Why do some girls like to brag about being bitchy or crazy as if it's supposed to be cute? Since when did it become good to be crazy or a bitch?

[ikissedtheskyonce]

I see this on social media all the time
They brag about it as if it's a positive attribute or as if it's cute and cool to be bitchy or crazy

I even saw some girl's on gag who put they are a bitch or a villain on here too

[Hopefuldreamer8]

I've never seen that for crazy, but I do see girls bragging about being bitches. I don't understand why that is either. It seems as if it's something to be proud of if you're a bitch. They'll post certain memes about it. I saw something like that just yesterday. It went something like: "I'm a bitch and I know it. If you can't handle it then don't talk to me. You don't deserve me when I am nice." I don't think that it's the exact wording she used but it was posted with a popular meme. It said: "If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best." She just changed the wording for her benefit.

[vonasaurus]

i've encountered people like this, and they bring out the worst in me. being bitchy is not cute~ it's immature, annoying, and makes people hate you.

the way i look at it: if you truly don't give a shit about what other people think, you don't feel the need to constantly advertise it.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

That's been in my about me on here since the beginning of time. I'm not bragging and I never said it was cute. I'm just stating a fact, I'm a bitchy person and I accept that. Why is accepting a flaw a fucking problem?

[ikissedtheskyonce]

Then obviously this question was not addressed to you if you think it's not cute

But if the shoe fits, feel free to wear it

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

"I even saw some girl's on gag who put they are a bitch or a villain on here too"

That shoe fits me but the bragging is not my style so I won't be wearing that shoe, thanks.

[ikissedtheskyonce]

@Mainameissunshine I do not think that you are a bitch. A real bitch does not have to make it a point to post it on her profile. I think you are just an honest person who tries too hard to come across as bitchy, when in reality, you just constantly make yourself look ignorant and uneducated. I would say you are just desperate for attention. :) anyways have a nice day

[SunnyCaliGirl]

It never was and never was a good thing

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Thank you so much for the HMO :)

[Frost_Byt3]

From my experience, being around female friends, whenever an insecurity creeps into their minds, they will voice it by insulting themselves in a passive-aggressive attempt to receive validation from anyone who hears it.

Example:

In her head: "Dang, I really look fat in these pants today."
Aloud: "LOL, I'm so fat!"

Most of the time, he won't say anything because he doesn't know what she is trying to do. But what she wants to hear is "What are you talking about? You're so thin!".

So them voicing that they are "crazy" or "bitchy" might mean they are seeking reassurance that they aren't.

[ikissedtheskyonce]

That makes sense

[ZeldaXpert]

Well, I can say that to most men they find "Bad Girls" very very attractive. Now this doesn't apply to all men but to a great deal, it does.

So I guess they are just trying to appeal to the ones that do like girls like that. Now, I can't say for certain if it's a good thing or when It became one but I know for certain that there is something about a "bad girl" that just make men quiver.

Maybe its the attitude.

[00Lelouchxx]

Shhhh don't let them know that how I avoid girls with insecurity issues.

It not cute it not Lady like. I value Lady like thing. I hold my woman to it. and if they don't then a dick is all they will ever get. emotionally and physically

[Mustachekitteh]

Either for attention or joking around.

I normally just joke around about my craziness. Since I know with my adhd/asd I do come off as a crazy person at times.

[0112358]

Because they're young women. So there are enough guys sucking up to them trying to fuck them to enable anything they say.

[sweettckae]

are you saying you're not a bitch or crazy?

We mostly brag about it to keep away idiots :-)

[ikissedtheskyonce]

Idiots can easily be avoided online. I do not understand how bragging about that as if it is a good thing is cute. It's seems immature

[sweettckae]

so it is..

[SKIRUNNER95]

Cause they're immature. Why would anyone wanna deal with another person that's acting like a bitch/asshole? They're both the exact same thing also.

[Malaikakhan]

@.@ Who knows... Maybe they are just desperate for attention lol

[Melcart23]

It's stupid. I think it just gives them that " I don't take shit from anybody" kinda feeling. It's just plain stupid, I don't know

[CHARismatic110]

I don't brag about it, but I do let people know that they should think twice before they push me. Think of it as a warning.

[Alyssa1111]

I kinda do it because people describe me as a bitch or crazy, so like embrace what you are.

[Gerg123]

It's all about who's in power. Everybody wants to be in charge. men are dominant over women normally, but that's not the case now days. point being if the person is not nice and friendly just get the hell out.

[rachfranco]

It's just been like in the media, taylor swift put out a song called blank space, which she acts crazy in it - which was a joke but some girls could have taken it seriously and thought that it makes them seem more independant and head strong?

[ikissedtheskyonce]

At least Taylor Swift gets paid to do that

[anonman32]

i think because it makes them "strong" and "independent" or so they think.

[Queen_KZ]

People think it's cool to feel bad

[bubbletrouble]

Yeah because guys never do that 😑

[ikissedtheskyonce]

Which is why I said some girls I never said guys do not do it

[Sabretooth]

to make them SEEM strong...