Girls, do you ever feel bad for rejecting a guy who really liked you? (Page 7)

Question

If he actually had the guts to say it flat out face to face with you? I know I'd be really hurt and frustrated if a girl rejected me, and if I had to reject a girl who really liked me. I just want to know what you girls think. Give your opinions on this.

Augustchic · Answer

Nope. Well I feel bad for like 2 seconds... If I don't like him, why waste my time on him? He's just not my type. That doesn't make me a bad person.

SweetPea143 · Answer

No one likes rejection and no decent person likes hurting someone. So of course I feel bad rejecting someone.

Tokana · Answer

Rather get rejected than be in a pity relationship. lol

Z123k · Answer

Yes i feel bad especially if he had a real big crush on me

72592 · Answer

it depends on the guy. if he's a good person, yeah. if he's not that great, I don't really care.

Tingame · Answer

I think it depends. I mean you can't feel bad for making a decision and being honest with what you want and don't want. That doesn't mean they have to be a bitch about it. Don't take it personally. That's what I think.

Kathleen2 · Answer

I have before. I usually try and give them like one date, one chance kind of thing and then be like yeah, we tried, this isn't gonna work, I"m just not into you. Dating is like an experiment. But i feel like you have to at least try one date

TishaHowlett · Answer

My phone messed up and it hit B. However I have felt bad. He was really nice and a great guy I however was already with someone at the time when he asked me. I felt bad because I could see myself with him for what could have been along time.

gothic19 · Answer

it might be hurts for guy because he has been rejected, but it's better than knowing she accepted u just only for playing or take a sympathy because she accepted u just because don't want u get hurt, at least you two can be friends instead

AlabaO · Answer

Awful. Despite all the machismo men exhibit, they're people, with feelings. Gosh, I hate that wince, after being rejected. It's painful. But, it's good to be honest. Be lovingly honest. Say/Write how you would want to be rejected. Be humane.

amethysthamster · Answer

When a girl rejects the guy it's normally upsetting for the boy and the girl sometimes we think I don't like him I need to say no but ill hurt his feelings. We feel really bad after something like that.

bradybailey195 · Answer

He obviously thought he had a chance with me. It takes strength to express your feelings esp. for men. Rejecting him in a negative way creates negative feelings that could influence his next experience.

AnewSheldon · Answer

I think that be rejected is very hurts, that's true. But if you can't fall in love with that one , reject the one is the best choice. To make the one gives you up and moves on. Life can't waste on waiting.

DaniaoAnna · Answer

I was be rejected few times , every time after rejected someone i felt very bad want to call them say some nice words , but never did , every time rejected someone i need days for recover,,,,,,, i dont like to be a rejected

Dante8 · Answer

If I can see that he really does like me and is honest, I will feel bad, especially if he had the guts to say it. I will also take it as a large compliment. But it is better to tell him that he shouldn't get his hopes up and he can move on.

Kikyo · Answer

I would feel bad if he was someone I liked or if he was really cute...

nehaseeburun · Answer

if really a genuine guy i would feel bad for rejecting him :((((((

Anonymous · Answer

I've done that before. I still feel bad after a year. One of my friends told me he started crying when he got home... I'm such a monster! :'(

Sarah21_ · Answer

C. Im not obligated to date someone if I don't like them. So no, I don't feel bad.

Anonymous · Answer

We women do feel really bad when we reject a guy especially if he's a nice, sweet and honest person. Sometimes it's not about the guy but about our current circumstances.

Ihav2fart · Answer

I did not know there were 399 active female users...

I_M_LEGEND · Answer

they do more if they have to keep seeing the guy and he did a lot for her.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm divided on this. The thought of rejecting anyone makes me sad, which is why I said yes when I should have said no. It made it worse on him later.

RenaNevada13 · Answer

I hate rejecting people. Even when they're bullies. I can't stand someone to hurt. I'd rather be hurt myself. But really I've never been with a boy to reject them but there's this one guy I rejected

zara91 · Answer

No, because every time I've (nicely) told a guy I wasn't interested, he suddenly turned rude or mean to me. Or he acts even more interested which is annoying.

Cherryangel26 · Answer

This guy I've known for ages admitted it, but all the time he's a racist uncaring jerk who stalks people. By being this way he's lowest on the status list.

Shannonsonnika · Answer

Yes, we do feel bad about it. But it also depends on what we feel about that guy.  Like if he's ur best friend but u haven't considered dating him den its sad dt nw things will get awkward.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like to hurt someone's feelings. But I can't go out with everyone.

sexyjulie · Answer

Of course I feel bad about hurting his feelings, but I think it's better to be honest instead of leading him on.

Anonymous · Answer

It feels bad to know that I am disappointing someone.

Anonymous · Answer

I would feel bad, but if I honestly thought nothing good could come of it, i would tell him honestly.

MzTee · Answer

Yes i do, but i'd rather not lead him on, he should know the truth so that he can find someone else.

Anonymous · Answer

I would feel bad, but I wouldn't lie or lead him on.

missysocialbutterfly · Answer

Yes!! Its the worse feeling ever for us girls !

Flymusic · Answer

Yes I have felt bad, especially if he appears to be a nice guy. But sometimes you just don't like that person in the same way.

trainerladyy · Answer

I always feel bad and try to do it in a very honest gentle way. I don't like being rejected, so I feel bad when doing the rejecting.

twilightnight · Answer

Yes i do , I know from my own dating past that I have told a few guys no and feel very bad about it later.

Sasha_King · Answer

Nope. Im not going to feel bad for rejetting him if I don't like him. I'm just not going to be a dick about it either.

Sportygirl1995 · Answer

I would feel bad because I know how it feels to be rejected by someone. But on the same token I wouldn't wanna lead him on.

kingskid2 · Answer

OF COURSE I WOULD FEEL REALLY BAD.  I WOULD HATE TO HURT SOMEONE WHO TOOK THAT CHANCE. BUT BETTER TO BE HONEST BUT KIND.

2b_Cool · Answer

Rejecting someone you have less chemistry with, for girls I think it is normal. Of course, we will feel bad when this guy is a nice person!!

ilovejordans143 · Answer

Yes, I do feel bad for rejecting a guy who really likes me. It's better to tell them there instead of dating someone you don't have interest in..

J88123 · Answer

I would feel bad but definatley am not the type to want to lead someone on, and would want the same back from someone that wasn't intrested in me.

katelynnxo · Answer

If I'm not in to them, I'm not in to them. I know that it would hurt so I would feel a little bad, but it's not my fault they have feelings for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. It depends on who the girl is but I think most girls feel a little guilt

Anonymous · Answer

I feel bad for turning them down because I know it takes guts to ask someone out. I have been turned down too when I ask a guy out. Not nice either way.

Parisian_luv · Answer

Most of us do. Some don't give two craps but we usually do.

kaddia · Answer

Yesa girl can feel hurt but happy because it maybe best for both him and her

hannaX95 · Answer

It's terrible to reject someone who's offering u his heart :(

Anonymous · Answer

Only once did I not like the guy back and it's because it was too soon and I wanted so badly to like him back. Sometimes you just can't help not feeling the same even if they are a great guy.

AsheVayne · Answer

It's especially bad if the person's your close friend but you're just not attracted to him.

mememe1970 · Answer

I would feel bad because he had probably thought a long time to pluck up the courage

winterbrie · Answer

It's all in the matter of how you do the rejection. There's a way to say everything.

billedramme · Answer

I would feel bad, but that's better than leading someone on.

dedeeroz · Answer

I would feel bad because he had the courage to tell me how he felt. And I may have damaged his ego.

Anonymous · Answer

Hey man.  Hope all is okay.  It really depends on the person, but honestly, only someone who sucks would feel nothing.  I'd feel really bad. I've had to Reject someone before, and it sucks. -jes

Anonymous · Answer

The girls I liked didn't give a fuck, so I voted B.

Anonymous · Answer

I have never met anyone in my life who really liked me! 😏 so NO I never felt bed for rejecting anyone..

Anonymous · Answer

If this person was somebody who I cared about and was a good friend, i will cry after rejecting him. Yes i will feel bad

zorro8888 · Answer

So many responses LOL

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