Why aren't blonde women loyal and or attracted to blond men?

[Anonymous]

Blonde women are seen as very attractive from their oppostite gender counter parts, but blond men aren't seen as attactive to women or even blonde women. Very few women are attracted to blond men and no blonde women are attracted to blond men they are not loyal like other races, ethinicity, or people of the same hair color for example black haired women are attracted to black hair men or brown haired women are attracted to brown haired men, and even red haired women tend to be attracted towards red haired men. I am blond haired and I never have blonde women let alone women at all flirt with me, give any subtle signs, or even ask me out. Blonde women are so unfaithful and I never talk about this in reall life cause people will just tell me how racist I am or whatever. And I knwo these subtle signs too you can look them up on wikipedia the signs that women give and no women has ever given me any of those and I have even observed what women say on here about the subtle signs that women give. Blond chicks always want the man wth the brown, black, or red hair they are even attracted to tan man from different races or ethnicity I've even heard them being attracted to middle easterns.

[Vinvei]

I am naturally blonde, and my celebrity crush is blond (Jesse Spencer). Different people have different tastes, I guess. My parents were both blonde when they were younger although their hair got darker with age.

A lot of 'blonde' women just have dyed hair anyway. Maybe darker haired men seem more familiar to them because they remind them of their fathers. A lot of men seem to be attracted to women similar to their mothers without knowing it, and women may like smells their fathers had worn (like I love Chanel Egoiste, for instance). A lot of naturally blonde women might be more attracted to blond men as opposed to women with dyed hair.

Moreover, there are more dark haired people in this world. So while it might make sense to you that they prefer darker haired men in your social circle, statistically there is less blond men hence there are less blond men to choose from.

That being said, infidelity is not a question of hair colour in the first place.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right and I will just stay and give my female friends advice about their bf's when they are having trouble with them come to me whenever they are having a bad day and me being the nice guy that I am I cheer them up and make them laugh and they will talk to me about them having problems with their bf's and they ask me for male advice, but none of them show interest in me. And I just have to put on my fake smile I hate it

[Vinvei]

Why go for women that already have someone? It's hard to make someone attracted to you after a friendship is established. We usually decide whether we are attracted or not after first meeting the person. Try to go out and meet new potential dates and maybe you'll have some luck :) it's hard to create a relationship with people you're friends with if there was no 'spark' the first time you met, really. I'm not saying it's impossible but it is difficult to change the situation.

[Asker]

I see people come on here all the time talking about how they are going out with their friends now what is that all about then? Most of them who were single I was friends with before they got bf's and they still didn't show interest in me. Cold approaches take a lot of guts to do and are very risk I don't think I have the confidence to that, I don' drink so I can't pick up chicks at a bar, I don't party, and I go to a community college so I can't ask chicks out on campus because only university chicks are like that and I can't go to frat meetings. So what should I do?

[Vinvei]

Sometimes you need to go for the extra lengths to meet new people. If you don't challenge yourself you can't expect results to come out of nowhere, can you?

by the way thanks for the MHO :)

[Asker]

But then why are blonde women so desired and blond men aren't

[Vinvei]

I'm not so sure myself. Tastes vary, really. A lot of it is because of how media presents individuals of different appearances, but I didn't look much into that.

[Afrochick]

Ugh chase from house! What a stud

[Asker]

Yeah but they usually only get chicks cause they are famous.

[Eerie]

I' m pale brunette with freckles and my boyfriend is blonde. And 90% of my exes are blonde too. I like that delicate but manly features and I' m not a big fan of beards. "Men with Brown hair/beard are most atractive" is a big cliché I think.

[Random_chick_2384]

Ok when did u get this idea? Blond men are hot. End of story

[dev765]

The reason is very simple its because Hollywood said blonde hair on men is feminine. Hollywood has portrayed men to have darker features with dark eyes/light eyes as ideal. As we all know most people need to be told what to do.

[Asker]

I know it sucks I wish I was never born with blond hair all my female friends just come to me whenever they are having a bad day and me being the nice guy that I am I cheer them up and make them laugh and they will talk to me about them having problems with their bf's and they ask me for male advice, but none of them show interest in me. And I just have to put on my fake smile I hate it

[apexalpha]

this will help
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1383602-why-are-blond-guys-rated-last-by-girls

#why are blond guys rated last by girls

[Outofthegrey]

I didn't realize there was hair racism.

[Asker]

There is its not racism but preferences they will be your friend, but will never date you.

[Prettygurl12]

I'm blonde... my boyfriend is blonde. I like blonde men.

[1fingerpunch]

Blonde men are desired everywhere. Dude.

I wish I was blonde lol.

[Ansoohe]

That's kinda fucked up and generalizing... Not to mention untrue!