i make fun of other girls who have ugly faces and yet I tell people all the time that we need to stop bullying in high schools because a girl just killed herself from being bullying. although the girl I just made fun of is my age, so she wouldn't kill herself. she's an adult and old enough to not let words hurt her, but still.
so today when I saw her, she lives in my building I talked to her in the elevator. she looked really shocked that I would talk to her. I told her she can hang out with me sometime and she told me not to do her any favors and looked angry. but I guess I've been making fun of her for the last year because of her face. now I feel bad. it's not something I've ever thought about.
but I've never been in a long term relationship. I've had plenty of boyfriends, but nothing for a long time and I remember a lot of them saying it's because I am shallow and high maintenance.
it was my favorite aunt in the whole world who pointed this out to me because I have no friends anymore. I am lonely and that ugly girl would have been doing me a favor, not the other way around.
any advice?
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