How do I get my girlfriend to meet me halfway with anything?

[doctor9]

i do all this stuff for her and she refuses to do anything just because I ask her to. I'm not talking about sex, but everyday things like sending me a photo when I'm away just because I want to see her face.

her excuse is that she doesn't like to do things when someone tells her to.

any ideas on how I can maybe convince her to meet me halfway more?

[vinnie]

keep in mind.. you guys are still young..

she doesn't like people telling her what to do... sounds like a little brat.. man you can't tolerate that sh*t.. personally, I would never tolerate that kind of immature thinking but eventually she might grow out of it..

i think one thing you could do is.. when she asks you to do something for her.. just give a little hint about her behavior.. do what she would do.. and see how she reacts.. and then you can gently break it to her exactly how ridiculous her behavior is..

try that a few times.. if she's still acting the same way.. well you guys are still young hahahah so you decide after that if you wanna keep it up.. and another thing.. its not healthy for a relationship when one person thinks 'im not gona meet you halfway because I'm a rebel'..

but if that happened to me and she's still too stubborn to understand how immature she is, I would dump her without thinking twice.. I'm not gonna waste my time on immature girls.

[Dance-like-Zombies]

It just seems like she's shy. I mean asking for a picture doesn't sound too demanding at all. Maybe you should just talk to her about it and see if you can get anywhere like that.