You need to have a very frank, open and honest conversation with her telling her what you've found. If you want to work on things, and you should since you married the woman, then you need total honesty from both of you. There will be a reason this has happened. It doesn't mean it is someone's fault, but there will be reasons.
If you both wish to work on it - and I really think you should since you vowed to stay together through thick and thin - then you may need some help, some couples counselling, but she has to want to work things out. She has to want it to work. If she doesn't then there is no point.
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This is really difficult. Did you have an emotional separation earlier? It sounds like she isn't emotionally committed to you.
Confront her on it but be open to her reasoning (I'm not saying you have to agree, just listen to where she's coming from)
You should also confront the boss and probably go see a marriage counselor.
Sorry this is happening to you.
First off, why would you want to tolerate this? Secondly, of course I don't know your whole situation, but I assume You did something wrong if you had to change who you are? Anyway- I would confront her about it, because it truly isn't fair, no matter what the excuse is, a relationship can't work if both aren't working at it. Best of luck
Well... You should leave her because she is a homewrecker. You don't deserve this. She's wrecking her own relationship as well as her bosses relationship.
The only thing you need to "show her" is the door.
Tell her you read the texts and it's over.
I know this is a terrible situation. It sucks. Sorry. But let her go. For your benefit, primarily.
Maybe she misses something.
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communication and marriage counseling, barring that divorce, she was trying/did cheat on you and that is unexceptable behavior.
Honestly this is really tough. Im just going to see what other guys say.
Leave her for fuck's sake. Omg I feel sorry for you. She's unfaithful, if she wants to sleep with her boss, Im sure she tried to sleep with other men... coworker... even.
You can't fix that kind of deception, kick that bitch to the curb. It's not you it actually is "her" because she's trying to get with him intentionally.
Well, the only thing you did wrong was marry her.
you should leave her..
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