High maintenance can be tolerated if she hot. But even then it gets old...And hard on the checkbook. If women want to be appreciated for who they are then high maintenance is not the way to go. But if your happy with yourself go with it. Its a turn off because your putting "nice things" over the person and who you really are.
I was in Marshalls earlier this year looking for a sorority thing that I needed for cheap and I didn't see one thing in there that I would buy because all of it looked ugly and cheap. I might spend more on my clothes but they last longer and aren't ugly
Typical Self centered sorority chick....I knew there was a reason why I don't date girls like you.
Every marshalls is different. They get shipments every monday,wednesday and friday.
I never shop anywhere else....and I still manage to have nice stuff, that is far from ugly or cheap. Swallow your pride and learn to look through the regular clothing racks....not the clearance racks. Stop worrying about what the sisters are gonna say about your dress.
Before you rip on all of us sorority girls my room mate this year is in my chapter...she shops almost exclusively at marshall's. Oh yeah, and at the mall they have these awesome things called sales...check them out sometime
Maybe your going to the wrong Marshalls the one here has the exact same brands that are of better quality.if you can find something there lets say from Juicy Couture that is $30 instead of $120 its gonna last just as long as if you paid full price.i have to admit I like the mall better but Marshalls is AMAZING if you have themed events/parties and don't want to pay full price on items every time but still want name brand stuff.or if someones birthday is coming up that is "high maintenance" haha!
A girl that is "high maintenance" is a REALLY big turn on to me. It shows that she takes care of herself, and cares about her appearance. As much as I am attracted to them, I am also about as equally intimidated
Many men in that age range, don't want to make the effort..............easier to put on jeans and take her to Carls Junior for a 'Steak Sandwich" .............with her wearing a dress, hose and heels.................
a lot of people don't realize that in order to appear high maintenance, in a good way, you actually have to act interested in other people and things. you have to actually act like you're interested in certain things to show what your standards are.
...call me old fashioned, and I'm not high maintenance in anyway, but you don't expect to pay on your first few dates with a lady? Most men I know wouldn't dream of letting the girl chip in on the first couple.
Agreed, I'm not saying I'll never pay but if you don't pay on the first date there won't be a second. Even when I go out with my guy friends they usually cover me and won't even let me see the bill
You're both high maintenance then. Girls should be independnent and pay for themselves. Only way I'm paying for the date is if the girl proves valuable enough.
There's nothing wrong with a guy being a gentleman. Girls don't have to prove anything to the guys they're dating. Most of the time once you have a girl she'll treat you like a king...paying for dates isn't too much to ask considering what you're getting in return (not to mention she probably spent a good deal of time and money getting ready to look good for you)
I'd just want a girl that was classy, nice, pretty... but didn't let it get to her head.
A mature, cute, classy girl that can give me her time of day... Pssh! is she even out there?!
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i personally don't mind as although my age, I graduated early and managed to score quite a successful job with a lot of income, so to me its not much of a problem, as long as she appreciates it, think of it as like a sports car, you buy an amazing one, you have to maintain it...
I like high maintenance girls, because I am totally non maintenance, and they can balance me out. Plus I find it sexy when they get bossy (but not too bossy, then that is just a complete turn off)
the main concern in marriges is money issues. if you are out selfishly spending a lot of money on yourself, then it is going to be a turn off. and in some cases a reason for separation or divorce. money is what causes many divorces and separations
LoL girl you gotz to kick it with me.. I love cheap yet fashion finding stores! lol anywho... From what I seen with my homies you could b a turnoff if they dnt knw you... like they might look at you like if youd only go for guys with money or label you a goldigger and shyt like dat... but like if a guy gets to knw you and c ur nice personallity I'm sure it won't b a turn off
well your personality should tell them if they like you - not your bag
If you are annoying then I guess that is a problem- if not then why stress.
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what would you think about high maintenance guys? they would probably match your lifestyle better (prob rich themselves) and wouldn't mind your maintenance levels.
It takes me maybe 2 minute to put on make up in the morning, I spend more effort brushing my teeth than I do with my make up. And girls don't always put on make up for guys, we like to feel pretty, if eye liner makes us feel pretty it's coming on and most of us don't feel pretty (or good about anything) after pulling an all nighter
Good for you, I'm wearing my pajamas right now. I don't wear pajamas to class because 1) I have a lot of clothes and I like to wear them and 2) because I like not looking like a rolled out of bed and decided to go to class. I also just don't see the point in wearing pajamas to class, it's not like you're the only one who had to get up but apparently you're the only one that couldn't be bothered to get dressed. At the very least grab some sweatpants
Why are your spending habits relevant? I don't pay for any girl's sh*t, so it doesn't matter to me. She can buy all the sh*t she wants. I don't care how high maitenance she is, I'm not going to maintain her.
Lol a little too radical though. I think its okay to spend on her as long as she spends on me the same amount that I am spending on her. If she doesn't then f*** her.
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High maintenance can be tolerated if she hot. But even then it gets old...And hard on the checkbook. If women want to be appreciated for who they are then high maintenance is not the way to go. But if your happy with yourself go with it. Its a turn off because your putting "nice things" over the person and who you really are.
Marshalls isn't for the high maintenanace per se...its for people that want to buy quality clothes at a cheaper price.
Shopping at the mall is for high maintenance...
I was in Marshalls earlier this year looking for a sorority thing that I needed for cheap and I didn't see one thing in there that I would buy because all of it looked ugly and cheap. I might spend more on my clothes but they last longer and aren't ugly
Typical Self centered sorority chick....I knew there was a reason why I don't date girls like you.
Every marshalls is different. They get shipments every monday,wednesday and friday.
I never shop anywhere else....and I still manage to have nice stuff, that is far from ugly or cheap. Swallow your pride and learn to look through the regular clothing racks....not the clearance racks. Stop worrying about what the sisters are gonna say about your dress.
Before you rip on all of us sorority girls my room mate this year is in my chapter...she shops almost exclusively at marshall's. Oh yeah, and at the mall they have these awesome things called sales...check them out sometime
Ohhh no you didn't.....home girl.....don't be frontin on me
Maybe your going to the wrong Marshalls the one here has the exact same brands that are of better quality.if you can find something there lets say from Juicy Couture that is $30 instead of $120 its gonna last just as long as if you paid full price.i have to admit I like the mall better but Marshalls is AMAZING if you have themed events/parties and don't want to pay full price on items every time but still want name brand stuff.or if someones birthday is coming up that is "high maintenance" haha!
A girl that is "high maintenance" is a REALLY big turn on to me. It shows that she takes care of herself, and cares about her appearance. As much as I am attracted to them, I am also about as equally intimidated
i'm the same way lol
i think guys are a bit scared of it. they probably fear that they have to make a huge effort in a relationship with that girl :-/
Many men in that age range, don't want to make the effort..............easier to put on jeans and take her to Carls Junior for a 'Steak Sandwich" .............with her wearing a dress, hose and heels.................
Yea there's enough easy girls out there
a lot of people don't realize that in order to appear high maintenance, in a good way, you actually have to act interested in other people and things. you have to actually act like you're interested in certain things to show what your standards are.
If I have to pay for everything on our first encounters, forget it. High maintenace girls should get off their butts and back themselves up.
...call me old fashioned, and I'm not high maintenance in anyway, but you don't expect to pay on your first few dates with a lady? Most men I know wouldn't dream of letting the girl chip in on the first couple.
Agreed, I'm not saying I'll never pay but if you don't pay on the first date there won't be a second. Even when I go out with my guy friends they usually cover me and won't even let me see the bill
You're both high maintenance then. Girls should be independnent and pay for themselves. Only way I'm paying for the date is if the girl proves valuable enough.
There's nothing wrong with a guy being a gentleman. Girls don't have to prove anything to the guys they're dating. Most of the time once you have a girl she'll treat you like a king...paying for dates isn't too much to ask considering what you're getting in return (not to mention she probably spent a good deal of time and money getting ready to look good for you)
I'd just want a girl that was classy, nice, pretty... but didn't let it get to her head.
A mature, cute, classy girl that can give me her time of day... Pssh! is she even out there?!
i personally don't mind as although my age, I graduated early and managed to score quite a successful job with a lot of income, so to me its not much of a problem, as long as she appreciates it, think of it as like a sports car, you buy an amazing one, you have to maintain it...
I like high maintenance girls, because I am totally non maintenance, and they can balance me out. Plus I find it sexy when they get bossy (but not too bossy, then that is just a complete turn off)
the main concern in marriges is money issues. if you are out selfishly spending a lot of money on yourself, then it is going to be a turn off. and in some cases a reason for separation or divorce. money is what causes many divorces and separations
LoL girl you gotz to kick it with me.. I love cheap yet fashion finding stores! lol anywho... From what I seen with my homies you could b a turnoff if they dnt knw you... like they might look at you like if youd only go for guys with money or label you a goldigger and shyt like dat... but like if a guy gets to knw you and c ur nice personallity I'm sure it won't b a turn off
In this situation I apply the golden rule. I am spending on you what you are spending on me. As simple as that.
they dress nice and have great style...i think people who judge are just jealous
Amen
After reading some of the guys comments all I can say is... There is some cheap men out there! Shame on you! I hope never to meet you, lol
well your personality should tell them if they like you - not your bag
If you are annoying then I guess that is a problem- if not then why stress.
what would you think about high maintenance guys? they would probably match your lifestyle better (prob rich themselves) and wouldn't mind your maintenance levels.
yes its a turn off. I don't really even like makeup
Make up doesn't necessarily mean high maintenance since most girls wear at least a little make up
I was just stating that I don't like women that try to hard. I kinda like the been up all night studying hair in a pony tail look myself
It takes me maybe 2 minute to put on make up in the morning, I spend more effort brushing my teeth than I do with my make up. And girls don't always put on make up for guys, we like to feel pretty, if eye liner makes us feel pretty it's coming on and most of us don't feel pretty (or good about anything) after pulling an all nighter
I wear pajamas to class
Good for you, I'm wearing my pajamas right now. I don't wear pajamas to class because 1) I have a lot of clothes and I like to wear them and 2) because I like not looking like a rolled out of bed and decided to go to class. I also just don't see the point in wearing pajamas to class, it's not like you're the only one who had to get up but apparently you're the only one that couldn't be bothered to get dressed. At the very least grab some sweatpants
You know its like whatever
Why are your spending habits relevant? I don't pay for any girl's sh*t, so it doesn't matter to me. She can buy all the sh*t she wants. I don't care how high maitenance she is, I'm not going to maintain her.
I didn't say I wanted anyone to maintain me...I maintain myself
Ok, so then it doesn't matter how high maintainence you are.
What if you want a girl that's high maintenance, but she won't go out with you unless you maintain her?
Out the door she goes.
Even if she's really attractive?
Yes.
Lol a little too radical though. I think its okay to spend on her as long as she spends on me the same amount that I am spending on her. If she doesn't then f*** her.
No balls.
A real pimp or mack gets his women to buy stuff for him without spending a penny.
She can be high maintenance, just don't act high maintenance.
as long as I get my d*** sucked after I buy her some nice things, I'll be fine.