What should I think if my girlfriend is snapchatting another guy? (Page 2)
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Yeah i don’t know about her. If I liked my boyfriend a lot I wouldn’t be snap chatting another guy as much as your girlfriend is. I’d only Snapchat my guy friends I’ve been friends with for literally years. If get gets the gtg that he wants her she may leave you for him.
Well it depends, how are the snaps he has with her. You have told her what you feel, and she says not to worry, so keep insisting or fighting with her over the guy, would only get her closer to him. The only thing that you can really do, is to get your get your game going and show more value than the other guy! Not caring for one, maybe talking to some other girls, or getting your life organized, career wise etc.
You've got a THOT on your hands.
You leave, she will tell her thotty friends who will definitely stick up for her because they're the Thot Squad.
And that may result in the Thot Squad beating you severely and/or torturing you, forcing you to take back what YOU said, even though she is the one in the wrong.
Just go on social media and type an image that says, "BEGONE THOT".
If that don't work you screwed bitch
Yeah... I wouldn't be having that for a second. She shouldn't be random snapping new guys in the first place. My God, I know not one (female or Male) who would be cool with their partners just meeting the opposite sex online like that... especially a shady ass site like snapchat.
I'd be very concerned and I'd be making that very clear. But that's me
Well i think we both know how this is gonna end unless something changes so make sure that whatever happens happens on your terms buddy. Also you've realised this yourself but nitpicking is not fun for either party. That said wish you the best of luck and hope ya have a nice day.
Sometimes when you really love a person and want it to work out so bad, its easy to reveal your true emotions especially when you are self conscious. From a girls perspective, in my opinion first i would show her that its irritating me and let her get the hint. And if she keeps on doing so, I would just give her a taste of her own medicine and start snapchatting with a girl and do as she does. Then she will be able to feel what you do rn
So why is talking to them rationally not even in the room when it comes to options here?
Not being horrible or anything, but your behaviour comes across as obsessive and insecure. You shouldn't be made to have to feel like that. Maybe sit down and tell her how you feel/talk about what's making you feel insecure. I get what you mean with the whole "just friends" thing, can turn out to be a load of BS. Wish you all the best, whatever the outcome.
This exact situation happened to me except my boyfriend was the one snapchatting other girls constantly. We had issues in the past where I found out he was sending pictures to random girls on kik (not trying to freak you out) but then also would look at his score on snapchatt and it would go up by hundreds throughout the day. I told him that I'm not trying to control who he can and can't talk to, but it makes me uncomfortable that you snapchatt these people when I don't snapchat anyone besides you, so I would like the same thing in return. So I made him promise that he can't be afraid to open his snapchat stories in front of me because he should have nothing to hide.
Don’t listen to these nasty comments, the best thing to do during this situation is sit her down and speak about it how it bothered you but when I mean sit her down go out to a cafe or something not on the phone and say face to face and if she starts drama over it then just know this can be getting lead to a toxic relationship honestly
A guy who cares about something like a snap score... dude... you are insecure af. Who's the man in this relationship? No wonder she's texting another guy.
Get out of here. Girls are way too unloyal he’s perfectly right in being suspicious
The worst thing you can do when your woman is flirting with another boy is freaking out, because then you will show her all your bad qualities and you will drive her into the other guy's arms, instead you should surprise her, show her your good qualities and show her you love her, if she still leaves you, then it just wasn't meant to be but at least it's not your own fault then
Why should he fight for a girl who clearly wants some other guys dick? The hell.
@DracoLuciusMalfoy I actually think she's right, I think sometimes girls just do this sort of thing as a test to see if the guy gets jealous and how he reacts - if he reacts well it she will love him so much
@1smooth28 that is such horseshit. A girl who acts like this obviously doesn’t care about her man and is interested in another.
Lol. Thats actually literally the worst advice I've read so far.
Oh I see you're disrespecting me, let me throw out any self respect I have and suck up to you while you shit all over me! But hey when she finally dumps you anyways because doormats are the definition of unattractive, its not your fault hahaha
Work harder when she’s disrespecting him? No, he should establish boundaries and walk if she doesn’t respect them.
Sounds like it. If it were me it might get ugly for him. I do not like weasels. It sounds aweful. I've been there. Not with snap chat, because this was before the internet existed. Hide her phone. Turn it off put it in a cabinet. And see if she goes nuts. Then you know its over. If she doesn't care to try and find it after one night. Its not that bad. But something tells me from what you have said, she might already be fucking him prepare for the worst.
People have friends Kevin. You said yourself you're too nitpicky and you're taking something harmless as a threat
Add the guy on snapchat and talk to him, ask some questions and stuff, be protective but don't be aggressive. Then ask your girl the same questions and if you get the same answers from both of them, then there is probably nothing between them besides friendship. Ask stuff like "how long have you been talking? " "do you think she would leave me for you? " "is there anything intimate between you? "
I personally think that social media is doing s lot of bad to our initimate relationships. But that doesn’t mean she is cheating. I am young but my partner is a old old man lol. But I think this generation, my generation people in their teens and 20s face new dilemmas in relationships. My mom who is 45 also doesn’t get it, saying her generation it is another thing.
They're co-workers, wouldn't think anything of it tbh. Unless you get some real evidence something is going on between them that's more than "just friendly conversation/snapping" I would keep a blind eye to it.
Yes, your shitty behaviour made her questions why she should stay with you any longer.
Solution: Become the guy again that she fell in love with.
Don't overthink it or get lost in mental gymnastics there kid. She has character flaws. respect yourself and move on
All these girls defending the chick snapchatting a guy from work instead of spending time with him... despicable. Doing that is totally uncalled for. I would never date such a girl. And then using the excuse "he's just a friend". WOW.
girls want for their lives a guy with goals, defined career path and attitude. If she's already having that kind of interaction with him, and you don't have any plans for your life, then I think you should move on and find another girl for you. Someone that loves you will respect you and will not be flirting with other guys.