live on an undiscovered island by yourself. Then you would be free. Period the end.
I agree, 100%. Sad, but a fact of life. Kids aren't cheap.
I don't know how to trust anyone with this mindset. Is that trust something I'll have to give up on? Why should I care about women if all they want is sex? Why should I care about men if all they want is pussy?
Yeah but having sex for free and getting your heart broke doesn’t seem very beneficial either. You love someone and they’re basically screwing you over.
Anon. So, what is the dollar value of your pussy?
@KrakenAttackin First of all I wanna relationship I don’t want to be a prostitute no thank you. I get fucked over because I’m gullible and I am too nice so no
You "get fucked" because you chase Giga-Chads.
so in other words fucking for money (and other collaterals) automatically immunizes you from getting heart broken?
@KrakenAttackin & @CasaNorba
I think it softens the blow pretty much. Like I was with this guy and I loved him and he lost his job he’s even you know moved and I was there her kids and I’m still here. But in all actuality he was never going to commit to me. You guys act like we’re not here and we be there for the long haul. But those women aren’t the ones that y’all end up with.
Trust me I really don’t care about money I take care of myself. I am striving towards stability it myself. My father told me to be sufficient on my own. So I kind a look to a guy for emotional support than anything else
Plus he didn’t have a license he came straight out of Philly Siri his mother died my mother died I tried to be there for him but I got treated like the other woman
You can't have it both ways. Your litterally contradicting yourself.
@cloud9vortex1234 it’s not contradiction in the beginning and still are to some extent a loyal good girl. After getting fuck over like that situation. I see why women want to be compensation.
Guys get fucked over too.
@cloud9vortex1234 I’m not disagreeing with you but that’s situation really fuck me up inside. Because he still tries to come around like he cares about me. And even says he loves me it’s just the manipulation
You're the reason why I insist women pay for their half on dates.
Anon..."I look to a guy for emotional support". Funny how women despise men who look to them for emotional support.
@KrakenAttackin I would love to be emotional support for the guy that I was saying hell He has a lot on his plate I would want him to unload not just be a sex partner
So how much is your service?
@cloud9vortex1234 I’m not for sale. I wanted an actual boyfriend in a relationship and future husband and I thought that is where we were headed. I was stupid to hang in there with him.
So you think pieces of paper, ones and zeros that you can buy useless junk with is fair compensation? 😂😂😂😂
So what do you need a man for then? Get a job and buy that useless junk. Don't expect a man to spend his money on you. The guys that have a lot of money aren't interested in girls like you.
Women are not worth the time or effort.
@KrakenAttackin How do you tell the difference between chads and incels. I dated this one guy who was a self described incel (browsed r9k "before all the normies" and would constantly tell me how he was afraid that he wasn't handsome or rich or whatever enough. He was also thinner than other guys, but that was just a non issue for me. I liked him and thought he was cute, and he assured me that he wasn't like other guys who only wanted sex.
... So he kind of lied about that. These guys can put down other men all they want, but they are no better. The only difference is that they are bitter than handsome men get it more often. Any incel will act like a chad if given the chance.
Look I have job actually two. I never ask a man for anything but time. And if I’m really in trouble it shouldn’t be a problem if I do ask it’s not like I won’t pay them back or anything. I’m very independent I thought this person was going to be my boyfriend maybe my husband and the father of my children. I put time and energy into something and obviously it was the wrong choice. Why would you get on me for some thing that I don’t know
@HamburgerFries A house is not junk
@KrakenAttackin This is it exactly.
What makes women think they are entitled to compensation? What because you're born with a vagina. Please get over yourself.
@RotRot Women need to stop labelling guys with terms like incel and mainsplaining and other such bullshit. All that does it make you look like a bitch.
Nothing is free... just happens that right now I am jonesing for more gold and silver
I hear that 6mo worth of income in precious metals are sufficient temporary economic collapse insurance & that stocks are best for resisting inflation. I like the cut of your jib, my guy.
I have that much already but I'm the 22 year old boomer, tangible assets for life
Well, too much silver or gold and you'd have a loss prevention problem; not enough and precious metals barter is out. Boomers gonna boom, big boy! 😃
Loss prevention is my softball bat