Husbands female coworker calling him during the weekend?

[Anonymous]

My husband worked closely with a female coworker on a project and exam, this was daily. This has since finished. She was not successful. This was weeks ago.

She called my husband the other day as she said she was feeling upset and angry (even though this happened weeks ago). She was basically crying on his shoulder, asking him how she could improve even though she’s been told by others before how to improve.

Am I overreacting by being annoyed about her still wanting to be in contact?

[lightbulb27]

reasonable response. I'd give it one or two coaching sessions max if he wants to mentor her. but I'd keep her on a short leash and refer her elsewhere. It's not right for her to dump her emotions on him, that needs fixing... but good luck if it's a young woman.

You are right not to trust young women, they are generally not trustworthy.

I think it's good to help others be successful, but it may not work, they may not get it may not listen or understand. I could see this happening to many young... their training in life and school is not good. I had to fail early in life and many other times and I got my wounds.

I see this with our own kid, we have to let kids try and fail, but not so big that it is life altering. Why I really like sports... they can fail a lot as they are challenged. I think the school of hard knocks is going to be a painful teacher for so many in the work environment. School is crap anymore... they are not tough enough. Grading on curves, bonus points to get 4.5 grade, "everyone gets a trophy thinking", etc.. what BS!

The problem in essence is the poor training so many kids have gotten these days for real life that creates unrealistic expectations, inability to handle failure and learn and grow. It's sad and frustrating situation.

You can have empathy but defiinitely keep your strength, keep open communication and don't be pissed at your husband, but supportive.

It's not easy being a human or spouse is it?

[Finchie40]

Yea that’s a little shady and something you should keep your eye on as to why she is constantly coming to your husband and no one else. Especially if she was told by other coworkers that she is fine. It sounds like her and your husband got a little too close for comfort working together. Don’t accuse your husband of anything until you get actual evidence that they are possibly up to something. Opposite sex coworkers can usually turn to more than just coworkers, so definitely keep an eye on this. Because if they know you are on to them , they will cover their tracks even more. There are ways you can find out the truth without him knowing you are on to him. Feel free to inbox me for advice to do so

[Anonymous]

Lol, your marriage must not be going that well. Can't handle a woman calling your husband? Poor little thing.

I feel so sorry for the dude.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I think the woman is trying to get your husband, so why do you think she is doing this? Why isn't another man interested in your husband?

[AI Opinion]

Helping people with matters of the heart is my thing, so let's dive in! 🌊 It's natural to feel a bit uneasy when someone gets that close to the man of your dreams, especially when emotions are involved. Crying on his shoulder can feel like a bit of a red flag. It's important your hubby sets some boundaries with his colleague, keeping things professional and ensuring you feel comfy. A little chat between you both to align expectations might just be the key to smoothing that wrinkle. 💬💑

[abc3643]

Overreacting - but only a bit. Be a bit vigilant though.