Why are teenage girls so desperate for the company of boys?

[Anonymous]

Teenage girls torture themselves to get boys to spend time with them but boys only want sex, and girls trade sex for basic acts of affection even though boys only pretend to love girls to get them to have sex. It's so sad how girls love boys SO deeply but boys only care about their existence as far as sex is involved. Teenage boys don't know how lucky they are... nobody is more devoted and loving than a teenage girl!

[Kaazsz]

Its hard to agree. Im sure like 95% of teenage boys would be very happy to have a teenage girlfriend. But the girls are all chasing the cutest boys, and they pile up in front of him and he picks the ones who will have sex. The rest of the boys are ignored. On the flip side you have that 95% of boys who are drooling for the cutest girls, and anything less will say to everyone that you are less than the best, which for some reason in highschool is equal to being a piece of shit. Moral of the story, everyone is whining and crying cuz everyone wants a 10, but the reality is real life exists below the 10s.

[Asker]

In my experience it's the boys who are obsessed with how "hot" girls are. For girls, a boy being "hot" is a luxury, not a requirement.

[Kaazsz]

I really doubt that. That's the problem with men and women, we are forever obsessed with seeing ourselves at superior. We all need to stfu and realize none of us are perfect, and neither side is better than the other.

[El_Muffidore]

I like this guy

[AleDeEurope]

Because they base their worth on guy's attention, that's why many would do what a guy tells them to do.
Teenage girls are very easy to manipulate because of that.

You sound like you're the type of girl I'm talking about.

[Asker]

Nope, I never understood why teenage girls got so attached even though I was one a few years ago.

[AleDeEurope]

I know you were one of them, it's obvious you're still hurt.

[lawstudent931]

Eh, I am in agreement with her and not because I experienced this lmao, far from it. It reminds me of my wild teenage brother's nice girlfriend. The asker is probably simply curious just like how I am, because for example I just don't get how my bro's girlfriend sticks around with his behaviour.

[AleDeEurope]

@lawstudent931 Because he's on a pedestal. She lacks a backbone. She thinks he worth is determined by having a boyfriend...

[Lovestar0450]

I have no idea.
I know I'm a teenage girl myself, but fr.
I've given up on guys a long time ago.
They're clingy, lying, horny buttholes.
I'd rather date a girl.

[DanReynolds]

That's horrible to hear:( i assure u most guys aren't that bad.
I've been hurt my girls lots as well and i could easily label and generalise all girls into the bad experiences that I've had but the key is to keep ur head up and mind open for the right person.
Also you can't just switch to dating girls unless your bisexual or your relationship won't work out and be unfair to your partner.
Best of luck x

[Lovestar0450]

@DanReynolds yes, I have met some who aren't jerks, and I am bisexual, so, it wouldn't be too big of an issue... But, I hope that it's just a phase.

[danayla43ver]

There's desperate because they want the same affection they see others giving too there partners

[Asker]

"Others"? I assume you mean on TV or something, because I don't know any girls who get the affection they want.

[danayla43ver]

Just having the feeling of someone loving you is addicting even if they hurt you you wanna feel the same love you felt from the first person or better from the next

[Nothanks700]

What a weird question. No, that's not even remotely true. It wasn't true for me when I was a teenager, and it's not true now. And I'm fairly positive it's untrue for the majority of guys out there. You date ass holes, that's sort of on you

[ADFSDF1996]

No offense but that's very ironic. I have yet to have a woman love me, It's us guys that love women. Women don't even find men physically attractive.

[Asker]

Women are usually smarter than teenage girls.

[ADFSDF1996]

I'd say women in general are more mature but there are exceptions.

[ADFSDF1996]

*Women are more mature than teenage girls but there are a few exceptions.

[ADFSDF1996]

Still though I wish women actually found men physically attractive. Oh well.

[JohnDoe3000]

All the teenage boys lust after the hot girls, all the teenage girls lust after the hot boys. The only difference is the girls at least get sex out of it (when the hot guys are horny and/or drunk).

[Kiran04]

Why do you care? If you don't want the company of a boy, then don't. If other girls do, then let them do as they like.

[Asker]

I feel bad for teenage girls having to deal with cold boys who don't love them...

[El_Muffidore]

@Asker
Your whole "question" seems to be nothing but drama. I don't know why you're making such big effort to make guys sound cruel and heartless

[Kiran04]

It's every girls right to deal with cold boys who don't love them. If that's what they want to do, then let them.

[supernerd99]

and those who do love girls dont have the chance to give them attention cause they come of as needy and unatractive.

[supernerd99]

men must have a sweet balance. not needy but not cold and uncaring.

[Anonymous]

Probably for the same reason guys are so desperate to get inside our panties.

[DanReynolds]

Most guys aren't desperate to have sex? Those guys are definitely the minority

[Anonymous]

Girls look for attention, when their dad doesn't give it to them

[Akinemre]

Shag very sin, God is obstacle