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Girls why do you reject/friendzone us then get jealous when we talk to other girls or get a girlfriend? (Page 2)
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Never settle for being someones 2nd option, but if she's getting jealous of you with other girls, and you think your friendzoned?
I guess I'd have to ask if you've ever tried taking to her about being more than friends, or ever tried making a move or just showing her that you want more than friendship
Friendzone means you keep certain guys at a diatance then tell them about how you screwed around with other guys and watch em leave the friendzone and put you in the fuckoffzone.
Yes it will suck and you might get a bit jealous when a better women cozies up the man you hurt but you gotta learn to just fuck off. Fucking off and never letting him see you again after you hurt him would be better for him since he won't waste his precious time and energy on you ladies who friendzone guys a lot.
Ohhh yeahh spit it out Bro!!
Because they implicitly want u as an option B or as a source of ego boosting attention... stupid I know.
But this is truth.
This makes me wonder... as insecure as so many of these females are, it is completely asinine for ME to somehow AFRAID of females in general. :-P
Usually, at first we put you in the friend zone simply cause we don’t like you guys like that AT FIRST. But then once you’re out in the friend zone we then start to see all the cute, sweet & nice things you do for us so we start catching feelings, then when we see u talking w someone else that’s what gets us upset.
Ok, that's fair. However, if you try to friend zone a quality man, he'll accept it
and move on. And likely NEVER give you a second chance. Why is it women are allowed to friend zone men and we're supposed to accept the consolation prize. But whenever men move on or cease contact, we're insensitive bastards? This ain't Burger King. You can't have ir your way. If I work up the courage to ask you out and you reject me. Fine. However, when I
refuse your friendship, which I have EVERY right to do and move on, then you get upset that we don't want to be your fall back guy. I don't want to hear about the guy your banging. I don't want to meet him. I don't give a good Goddamn about seeing your engagement ring. And fuck no, I won't come to your wedding. I'll be dipped in shit if I'm going to be relegated to the fucking friend zone. So go find a little beta Momma's boy faggot orbiter. They're out there. Fuck you your friendship and stay the fuck away from me.
Tf, control yourself.
And actually not all girls are like that so don’t put that label on all of us. Not all girls get mad when u reject our friendship, I certainly don’t.
@Marinepilot I couldn't agree more. You're absolutely right Marinepilot.
No. I've never known it to work like that. Any time I've had feelings for a woman who has already friendzoned me I've never been able to convince her to change her feelings no matter how nice and sweet I've been to her. It's like once you've been rejected there's no changing the situation no matter what you do.
@RWayne I think the theme is, go ahead and get another girlfriend, and then the poor friendzoner gets jealous. It's fairly common.
PeterVujin- You’re right. It is common and I’ve seen friend zoning girls get salty whenever a guy moves on and finds a girl who likes him and returns his affections. They can get downright indignant. To see this is more fun than slow dancing with Cindy Crawford.
It's following your mixed signals.. "I like her but I don't wanna keep pursuing her" because of the fear of seeming needy. Her thoughts are... well he's unsure so maybe we shouldn't : equals rejection... Then we see you all buddy buddy with another chic and we are stuck like WTF Happen to us... He couldn't pursue me but he's talking and laughing and flirting with her. :(
If the guy asks you out and you reject him, you have no right to be upset that he's going after someone else.
well this is what I dont understand, I could keep persuing her only for her to think oh geez just back off and us falling out because of it, and loosing a really good friend in the process
Well unfortunately it's not as black and white that way. I know most women won't admit to it but if she did like you even a bit she would... The kicker would be her not giving two shits. That will determine her feeling. But if she getting jealous and acting in such a way tells you there's more behind the rejection... Also some guys tend to want to flaunt the fact he's pursuing another women after he been rejected in hopes her reaction would be jealousy.
Another thing is I could not be interested in you that way but if your being obnoxious about your new pursuit, I'd care about that. I'd care about you going out your way to make me jealous.
This is gonna sound terrible.. But catch me on the wrong day. And I'll likely ruin your situation if you pist me off
You sound immature.
I'm not tho... I'm far from it. The situation is. Also just because I don't deny the jealousy and what this girl could be thinking doesn't make me immature.. The cold hard truth is, it happens. And if admitting a fault makes me immature then I rather date someone like me anytime. Then a cold hearted liar who will pretend like what your going through is all in your head and you are the immature one.. Be realistic This question and others like it wouldn't exists if it wasn't true.
The guy probably isn't trying to make you jealous, he's probably just into the other girl and you have to accept that. Don't reject a guy then expect him to chase you because any guy worth his salt won't do it. They'll simply accept your decision and move on. Trying to ruin his chance with another woman because you crave his attention without accepting his date proposal is just callous behavior from a rather immature woman.
... Or actually happening. Sorry it's not the answer you wanted to hear. But sometimes you need the hard core truth to smack you in the face in order to make a decision.. If we all continue to work on half true info... Where will be... I'm not saying all girls act this way and behave like this it might not be the same situation it might be a different one all I'm saying is that us women do have a dark side and we do pay attention to things and news flash we are filled with complex emotions that causes us to do and act in strange ways. All I gave him was a possibility to look into.. He already had the story line
You've rejected him, so why get jealous when he wants another woman? If you liked him why would you reject him?
I can also say the same about a man.
But let's not pretend here and make it out to be they are strangers maybe his first time meeting her and he ask her out.. She rejects him and pursue another women.. And the chic behavior is like this. Then yeah I agree.. She would be immature. But sometimes like I said it's not all black and white and I'm taking in to consideration that this might have been an ongoing thing between them two for a while now.
It is black and white.
We work together and I ask you out, you say "CypherV, thank you, but I'm not interested in you". I say "no hard feelings Anon" and that's it. I've accepted your rejection and I'm moving on.
Six weeks later a new girl starts at our work place, me and her hit off, we've got chemistry, we've got a connection and we flirt with each other at work.
What would give you the right to a) be jealous and b) try and sabotage my chances with this girl?
yes it is an ongoing thing, we've been hanging out for nearly 3 years (with a years break when she was away)
Just forget about her man and go after someone who wants you. A girl who is interested in you and wants you doesn't reject you.
See like I said it's an on going thing. a. a. Know exactly where I'm coming from don't you Q. A?
Understand QA I'm not asking you to agree with me, but let's not pretend that she shouldn't feel a bit jealous regardless of the rejection
She has lost her right to feel anything when she rejected the guy.
You could want to believe that... But real life says differently!!! Or there would be no gag.. Your trying to convince me of that but judging the info he's shared it's very obvious that's not what's happening.. It's that little gray area we've come too.. And your refusing it.. In a perfect world maybe so. Who gives her the right to be upset, and etc... Who gives the right for all the issues that's wrong with the world but truth is.. That's how most women in certain circumstances act.. It's not right, but it's all fare in love and wAr
I just cannot agree, the girl should get over it and move on. Not all men are absolutely stupid enough to give women who reject them attention and play their stupid games of hot and cold and hard to get. If I was the question asker, I'd tell the girl to stay out of way.
I hear ya... And if I was the girl I would say stop doing this and talk to me straight up.. And stop waiting until you're drunk or we are in a heated argument to tell me how you feel. And stop likening me in minute and in the next treating me like shit the next, that's why I rejected you before. Cause I felt like you would hurt me.. Lo and behold your now flirting with the new chic.. If I was her I wouldn't spend another year chasing, I'd let it hurt and I'd move on... Am I right QA?
Where have you gotten of all this extra information from because it's not in the original question description box?
Well I'm just putting my self in her shoes normally it's always the same ole story... the game never changes just the players.. I could be wrong.. But over all my message is the same relating to the situation... Never mind my add libing
I've read nothing in the description box that matches what you are saying. I have also read the rest of the responses and I have absolutely no idea what you're on about.
I understand. I don't care to explain my theory. I just wanted to get you turned up...
OK let me settle this, it would be nice for me to know where I stand and what her thoughts are in her head as to how she feels, at the moment we are friends, nothing else, and we have never been anything else. But I get the feeling that she does like me more than that 1) Because of the sublte jealous traits and 2) Because when I initially told her how I felt she said she didn't know how she felt about me entirely.
If and IF she likes me more than a friend, I would like to see some actual evidence instead of this "impossible to read or make sense of" behaviour im getting at the moment. I am currently single, she is too as to my knowledge.
Jk.. Jk.. It's just I've been through a similar situation so I was taking a shot in the dark
Ask her out and you'll get your answer?
Yup stop playing games first... And he'll get a better answer
He hasn't played any games to my knowledge, so you're clutching at straws to try and defend your point of view which has no credibility.
Maybe so... Lol but he already said it's an ongoing thing... Really? 3years they been going back and forth and you just wanna take his innocent word he hasn't done nothing she rejected him... So why is she upset that he flirts with the new girl? His other responses when he drunk he pursue her but when he's sober he pays her no attention or act like it's not like that between them two.. Really would you not friend zone that type of confusing signals he's giving off come non what are you reading
He shouldn't behave that way, I agree, but that behavior seems to have come after the rejection.
Beyond basic human humility, I don't give a fuck about a girl's emotions after she rejects me.
you fucked it up, he didn't, he's with another girl who didn't fuck it up.
If she doesn't like you romantically and she does friendzone you Its because she likes you for who you are and wants you in her life. Living someone is simplistisch not always good enough ro develop more feelings. If we would fall in love with every awesome guy, it would be madness.
She gets jealous bc other women may come between your bond and may take your friendship away for life
That may be true, but any time a guy gets friendzoned by a woman he has feelings for or has fallen for, it's a bad blow to his self confidence. She's basically telling you that she doesn't consider you to be a real man. How can any man be expected to embrace such an insult.
Because girls are like little kids when they see a toy they might play with it a little then get tired of it they throw to the side but when another little kid starts to play with it a little bit then they have a fit it's part of human nature some want what they can't have.
What's the opposite of friend zone? Relationship zone? Any guy or girl can friend zone a person of the opposite gender whether they like them or not. Everyone has their own reasons. Besides, I wouldn't get into a serious or intimate relationship with a girl I didn't even know yet.
My bff did that one time. She friend zoned a guy multiple times and then when the guy hit on me she got mad. She had no right to get mad since she friend zoned him. I realized later on that it's just because she's insecure.
I'm afraid of getting close so I push them away. Doesn't mean I'm not going to be sad or possibly slightly jealous if they are with someone else later... I don't feel I have a claim on him, it's my own fault.
Yes we do secretly like you guys; we just don't realize we do until you guys are talking to other women. Then we beat ourselves up for it.
maybe i'll sit there on tinder talking to another girl and see what her reaction is, im gonna have to make it more obvious to see if she really is jealous or just curious.
Don't play games with her because that's not nice is it? You wouldn't like it if she played games with you.
Sane theory goes for guy's
Some girls do it to play hard to get, which in some cases is basically trying to get a guy to prove that he's worthy of your love. Some will even do it just for the attention and they can't help but become overly jealous of you paying attention to other girls because you're no longer giving them the attention they want. Those are the types of girls you may want to steer clear of
I do it because most times I don't like the guy that way. But I wouldn't get jealous of him being with other girls because i don't like him. It seems like the girl you like is confused, about her feelings for you. Try and talk to her about how you feel one more time and see how she reacts.
Maybe, the last and only time we really had this conversation was 2 years ago, which is when she friendzoned me, but its been a while obviously since then and for a year of that I didn't see her at all as she was out of the country.
I've never done this. If I like you and you like me, i'm going to pursue that. If I don't like you I don't care what you do with your life.
Same
Think of it this way.. you are in a relationship. A one sided one. She gets everything she wants from you; yet, you feel this void where your needs haven't been met. You then make the decision to dump her, and she immediately enters a panic state because all of those needs he met may no longer be met, and she just can't handle the thought of losing you. I can think of no better person to break up with. End that relationship and find someone who can meet your needs as well as you meet theirs.
They dont want you, but their ego doesn't want you to want anyone else, but them. Its pathetic. As if their soooo great you should stay single waiting on them to never come around.
Immaturity and ego. They don't know what they want, nor would they accept that you find a "better person".
If a girl rejects you, she has no right to be upset when your pursue someone else. It's her loss and is something she has to deal with.
Lool you girls keep manipulating and testing man.. a real dude won't stick up for this bullshit cause how you gone trust someone who picking and choosing? Nope.. i'd rather be with a girl who knows what she wants rather than wasting my time and my feelings
if you did that as soon as she friend zoned she probably thinks you played her. if you did it after awhile then she's just jealous that you don't like her anymore.
I would like to see your opinion about it.
Why do you think we played her if we make it fast?
I dont see the cheat anywhere.
If a girl says not, and I find a girl interested on me, why should I wait?
isn't it a lack of respect to the girl who really loves me?
After all you were the one saying "as friends", its clear where Im going to fight.