"All girls love a guy who can dance" - Do you agree?

[Tomsta]

I've heard this multiple times, i'm just wondering whether this is true, i myself am a Salsa dancer and would love to learn more dances, inc Bachata, Waltz and Samba i just love the emotion and the music of those dances

Yes - Male dancers are sexy

No - Not my thing

No opinion either way

[backspace]

Well I've been around dancing for the better part of my life it's my hobby, my passion and to a degree my profession. I used to compete ballroom dancing and was quite good at it (a couple of golds here and there) and used to dance and perform hip hop before that and for the last couple of years very into salsa so I dance salsa and bachata and even kizomba for the last few years. Basically I've been hanging around the dance scene for the past 7 years almost every day. I've also been performing and teaching and on occasion also playing music so I've been able to see a lot from different perspectives.
So in answer to your question yes women love guys that can dance but there's always a but! Whenever I've seen guys dance and try to dance to try and meet women aka "the dancing players" most women have always ran away because thankfully most of the women can figure out the players from the dancers. But when guys are there because they love dancing it's awesome when they meet women who also love dancing and the relationships are usually really great at least mine were. But the same thing that makes female dancers attractive to guys also presents some problems in relationships and the thing that makes guys good dancers makes women even happier.
Just recently I my current girlfriend was telling me how pissed of she was because of the players trying to do everything else just not dance with her and my ex told me the same thing so from what I can see it's becoming a really big problem.
So my recommendation would be keep dancing because you love it learn as much as you want and don't become to cocky just be friendly and on good terms with women and sooner or later you'll find one that sees all your charms and that usually makes a good nice relationship.

[Tomsta]

I would never be cocky when dancing, i'm not that kind of person however if i was trying to peak a girls interest i might "big myself up" a bit in dancing (wouldn't say i'm the best dancer but would say something like "You know, i'm a good dancer maybe you'd like a private lessons sometimes ;) )

[backspace]

Yeah that's good but you have to be careful don't offer private lessons unless you know what you're doing and have something to offer. Otherwise you just come across as somebody who's trying to be more than they are.
Other than that social dancing is great it's a really good way to meet really nice and people. :)

[Tomsta]

You misunderstand the context of the line, although i'd be more than happy to give someone a private lesson, it's more of a cheeky line, especially when combined with a winky face

[kheserthorpe]

Dancing ability is a plus, all women like it.

Women also like height, muscles, looks, sense of humor, intelligence, emotional intelligence, courage, status, compassion, coolness, wealth, passion, good sized dick, etc. etc.

But they prioritize differently. So all girls like the dancing, but some girls like it a -lot-. Others its like a really minor bonus.

[Anonymous]

I like dancing once in a while. But I dont LOVE a man that knows how to dance. In fact if a man tells me he LOVES dancing I would probably think "he is probably gay"

One thing is knowing how to dance to pick up chics and to have fun with girls at parties. But if he just really loooooves dancing that's a little too sissy for my taste.

[Tomsta]

Haha, i can tell you that i am most definatly not gay, i do love to dance though, i don't dance all the time, but there is just something about dancing that 'speaks' to me

[Opinion Owner]

HA GAYYYYYY

Lol but seriously like I know a lot of Latinos and they dance sexy and stuff but they just do it to pick up girls and touch them all over or whatever. They never say "I love dancing" because that's kinda girly.

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

wtf? that's hella twisted on so many levels. You want a douche who learns how to dance simply because he likes showing off and to pick up chicks? People dance because they love dancing. Those who learn how to dance simply to show off are such frauds. I LOVE breakdancing and dancing in general in my own privacy and I'm not gay nor sissy. wtf.

[Opinion Owner]

@makeitordietrying

BUAHAHAHA breakdancing? And that's not to show off?

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

*facepalm*. A huge part of the breaking is obviously showing off on a battle but that's not the reason people get into it in the first place. I'd say every legitimate bboy (breakdancer) has passion for the dance and music. They love the dance itself, the culture and everything about it. I've never met anyone who got into it so they could impress chicks.

[weirdgirl0125]

No it's to have fun I'm a girl and I breakdance and in no way am I sissy or girrly

[Opinion Owner]

He said "battle" as in a "dance battle" ROFLMFAO

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

... I'm quite speechless. This has to be a fake account or something. Yes, it's exactly called a battle. In hip-hop culture you have your freestyle/rap battles, breaking battles, popping battles, locking battles, etc. Why does that sound so strange to you? Have you never seen any of these battles? I'm just mind blown...

I've had the feeling that you aren't 25-34. You talk with the ignorance of a 12 year old. I hope for your sake that it's a fake account, you might be one of the most ignorant 25+ year olds :/

[Opinion Owner]

This is a real account
I'm 22 years old
And I'm laughing because it's ridiculous !! I can see teenagers finding this hot and interesting. But grown ass men thinking that calling their dance moves good enough to "battle" like COME ON NOW! Battle? Really?

It's just funny. If someone is going to battle there must be a few drops of blood on the floor by the end of it.

Now you're next thing to say is that bboxing is art too. Sorry it's just funny.

If a man I was dating said "I like street dancing, I even battle other crews" i would bust out laughing !

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

Pfft... ""I like street dancing, I even battle other crews"". I would laugh too. NOBODY would say that, NOBODY... are you kidding me? I can't tell if you're just socially awkward, ignorant or a fake account. I mean this is stuff that a 12 year old boy would be saying or some hick from the depths of a trailer park.

Why is this exclusive to only 'teens'? The term battling has been around since the conception of hip hop. I mean I'm only 3 years older than the 22 you claim, how is it that you're so ignorant of these things? As of right now I'm just so curious as to what kind of person you are. You don't happen to listen to little wayne do you? Maybe one direction? What do you listen to?

[Tomsta]

Can we stop this flaming, everyone is allowed to have their opinion, i find myself siding with the girl here, but i just dislike rap and hip-hop A LOT and i'll admit that

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

Oh well, can't do much about close minded people. Feel bad for em

[Tomsta]

me disliking 2 genres doesn't make me close minded, not everyone likes every style of music, i'm sure you wouldn't like some of the music i listen to

[Opinion Owner]

I bet you this guy thinks that rock is horrible. Hip hop and everything that's involved is shitty. Breakdancer of course would think that's like an awesome genre.

[aamy811]

I don't care if you ant dance but I do hope your shameless. I went to prom with this awesome guy who didn't care that he couldn't dance, he was cool about it and just did what he wanted even though he looked funny. It was awesome and he was super fun

[Tomsta]

I still kinda self conscious about when i dance (it's kinda who i am) but once i'm "good enough" i wouldn't give a flying monkey what other people thought

[aamy811]

You don't have to be perfect. My boyfriend then was exceptionally shameless, but just calmly trying to sway and twirling her around are great. If you just seem like your having fun it's all good

[Tomsta]

I'm a perfectionist, i can't help but try to be perfect (hence the title :p )

[linkywinky]

I'm sure it's a plus for some girls that you can dance! work it, dude.

However, no, I don't necessarily love a guy who can dance. Because I can't dance, so then he might expect me to be good at / know how to dance. And it's not happening.

[Tomsta]

Haha, you could always learn :p

[lumos]

Yessssssss but I like street dancing a lot more than "traditional" dances.

[Tomsta]

Oh god, why?

[lumos]

Because I think it looks cooler, and it's usually more energetic. Esp if they do stunts too.

[Tomsta]

My problem isn't so much with the dancing, it's more with the music they use, i dislike that style of music A LOT, it all sounds the same

[lumos]

Then you haven't really been paying attention, because you can basically dance to all kinds of genres when it comes to street dance. :p I've seen so many groups even being able to pull off dancing to classical music.

[Tomsta]

All i've seen is hip-hop crap (This is one of my pet peeves i REALLY dislike rap and hip-hop)

[lumos]

Like I said, then you haven't really been paying attention.

[Tomsta]

All i have to go on is what i've currently seen in my life, if their are break dancers out there to dance to Rock/Metal and Latin music then i'll gladly watch, but Hip-Hop and rap then no

[Kinstrome]

I think being able to dance tends to be a plus for women. If you have to pick a random skill to learn in order to impress women, it's up there with playing the guitar.

[Tomsta]

I also play the guitar and sing :p

[kambo_trick3y]

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[thewanderingme]

all women will love sex with a guy who can dance. 'doesn't mean she'll live him.

[Tomsta]

What do you mean by the end bit of your statement?

[thewanderingme]

I meant love not live.

[Tomsta]

Ahh... context :p

[xPoison]

I love dancing so that'll make him even much attractive in my eyes

[Anonymous]

Yes! I am a good dancer so if the guy can keep up with me then it's fun because we both have rhythm and chemistry in dancing.

[Anonymous]

YEEEEEEEEEES please male dancers are hot whether it is traditional or street it is hooot

[Tomsta]

Haha, so reading that i'm a Salsa dancer makes me hot to you does it :p

[Opinion Owner]

yes it does lol

[Tomsta]

Haha, then maybe we should talk :p

[swegirlC]

really sexy!

[fadfdsfs]

Yes absolutely