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Why I gave up on women! (Page 2)
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Not going to agree with this, naturally, it seems like you've had a bad experience. But I'd like to say I never met a real life woman who wanted the bad boy who wasn't a 13 year old girl.
Plain and simply put, women want the guy who isn't the pushover, self-labeled nice guy, who treats them well while having his own thoughts, pride and passions. Yes, there are narcissistic women out there but it isn't the entirety of us nor is it the same case for men.
All in all if you constantly lack success in a field no matter who you try for, chances are it's more about you than it is them.
Exactly, a guy can be nice and still have some backbone, nobody wants a spineless wuss.
Just as you feel about a certain group of women we feel about a certain group of men. Believe me, there's better than you think. I honestly agree with you a lot, but then again, men are almost always looking for girls like the ones that you are describing here, they go with the prototype, trying to look and think like how society tells them to. Maybe that's why I'm single, if I could find a guy that would tell me what you are telling us, being completely honest, I would have more hopes in relationships. The problem here is that girls aren't being honest, men aren't being honest, we are so full of stupid generic fears that society has stuck into our brains and as humans we are afraid of judgement, however, I know that there are a lot of women that appreciate an honest man.
Stopped reading after I read the first sentence, happened to glance down at the Wonka meme photo about "bad boys", then immediately stopped reading and stopped taking you seriously.
www.quickmeme.com/.../...59cc5720a0a965712d5e9.jpg
i never intented to put photos. the site demanded them to post the take.
lol man
You realize that doesn't explain anything, right? You never intended to put photos but since you needed to, you found the whiniest ones to go along with your post? Riiiight, makes sense
you must be one of these kids that opens a book and looks at the pictures...
What does that even mean with what we're talking about here? lol
wow maybe you are even more stupid. maybe you've never opened a book if you can't comprehend awhat i'm saying. i mean that kids that can't understand books, just look at the pictures...
And you can't understand what me (and everyone else, by the looks of it are saying): keep on with your bitterness, with your drama-queen behavior about how you're "giving up on women", and you'll find that you will STILL not have any success with these things.
I mean fuck, you can't even stay on topic with this shit because you'd rather start tossing out insults instead of dealing with your problems. 30-35 year old guy that runs from his issues... nice
I used to be like you not long ago. And yes I am in my early 20s (22) and I am still a virgin, I still have never been on a date and I still have never even kissed a woman. I was a bitter little bitch about it and it consumed my life. I feel like if I wasn't so self conscious and consumed about it I probably woudnt be in this situation. So what if women make fun of you. Some women just like men are assholes too and some are actually decent human beings. I am just now readjusting my mental state to not give a shit. I don't want to be an asshole either and I'm sure there's a girl out there who's going to love me unconditionally and there might be one for you. Go to a bookstore or coffee shop and chat some women up. I guarantee you'll find a girl for you. So stfu and get off the internet
you were miserable, and you will forever be. at least as long as you are concious of your idiocy. you are not in any position to mute me and sent off the internet. that article is only an intro, to a series of real articles o prepare were i will analyze the challenges and defects of post odern society.
Have fun being miserable then. I'm done being miserable myself
i'm perfectly happy and content with my self and my works. unlike you i don't need others to base my happiness onto. and i repeat you will forever be miserable if you become self aware, so i recommend you stay the way you are...
Dude, you're like the typical "nice guy". The person who sees himself as some kind of high intellectual and he thinks that's why women should like him and is disappointed that no woman will like him. Instead of looking at himself, he blames a whole gender. I get it. It is easier to blame someone else than looking at yourself, but you won't grow mentally is you never look at what you might have done wrong, instead of blaming everyone else.
it is not a matter of gender blondie. it is the degeneration of society as a whole. as for the intellectual part well if you tried the library more often than the beauty salon i guess we would speak in equal terms. you cannot say it is "my" perception of reality, it's just what it is. and thanks for your precious concern but i suffer from no particular syndrome, nice guy syndrome included. you could say i have something more like... an allergy towards stupidity... [achoo!] (he sneezed...)
You really don't know who you're talking to. Maybe you should go to the library so we could talk in equal terms.
It is your perspection on reality. Sorry if you've encountered with some bitches in your life, but you really can't blame a whole gender. That's like saying all guys are assholes, because you're an asshole to me.
You should read a take over nice guys. A week ago I think, there was a really good one which included your perspective on life.
I think it's a bit childish to say "allergic to stupidity" to someone you don't know with the sneeze sounds. You're in your thirties, it's time to grow up.
It's funny I gave up on men too!
Men are rude, narcissic, don't care about women, heartless, cheaters, have no respect for others and their opinion, they never change or question themselves, careless about everything but themselves, pervs, liars, and so on.
Instead, I gave myself to one man, my one and only, one that has values and morals, one that cares about others more than himself. He's genuine and kind hearted. He doesn't look at other girls because he knows it's wrong and has respect for me. He's honest.
Is he a man? Hell yes. He's my and his definition of being a man. Hard on the outside, soft on the inside. He's the proof that no matter how much I hate men and don't feel interested by them at all, it doesn't apply to ALL men.
So see, we all can say bad things about every gender. Does it mean its the truth? Nah. Is it useful? Nope.
First, settle down. Second, there are all types of women out there, all types. This means there is a type for you. You need to find out what that is, where those women can be found and go after them... You only need one. I do agree with your statement : "Women in general are misjudging, illogical and sentimental beings, in the sense they're impulsive and temperamental rather than reasonable"..., for many women, not all i think. I think men a lot of time think with their little head, and I think young women a lot of times think with their heart and feelings which overrides practicality and logic. You will find a good one, but you need to find your type and then find where that type is... Church, hikers, ballet, ... What does your type like to do and then go there to find her. she can be anywhere, but they will tend to do certain things.
I've had zero luck with women. I am confident no single woman has ever even found me remotely interesting. I will still not blame women for that. It's not their fault they're not attracted to me. It's just how it is. Would I like having women want me? Absolutely. But they don't. It's reality. There's some things you can change. Stop blaming them and look in the mirror.
That statement in itself, the fact that you don't hate women for not being interested, is attractive as fuck. Too many guys think they just 'deserve' a beautiful woman. And if she doesn't return that interest, she's a bitch.
@jessiealize I wouldn't call it attractive, just an honest assessment.
JessieAlize, he didn't say anything about a "beautiful" woman just A woman. And the same can be said about girls wanting to date only attractive guys, or a woman who believes she deserves to me married to a wealthy man.
well you are a different case then. since im 30+ i dated many women that wanted to marry because they got hurt too many times. and they reached an age when their beauty started to fade and got the "marriage-anxiety-fever". but when they open their mouths i dont know where to hide. cause they took care only of their outer beauty in their youth. so they better look for another sucker to "get them on his shoulder". the fact is you got only rejections, while i rejected more than i was rejected. if i ever find that one woman that is in her right mind, is kind and pure, and doesn't want to marry from insecurity, then i will definitely grasp the chance...
Here mate. This helped me. It's not PUA stuff:
thematinggrounds.com/developing-the-right-mindset/
Women this women yes please give up now because your misconstrued views of all women will surely blind you if you ever come across the good because the reality is that all women are not the same but you probably don't believe that.
i totally believe that, you are mistaken. and the few good women i've met (not more than the fingers of one hand), were virtuous in most aspects but as far as independence goes, most were possessive (in various degrees) and really looked for a "husband in the traditional sense" (translation:sucker) to redeem them of the burden of their deep rooted insecurities which were covered with the "good woman" atire...
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@MaskedSanity I love you for this lol.
Okay, good for you, but if NO ONE thought it would be a wise idea to date you over the years, there is only one common denominator. You.
Take your logical deductive reasoning and get outta here. lel
you fail to understand that in most cases i was the one that was rejecting them. and not becaue i had a superiority complex against them. let's say i have a... talent. when a woman sits with me, i become something like a priest - although they never conciously understand it- and they cannot hide for a long period of time. they show their true colours very fast. they open their mouths and all the torrents of "awesomeness" are surging upon me...
And yet, you don't choose wisely considering you actually have to sit down with them to realize just how much you don't find them appealing. Which makes sense if you're in for online dating, but otherwise it's inefficient.
there are many layers of hypocrisy, and some are not detectable at first sight. i hope you are aware of that already...
I never said you cannot judge people based on individual behavior. You just shouldn't based on the fact that they have a vagina.
"In this moment, I am euphoric. Not because of any phony god’s blessing. But because, I am enlightened by my intelligence"
Does that quote speak to you? If so, I've got a fedora to sell you.
Seriously, man, you're Red-Pilling hard right now. Throttle back.
you are more than adequately intelligent.
I think you've just had experiences with bad women. So it's not fair to give all women a generalization based off the experiences you've had or seen somewhere. Not all woman are like that, at least not over here where I'm from. I hope you find a real woman one day. If everyone lost hope in the opposite sex like you've seemed to based off of something that happened to them the world would die off quickly lol. Anyways, good luck.
so you think your sole reason of existence is to procreate?
No, not necessarily but I'm just saying the world would barely be populated if everyone just gave up
Not all women but mostly
I hope the world does die off. People we shit.
This brightens my day for some reason.
The amount of hate one person can start and make women spit venom at him and anyone who agrees with him. Its like telling a femi-nazi to get back to the kitchen, and watch her spazz out and start screaming and squealing at you.
They say one thing but do the other...
They don't read your post, yet expect you read their reply...
They assume you generalize by doing it themselves...
They tell you to grow up, yet call you names and act like brats themselves...
They tell you to stop hating, yet hate you themselves...
They say they don't care, yet all respond with haste, as if personally stung...
They tell their story, while disregarding yours completely...
They call you dumb, yet act like they themselves are retarded...
If anything this post has done, was give me a smile at the very least. Thanks. Now imagine this was posted by a woman, how different would this be... because how dare a man has similar feelings...
On a few of your basic points, I agree. I think it might vary `generationally', as far as the `crazies' might be concerned. Sociopathic behaviour is concerned. `Desired only if another woman wants you', yes, I have heard and read this, some truth. Overvaluing of job/tax bracket, status, true. How many guys select chicks on the way they do us? not very many, their body type choice is much more limited too. Many times, with those that say `no' to us, we have dodged a bullet. The amount of overage teen girl behaviour has gone up in leaps and bounds over 25 to 30 years.
Where the HELL did you fid this fossil after one year? I still can remember this guy!
excuse grammatical errors please, shift scheduling in effect, sleepy at this time
Your choice, you want to give up on women is up to you. No one else in the world can do anything otherwise.
I'm single right now cause I choose to be. I got too many things in my life to deal with at this point but it's got nothing to do with women.
I used to have the same attitude as you, but don't forget life is short. You may regret one day feeling like this. Sure there's bad people out there. Just avoid them!! But you can't say all of them are like that. Why? We'll have you met every all women in this world? I be amazed if you did.
Just food for thought.
Exactly what you said! There are too many humans out here can't say EVERYONE xD and many could be well hidden! So its an impossible saying and everybody different xD
Asker, your views depict almost everything I feel when it comes to men I've seen men hurt the women in my family and them feel its bcs they aren't pretty or interesting enough when it was clearly just a clash in personality. however I feel like many men and young men in this generation think a lot about what women look like which is why we feel the need to take self maintenance to the extreme to fit the bill of an almost perfect bombshell of a woman and it is in the pursuit of this we tend to lose our own values. The problem I believe you're facing is not finding people with the same values as you. you can't stereotype all women bcs you haven't met them all or have intimate conversations with them you can't stay bitter your whole life bcs of the bad experiences you've had.
You ain't shit. you're pleasing boys not men. REAL men care about your value not your cakeface.
Butthurt essay with overuse of "and", spelling mistakes and a sad point of view.
you are a nice guy. you can't possible be a fair judge of anyone's point of view or even ihs spelling mistakes. you are enslaved to your never ending pursuit of vagina and your failure results to throwing your poison at people you can't understand.
Forgot to mention that the author tries to sound intelligent and serious but then includes a picture of an overused and unfunny Willy Wonka meme.
i never intented to put pictures in it. it wouldn't post it otherwise. and you wouldn't recognize an intelligent person even if you saw one.
I was about to say I didn't like this MyTake, but then it hit me: I actually really like how this site lets different people express their opinions on things! They don't force you to have a certain perspective.
While that makes sense, he is generalizing all females as if they all conspired to date anyone who is specifically not him, and that is not how it works.
And we are voicing ours and?
you lady are infinite times smarter than this poor guy below that is trolling in every comment and literally rapes the content of my article with his incompetence of comprehension.
I am sad that you have given up on woman, really i understand your feelings
every bro has been there, feeling resentful towards woman because a lot of the time they do seem to be very judgmental, they do make irrational decisions and they do have a lot of expectations...
but you can't give up on them, that in itself is irrational, you don't have to change yourself to find a woman but what you should change in general is your attitude towards them