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You're not ugly. And I don't see anything wrong with being picky. I'm also picky, but most people say that's good in a way. Because then it means you won't settle for less in life. Yes, it will take longer to find that special person, but I guess its just with time. I totally agree that looks aren't everything, but you need to be attracted to the person in order to have a proper relationship with them. If you aren't sexually attracted to them, then what's the use? So, don't stress about this picky and shallow thing. You just know what you like in a person and there's nothing wrong with that. Just give it time, you'll meet that special someone sooner or later.11
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You dont look too bad dont worry. I feel the same, I only like guys who seem waaay out of my league physically. The only guy I actually like doesn't like me. Its sad. You move on though. Trust me, you can't control your attraction. The words picky and shallow are just stupid, they are just words meaning you are just attracted to people. Dont worry, you like what you like, don't try to punish yourself because of the way you are attracted to people.11
Well, it's hard for me to give you advice because I don't know what you look like. You are saying that you are ugly but the chances are that you're probably not. You just have high standards, there isn't really anything wrong with that11
By realizing you're not ugly at all.11
dude you look really nice11
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Well hey, at least you are self-aware and know that your standards are really high. I don't necessarily think you should change your standards, but I do think you'd benefit a lot from broadening them.
Learn to find things beyond the physical attractive -- personality yes, but also a girl’s mannerisms, overall aura, intelligence, etc. Don’t fixate so much on slight physical flaws. Give sweet, cute/unique-looking girls (who maybe and probably aren’t your ideal “10”) a chance. I think it’s important to really try get to know a girl before writing her off completely, because if you guys are compatible personality-wise you’ll likely end up finding her a lot more attractive.
Ill keep that in mind. I do need to change things up a little.. thank you