How should I feel about my girlfriend getting drunk without me?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend goes out every now and then and drinks with her cousins. she is very trustworthy (as far as I know) and she is still a virgin(which for me contributes to my trust for her). but the problem is that I've never drank before and therefore never gotten drunk and I've never seen her drunk or seen how she acts when she's drunk. should I tell her that I don't approve(I don't because I don't know her cousins at all and the situation of being around the guys there) or just suck it up, shut my mouth, and suffer in silence with my thoughts.

Ask me any questions if you need more info in case I left anything out that might be important

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+1 y

she goes like to a frat party or some other place where there are guys also. not just her and her cousins

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+1 y

idk if I would drink given the oppurtunity because I can have a good time anyways. she just usually decides to go, and just tells me that she's going. it might just be that I'm just bein protective of her

[soslin711]

When you say she goes out with her cousins...it's just her and them? Or they like go out to a bar/club and she's surrounded by guys?

[soslin711]

Well, suffering in silence is never ever a good idea because you will start to resent her. I would talk to her about it, and let her know it makes you uncomfortable. Don't attack her or assume she's flirting/hanging out with the other guys. Not to say that you should start drinking, or that she should stop.. but see if you can find something you both can enjoy together.

[mistriss]

well just nicely talk to her about it, and if she knows and loves you like I think she does she'll understand

[Anonymous]

If I were you I wouldn't be to quick to think the worst maybe you should meet her cousin first then figure things out.

[volleyballgirl]

Try to trust her until she proves you shouldn't