She wants to be friends first before dating? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2016-07-10T07:34:33Z

Sup guys, I'm going to make this as direct as possible. I met a girl at a college. We talked a lot for a week. I told her that I liked her. She told me that she doesn't find me attractive, but then she said that she doesn't have many friends and would really like to hang out with me. She told me that she didn't find her first boyfriend attractive, but dated him later on after they became friends. Now, I'm aware that girls tell guys that they can still be "friends" to let them down easily without hurting their feelings. I'm also aware that she might treat my like one of her female friends or more like a brother than a lover. I'm not new to this whole thing. I know a lot of guys ask the same question of, "why does she want to be friends first?", and the answer is that the girl is simply not interested. However, I was a little persuaded when she said, "I wasn't attracted to my previous boyfriend but I still dated him". Will she never be romantically interested in me because of the lack of physical attraction? Is she just saying that because she is desperate for a friend to talk to? Is she leading me on? Should I just make it clear to her that I am only interested in dating her, or should I give her more time and get to know her more? Is she playing it safe because she was hurt before? But then again, she directly told me that she doesn't find me attractive, so I have a feeling that she just wants to be friends. Also, it seems like she doesn't like it when I flirt with her. Should I just move on and save time? Or is it possible that she was hurt before and wants to take it slow? Lol I think I'm just overthinking everything. Do youguys think I should just break off contact? Or should I just hang out with her as a friend and give it a few weeks?

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Anonymous
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She wants to use u for attention/validation while she gets pipped by another rguy. Please do not get cuckold.

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I say give her a chance, she may become attracted to you once she really gets to know you.

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Pacificblue62 Follow
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I actually say go for it. She's testing you.

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you're friendzoned

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"Direct as possible"

Writes fecking novel.

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She is a pedophile

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  Hahahaha :-D
  
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It is normal.

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She could be asexual

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Damn that sucks

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Yes.

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