My girlfriends friends touch her boobs, ass, etc. And she lets them?

[Anonymous]

Hey all, my girlfriend's friends (who are girls) seem to touch her ass, her boobs, and her thighs, or just about anywhere and it bothers me hearing about it and seeing it happen. Her friends have also said that they've kissed and they cuddle and feel each other up. Am i wrong for being upset about this? I just don't see why it needs to happen and it just seems slutty to me, and i would rather not be dating a slut.

Am i wrong for being upset

Am i right for being upset

[Anonymous]

I think it definitely raises a caution flag at the very least. I'm not going to sit here and say that girls are weird and they just do that.. because that's the same exact thing as using the "boys will be boys" excuse. She's basically cheating on you with her friends. If you did that with your female friends who were just friends and you guys were doing nothing more than just playing around, she would be pissed and consider that cheating. Just because she's doing that with the same sex doesn't make it okay. It's still cheating in my book.

[Rahdle]

It's definitely upsetting, but girls are just weird and do weird things that we think are wrong. Go ahead and be upset but there's nothing you can do about it

[Faye4ever]

Someday just saying hi to another girl will deem her as a slut lol

[Faye4ever]

Oh I put this under the wrong person.. let me fix that

[Anonymous]

I get why you'd be upset since she is your girlfriend. I guess she's just very comfortable with her friends and her body, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but since it sounds like they touch everywhere and quite often then I don't exactly think that that's appropriate- cuddling and occasional joking with touching her boobs or but is ok, but anything else might be a little too much. My best advice is talk to her and let her know how you feel about this.

[Faye4ever]

I think the thing the only thing you should worry about the most is if she's going to leave you for another girl. I don't want to say you're wrong for feeling that though, because everyone has their own standards for who they date. But if she was doing this even while she was friends and you knew about it, it might not be so fair to bring it up.

[Succcesssfulll]

I don't really think you should be upset. I mean, its her best friends that are girls. We do this sometimes for certain reasons. I would be worried if its a guy. She's not a slut because of that. "If you dance on a pole, that don't make you a ho"

[Anonymous]

That is really upsetting. That just shows how open your girlfriend is. Some girls are just weird, but I don't think she'll be classified as a slut. Watch out though.

[Asker]

Yeah, i wouldn't necessarily say she IS a slut, she's just showing slutty behavior.

[wonderwoman32]

HELL YEA YOU SHOULD BE MAD my brother hates that shit. Leave her you dont need that take my advice yo that shits nasty as hell you won't regret leaving her. Cut the hoe off

[Anonymous]

hell no that is not right and you are very entitled to be upset- if my girlfriend did that i'd dump her... she's a slut yes, talk to her about it though if you deem her worth your while, which i wouldn't... and it is NOT normal

[Faye4ever]

Someday just saying hi to another girl will deem her as a slut lol

[smexiliciousss]

haha omg doesn't matter girls like touching each other its for fun

[Anonymous]

I think that girls normally do that but im not sure.

[Anonymous]

Ate these guys or girls. Either way, yeah you have a right to be upset. I wouldn't take her seriously as wife material.

[Anonymous]

That sounds kinda hot, try to see if she's interested in a threeway

[Anonymous]

Start doing it to her friends too, and see what happens.

[JackPack]

Or better yet asker, do it with your friends to make her jelous!

[SkrunchBoy4000]

That is hot, u could get a three way-up going.

[Klaatu51]

basically i see NO reason to be upset abput it