Girls, is self-confidence ever a turn-off? (Page 2)
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Okay, self confidence in a guy is as hot as a women having self confidence. But sometimes guys have a little too much. Always talking about themselves rather then talking about anything else. If you're not like that then good for you but always talking about how you love this and that about yourself is kind of a turn off.
No, I don't do that at all because you can't build chemistry and rapport with a girl by boasting about yourself. Most girls would just roll their eyes. You create chemistry with girls by conversing, learning about them, teasing them playfully, making them laugh, holding eye contact, smiling... those are all things that require a guy to think outside of himself.
there is self confident and then there is conceited
How do you define the difference between these two attitudes?
self acceptance and a feeling equality to others is confidence... higher than mighty and belief that one is superior to others in one way or another... is conceited.
I don't feel high and mighty at all. In fact, I don't really compare myself with others at all. Comparisons usually just make people feel inadequate and unhappy about themselves.
well then dont worry about it.
I just don't like the idea that I'm putting girls off, but I'm starting to think that these girls just weren't a match for me. It's disheartening when a girl starts out really warm and then fades quickly.
watch your actions sometimes when a guy is around his friends he puts on his ego and comes across as loud and arrogant. if your not any of these things then dont worry it was just her or a few bad luck girls for you.
Yes too much of becomes Cockiness and that pisses me off.. it can be a huge turn off
I find confidence very sexy! Arrogance can come across shady though.. Be sure of your self in action more than words would be my best advice.
Its possible. You probably don't notice its over bearing. :((
no its not a turn on, wouldn't you prefer your girl to have self confidence?
I don't understand, what does a girl's self-confidence have to do with mine?
self confidence. doesn't have anything to do with gender..
I know, but I still don't understand what you meant in your original comment.
I meant self confidence wasn't a turn off* lol my bad..
Oh, ok. No, I love confident girls. They're very hot.
That's good.
I like that but not too much u know full of himself or cares about his looks and her looks more then about her and his own personality and character
Guys who are really into their looks strike me as kind of insecure, actually. Like the more you worry about it, the less faith you have in it.
True
I like self-confidence!
If he's a douche about it, then yeah.
what if the guy is proud of himself in a low-key way?
Then I'm okay with that.
No, over-confidence is a turn-off.