True or false: When a girl says "Sounds good but don't know what I'm doing that day yet ill let you know", to plans it means she doesn't want to go?

[Anonymous]

Yes it means she doesn't want to go, make your plans without her

No it genuinely means she doesn't know her other plans yet, ask her again nearer the time

A total of 63 votes were cast: 19 girls and 44 guys. See detailed results

[Diamonddogz74]

I call this "social legalese." It's a polite way of saying that while what you're talking about doing sounds good in the abstract, just not with you. There's a small chance that she's actually interested and has a weird schedule but if that were the case she'd probably say something like "that day might not work but I want to do this. Is there another time that works?"

If she doesn't know what she's doing yet that means that she could do whatever this is if it were actually something she wanted to do.

The only way to know for sure in the moment is to say something like "alright, so should I ask you again closer to the day?" If her response is anything short of a clear yes then she's just politely turning you down.

[bcromartie]

False. It means she doesn't know what she's doing that day and doesn't want to commit her entire day to you because something better might exist.

[Errhh]

Hahahha I did that once!! But I did Not realize it... and only noticed it when the oersin said "I just told you!! So you won't make any plans for that day!" Hahah I was like "oooohhh hahahhah"". 😂Oooops!!!

so perhaps.. she unconsciously doesn't really want to go. And said it without realizing what she just did.. 😲😃😁!!

[Asker]

So I should just go ahead and make my plans without her? What if she asks later? I can't reinclude her.

[Errhh]

I wouldn't discard her 100% ... if you really want her to go...

But if it's not such a big deal to you, then yes, make the plans without her... and if she just so happens to ask later just be honest and tell her she never let you know.. her comment did clearly imply ignoring there was nothing better she'd let you know... because considering you're telling her well in advance she still wasn't thrilled enough to reserve the day and I stead said she'd let you know if nothing comes up in other words lol... and yes I did this before unintentionally... but if someone did it to me, I wouldn't even call them again haha if they really want to go they can call me. 😁👻!!! So go with your gut! As most say! 😛!!

[Errhh]

Sorry for grammar... auto correct is effin'stupid.. I hate it.

[dwright9224]

Well for me it actually does mean I don't know, because sometimes things do randomly come up, and I cannot predict if something will or will not come up @ that time. So for just incase; we have to say that we don't know yet.

[IvoirianGirl20]

No. It means she just doesn't want to see you. You're not her priorities. That is what she REALLY MEANT

[IvoirianGirl20]

**You're not in her priorities

[Asker]

So I should just go ahead and make my plans without her? What if she asks later? I can't reinclude her.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Yep. Go ahead & make your plans

[IvoirianGirl20]

You are not important to her. You'll thank me later

[Anonymous]

Yeah wait till it's close that date then ask but if she still says that then she is not interested

[LittleSally]

No. It means she'll let you know.

[Wonderer89]

She isn't keen

[StickStickity13]

Ditch her

[TonyRyanAgain]

Rejected, lol.