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You know, you just need to get over it. I'm a short guy -- 5'4". My doctor says I'm 5'5" but I think her nurse rushes the measurement. ;-) Anyway, I've never had trouble with women. I mean, over my life have lots of women rejected me? Of course but you know, that's the game. I mean, do you like really fat girls? Seriously. Because "fat" on a woman is analogous to "short' on a guy. And you know what, I don't feel sorry for fat women or short guys because it's all in the game. Guys don't owe fat women a thing and women certainly aren't in debt to short guys either. And the thing is for me, it gets even worse because I have a tiny dick. I'll tell you stories about it sometime if you're interested.
But here's the thing -- I'm living proof that not all is lost. Work on your career, save and invest money, and something like get into the restaurant scene or maybe even theatre. I like hipster restaurants and musicals and it's allowed me to click with a lot of women. My ex-wife was 5'7" and at the corporate Christmas parties, guys would always gush to me about how hot she was. We'd go to these clubs together to meet up with her friends and some guy would hit on her (I never cared) and she'd tell him that she was married and point me out. A couple times, the guy walked over to me and asked me
"You're married?"
"Yes"
(Pause)
"To her?"
Does becoming successful and cultured mean that no women will reject you? No, of course they'll still reject you -- but there are so many women out there that it won't even matter. I don't pine over ex-girlfriends, my ex-wife, or any other girl that I missed out on over the years because it's like the most replaceable thing in the world. Just work on yourself a little (maybe even a lot) and you'll realize this too.
Because their instincts tell them that they need a protector. A taller partner easily gives off the impression that he'd be a good one.
Besides, women have standards for height and men complain but then ignore the fact that men's standards for women are unrealistic as well.
"It is detrimental to our self-esteem."
-That technically is no one's problem but your own. It is not other people's responsibility to keep your self esteem up.
Men standards actually only seem to be about weight which is easily within a woman's control.
@BubbleBoy69 my last point still stands none the less - it's not girl's responsibility to comfort you. They can have all the preferences they want. As can we.
They can but the problem become when women have their preference and it backfires on them then they blame the men they thought they were above for shunning them later in life for younger women and/or shaming them for having their own preference whether it be weight or number of sexual partners.
If women would accept the consequences of keeping their preference (meaning no wanting guy X years later when reading for provider male) and stopped shaming men for having standards including going so far as to destroy a man's life then I think men would be fine with women having their preference.
@BubbleBoy69 I don't see this scenario playing out all that often. Majority of women end up with someone anyway - the ones that don't and later have to search "for a provider" are the minority.
Actual it does often play out this way that people have actually posted videos/articles discussing about this behaviour. There are even research papers on this behaviour which state that women often try to over reach and go for men above them and try to acquire the best genetics possible but in doing so they run the risk of said male not committing to them.
This create a balancing system where if a woman goes too far above her station she could risk being dumped and/or not being used as a cum rag by said male. Many women in their youth will pursue men they believe to be alpha males and try to get his commitment when they get too old and/or are tired of being pump and dumped they will go for a much safer option which often mean dating men who they thought they were too good for in the past.
This often results in them settling. Women however do not like to settle (again relates back to hypergamy) and will only settle for a brief period of time if they have to.
@BubbleBoy69 can you really blame people for trying to search what is best for them (and often failing)? Yes women do that, but then again no one's forcing you to later settle with such girls. What they do afterwards having failed is their own business.
People will always try and go for the best, even if it's unfeasible.
If a woman fears being alone she will grudgingly stick with a person as many women fear being alone. While those who think they can do better will often divorce the male they settled with sometime in the future. This is why more than 70% of divorces are initiated by women as a lot of women settle and are not really happy with the men they pick as a partner, whether that be due to them not having as much sexual attraction for them or their personality being less fun than the men they use to bang in the past is up to the woman.
And majority of women do end up with someone but that doesn't mean that person is the guy they want to be with or truly love.
@BubbleBoy69 but this rant is relevant how here? The point is that they go for something high, and often fail. Yes. But that won't be changing no matter how much people whine about it. They will still aim high and they will still disregard the 'safer' options for various reasons.
A perfect example of this that guys have spoken about is when a girl drops a guy who she is truly in love with and wants to marry but the guy is draging his feet on proposing to her. This usually occurs around 30's mark for women. The girl in question will drop said male and within 1 year get with another guy to put a ring on her because she is on a timeline to get married and have kids, but she doesn't really love this guy. He is just a placeholder husband because the guy she truly wants to commit to her isn't willing to.
So think of this like 2 intersecting sets. One set are men who will commit fully in the form of marriage, the other is men who will not commit fully. Now, a man who a woman truly loves may be in the set men who do not want to get married, and best possible guy who is willing to commit to her will be in the other set. A woman if she is ready to settle down will pick the best possible guy willing to commit but he isn't her ideal.
"but this rant is relevant how here? The point is that they go for something high, and often fail. Yes. But that won't be changing no matter how much people whine about it. They will still aim high and they will still disregard the 'safer' options for various reasons."
The rant is relevant to educate your ass that even though a woman finds someone doesn't mean she loves him. It was to show you the fault in your logic.
The other thing is I'm talking about is that men would be fine with women keeping their preference if women would accept the consequences of their preference. Whether that be being too picky because of height, wallet or dating a certain type of men in their then shaming men later in life who she did not want for not wanting to commit to her or going for these men later in life because she wants them for other reasons besides liking them as a person. This type of behavior is not fair for the guys side is what i'm getting at.
@BubbleBoy69 I'm not gonna bother reading your rants, dude. And there is no fault in my logic since what I wrote was not an idea as much as it was a statement - humans, in this case women, go for something high. That can and will not be changed. And it is not their prerogative to make sure you feel satisfied in your dating life. That can not and will not be changed. Simple.
My response to you is no more a rant than yours and why are you on a question site if you are so closed minded to other people's views then? It is fine to go for something high but it has damaging effect on everyone else when that behaviour leads to negative consequences which i addressed.
Human nature is not always good for everyone else by the way, this is why social conditioning for both genders to rise above anamilistic nature is beneficial for society than to just let it fester.
@BubbleBoy69 that's wishful thinking.
And yet thanks to social conditioning we don't rape, steal and kill each other like we use to in high amounts in the past because we train kids that those things are bad.
@BubbleBoy69 there was never a point in history where that happened "all the time". Such ideas are misguided. People have always been against rape and murder and in fact punishments used to be more sever for each offense.
Go to any gore-related site and you'll find daily examples of atrocious crimes that don't make the news simply because reporting in on celebrities is more profitable.
Do you know how the Roman Empire became so powerful? It was because they put in place laws which punished murder allowing their civilization numbers to flourish while other cultures had lower numbers due to being more lawless. I know its hard for liberals to comprehend but raping and pillaging were very common things during time of war when people still used swords and shield.
@BubbleBoy69
For one, I am not a liberal. For two, raping and pillaging is common now and in the last century as well. Take WW2 for example. Or really any war in recent history.
Or any war ever.
Raping, murder and pillaging are deem by society to be bad now because we have enforce laws and put in place social conditioning for them to be bad. In your previous argument you were saying there was never a point in history where 2that happened all the time". I never said it was happening every second just that it was far more socialy acceptable as something to do and people were doing it frequently in the past and people did it a lot whether in war setting or outside of it. For example - A man could legally rape his wife in the past and not be held accountable by the law for it during the time women were considered property but this changed now where such behaviour would be shun. Even acceptance of hating races has now been condition to be viewed as a bad thing while 60 years prior it would be encourage and people would act on it.
Humans can be conditioned to accept and believe almost anything.
To summarise my original argument:
1. Men are fine with women keeping their preference as long as they stick to it and not switch over to another type of guy later in life when they want to settle down and looking at him as a wallet. If you want to keep your standard for dating certain men then you need to be a big girl too and accept the consequences of being alone later in life if it backfires in your face rather than using a human being as a safety blanket.
2. Stop shaming men for dating younger or overlooking older women later in life when they did the same to them when younger.
3. Stop going out out of there way to destroy men lives for having preference. Many women will try to get a man fired from his job for rejecting them either directly or indirectly and basically tarnish their career.
@BubbleBoy69 "because we have enforce laws and put in place social conditioning for them to be bad."
-They were always there. They're just subject to slight change. You're naive to believe this is anything new.
"it was far more socialy acceptable"
-False. That's a common myth that we are "more enlightened" today and perceive it as bad only now.
"A man could legally rape his wife"
-The whole rape issue was viewed differently all together. Men were never legally permitted to 'harm' their spouses and slaps with the belt or any such practice that would be considered abuse today was deemed normal back then, even by women who in turn used the same violent practices when disciplining kids. And 'maritial rape' was viewed differently as well - what we now consider rape was essentially 'just sucking it up and putting out.' AKA doing your duty of copulating.
It was normal to expect sex since men and women had an agreement - protect and provide in return for copulate and clean.
They were never always there. Are you really naive to believe that during start of human creating their was a punishment for murder? Animals kill each other all the time and are not held accountable; this was natural state of humans during early stages.
"That's a common myth that we are "more enlightened" today and perceive it as bad only now."
It's not being enlighten as it is about being condition to perceive it now. Child soldiers growing up in countries where they are condition to kill people without remorse will have no problem with murder. Everything you believe and talk about right now has all been condition by you. Media/education system/social norms plays a powerful influence in how you perceive the world. This is why good and evil are all relative terms based on a certain point of view.
And you just proved my point. What is considered not normal/acceptable now was considered normal back then. Society changes people perception on what is acceptable and what is not acceptabl
@BubbleBoy69 "re you really naive to believe that during start of human creating their was a punishment for murder?"
-For one, humans were not created. For two, yes, ever since the dawn of civilization - laws were in place. How well they were implemented is an altogether different matter but no society that went beyond small villages has never functioned without laws in place. It is a prerequisite of civilization and government.
Conditioning has always varied from time to time indeed but I don't see how that matters at the moment.
I don't think any point was proven - your entire initial argument was about how women are negatively affecting themselves and people around them when they are hypergamous when in reality the only people they affect ar the people they did not choose to date and the idiots that later settle for the ones the alphas didn't need.
Everything is created. Laws won't always put in place and we are just going around in circles with you saying your right and me saying your wrong with repeat argument. So agree to disagree.
You initial argument was that humans have always found rape, murder and so forth to be wrong where I pointed out to you several instances including one with a child soldier being brought up to think murder is normal as a counter example.
My entire initial argument was summarised not too long ago. It was never about women not picking certain men and it will negatively affect themselves. It was about women 1. Holding themselves accountable for their action and accepting consequence of being hypergamous if they choose to be 2. Women not shaming/hurting men for having their own standards. And yes there are negative consequence of hypergamy that affect us all. Single mothers often put heavy burden on society both financially, and increase in crime, along with other things.
Uncontrolled hypergamy often lead to women being single mothers due to them picking men above their station who did not commit (remember in my initial statement I spoke about balance).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QI3FE4pI_kw
@BubbleBoy69 "So agree to disagree."
-Agreed.
As a species, it is by default instinctual to not harm others for no reason It's Darwinian evolutionary principles - to be aggressive at all times is not strategically viable since that increases the chances of you dying too early and not reproducing. All animals, humans included, instinctively pick and choose their fights. Those that don't, die out. Murderers, thieves and rapists come from two lots - those who's parents completely butchered their upbringing, or those that are the minority of mentally deranged people.
Though I will not deny that single mothers are everyone's problem - but that is an issue that has to be addressed not by disallowing hypergamy - which is pointless (though discouraging is not bad), but by reshaping the system so that single mothers are not a burden on everyone. How to do that, I do not know. But outlawing hypergamy (even if that was somehow possible) won't change human nature - it will still be done anyway.
I never said murder, rape and so forth were done for no reason. Humans and animals are greedy and often these acts are carried out for an underlying reason for ones own survival. Rape is carried out sometime as a sexual strategy by animals to ensure their genes get passed on. Murder is often carried out by another for several reason such as one being a possible threat in the future (e. g. lions killing the cubs of another male) or even to steal resources. People only keep those alive if said group can help facilitate them in achieving their goals but best believe will have no problem sacrificing one or everyone in a group if it means that they can help them achieve their goals.
Hypergamy isn't necessarily a bad thing but unchecked hypergamy and one which is not held accountable is bad. In the world today we look at unchecked hyergamy which correlates with rise in single mothers.
A girl today who is 5/10 in looks
www.tallwomen.org/.../kelly3.jpg
Often percieves herself much higher than that due to many men employing the numbers game and inflated boost women get o social media by people who tell them how beautiful she is. So a girl who is a 5 now think she is a 7/10 and thanks to hypergamy will want a guy who is at least an 8/10. Men lower their standard when it comes to casual sex/flings. The effect of both often leads to that 7/10 getting knocked up with a kid from 8/10 guy who will not commit to her in raising the child leading to single mothers. This is encourage even further by the underlying narrative which tell women to go for the best and encourage them that it is fine being a single mom. Compound this also with how many men are willing to marry/date single mom and be step father and women have no negative backlash in the short term and continue to do it.
However, there is a long term effect of this which we as a society are now starting to feel and it is only going to get worse.
"and often these acts are carried out for an underlying reason for ones own survival. "
-And that then depends on upbringing. Not on some default internal factory settings.
And you don't have to reiterate your dislike about single mothers, I got the memo.
Look - the difference between you and me is that you dislike hypergamy and wish for it to be stopped/lessened. Okay, good for you. I on the other hand don't like it but neither do I care to make it my problem. If a girl chooses someone else over me for superficial reasons, then whatever. She wasn't worth it then anyway.
@BubbleBoy69
I don't have a dislike for single mothers. You really need to stop putting words in my mouth. Pointing out that single mothers create a negative effect on society does not mean you dislike women who are single mothers.
I have no problem with hypergamy. I just don't agree/approve of women not accepting the consequence of hypergamy if they so choose to and them shaming men for having their own standards while not being criticised for having their own.
@BubbleBoy69 okay, I stand corrected.
You shouldn't look for the acceptance to end or rather begin on women's side of things. You need to learn to accept yourself and realise FOR yourself, that your self worth is in no way affected by your height. Only someone who is slightly challenged might be able to make that connection.
But, to answer, I think most women always desire a strong sense of security in their relationship and from their man. And inherently, that tends to be associated with largeness of stature, or at least being larger than her (not necessarily all bulked up). But, an intelligent women should be able to realise for herself that security with a guy, especially security in terms of being able to truly be herself and be loved for that, has got zilch to do with his appearance. And that that is simply a psychological association, which can be broken.
Of course their are some who just have that preference, like some guys prefer large breasts or a big ass. But if they're looking for someone to be serious with, they should be able to overlook that.
You should say to yourself, do I really want to be with someone close-minded in that sense anyway? Are they worth my time and effort? If you're not wanting anything serious though, and it is just a preference issue for the women, unfortunately you're just going to have to accept yourself regardless.
I think you need to reevaluate your statement applying to ALL women.
I'm 5'10", and my boyfriend of over three years is maybe like... 5'8-5'7". Obviously our height difference was a bit of a concern to me a long time ago until I realized that the only people who seemed to care the most were those not in the relationship. You wouldn't believe how much pressure taller girls face from society and even their friends/family to adhere to dating norms where the guy, for some reason, has to be taller than them.
He is full 3 inches shorter than you. Almost short than almost every man as well. So his height was a concern for you initially, why?
Well yeah generally guys are taller than that!!
Even girls are tall as much as your height. How short do you like men?
Hahaha.
OK
What's the shortest man you can ever date?
And how tall is such a man? 5'6?
If you wear heels he will surely be reaching till your chest
Yeah. I guess so. A 5'6 man will be around your lips when you both are barefoot. If you wear heels then his head will be around your chest
I never said anything about my insecurityand inferiority complex. You feel so? :/
Yup
@multitudeaa I can't imagine someone who is moderately sure of themselves and not trying to compensate for their 'lack' of height as being so analytical about something as insignificant as societal ideals for which partner is taller, or by how much. So yeah... you've definitely got issues with feeling inferior due to your height. Which, regardless of your actual height, will likely keep many women far away.
Try being a short man, only the. Will you understand the inferiority complex and insecurity
It really is bad. Very bad to be short man having hairy shoulders and chest
I’m 5’7-5’8 and I would definitely date a 5’10 girl! Do you wear heels?
If a girl really knows you and likes you, she won't care about your height.
You want a reason why girls like taller guys? Girls subconsciously are looking for a man who can protect them. So usually girls are drawn to taller and/or muscular build. It's just natural human science. Look it up. (I don't mean that in a rude way.)
How tall are you?
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Usually I'd go for a guy my height or taller but hey my ex was around your height and I'm 4cm taller but who cares? My friends would ask me about it but I liked my ex at the time so screw height, he's my guy.
What's your height?
@multitudeaa Used to be 164 now 165 he's like 160-161
Wow how did you grow 1 cm?
Hey, don't you wear heels?
@multitudeaa naw I don't wear heels. High school student. And I grew 1cm in like a few months.
Your guy is almost 2 inches smaller than you and in general as well he has height of a petite woman. You don't mind him being short than women as your female friends?
@multitudeaa my ex haha. and no i really didn't. He can make me laugh and he's a nice guy. He treated me like a queen and I liked him back as well. My friends did say "He's shorter than you ya know". I'll say "so?". He's a bit self-conscious about his height as well, but I always reassured him that I was completely fine with it and I didn't care how tall he was.
Wasn't he short than women?
thanks man :) Trust me there are girls out there that can look past the height. Don't give up. There's a lot more to live for than to die for.
@multitudeaa yeah he was shorter than me and most of my friends. But that's not what i only look at when i look for a guy.
I mean you felt you were with a man?
@multitudeaa yeah. I'm pretty sure he's male haha. And when his friend were being mean to me he'd stand up for me and tell them to stop their bs right now. Even now he does that. So yes, he is a man despite of his height.
That's so sweet
@multitudeaa thanks XD
Hey, you dislike HAIRY chest?
@multitudeaa Not a big fan of body hair but uh I don't know it's alright i guess.
Did you wear heels?
Because it's natural choice, and because tall man looks stronger and more manly.
tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/OneHeadTaller
Can we stop with this "all women" and "all men" bullshit. There are a bunch of couples where the woman is taller than the guy, it's only natural that with most couples guys are taller since guys are naturally taller than women.
That being said I hope the girls who do date based on height realize that they are just as shallow as guys who would date on breast size for example.
Give this man MHo
To be fair, 99% of the women on here make anti-short men posts (all the more reason for me to go back to cutting) all the time. Hell, they'd probably kill all short men if they could. And honestly... I don't blame them.
Other than 2 of my exes that were shorter than me the rest were anywhere from.5 inch to 6 inches taller than me. My girlfriend is 1 inch taller than me but none the less still taller than me. I am 5'4 which is only 1 inch taller than you. Quit your whining. Not all women care about height. If a woman is taller than you and prefers someone taller than them you seem to not be able to accept it. I have seen a lot of guys with women taller than them. Get over it.
Do they wear heels?
@MarcusBorino Yes they do
You're coping right now. 5'3 is pretty damn short for a guy and you're going to have a rough road ahead of you in the dating game. You're going to have to learn how to deal with this in a better way than you are right now.
Oye chico, would you recommend this to him since he wasn't born as lucky, or is this too extreme? I'm not sure if I would if I was that short, but I could understand the impulse to take an extream measure like that.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VzscBeRtwo
Women have a strange obsession with staring up your nostrils. It really seems to get them going. Just remember: Clean nose is vital. You might never see it, your guy friends might never see it, but the girls, oh yes they can.
Your smaller height limits your range but allows for some degree of specialization. There will be people who value you for the exact same things you're feeling bad about. Also plenty of people who won't really care.
its just a physical preference. having a boyfriend who is taller can make you feel very save and protected. BUT ofcourse if i met a guy who's personality is perfect for me i wouldn't care about physical appearance.
Well I'm 5'7 so I need a guy at least my height or taller because I would just feel weird if my boyfriend was way shorter then me like 5'3 for example but it's not like I'm looking for sometime super tall though but I mean there's a lot of short girls that are under 5'2 that you should probably focus on you will probably have more luck that way
5’7 is perfect for a girl!
Would you still wear heels if he was the same height as you?
So I can climb up his back and swing from his arms pretending I'm a monkey in a tree
But honestly height matters little to me. It's your personality that gets me. You're probably just going after the wrong type of girls. I'm posture there are some out there who don't care near you. Don't go killing youself over something like height
I am 5'4. Not always, I've only had 1 girlfriend that is shorter than me, which is my current. The last few had 4-6" on me.
Thank you man :D.
I guess the illusion of 'protection' it's a desire that is set in ladies minds i believe from Hollywood, that they have to have it.
Thanks man, just an observation lol
Nothing worse than having an unrequited situation where you know the guy she's with is not good for her but she loves him anyway
Because women percieve tall men as leaders and think taller men can protect them and enforce their will when need be. Many women are looking for men are leaders, who will protect them and who they can manipulate to enforce their will on other people. Hence, why the for the latter they often will give a very rich, powerful man a chance even if he is short.
This kind of make women out to be like parasites looking for strong host to control and take over.
yup i think 5'3 is too little.. i think you should go for a girl who is shorter than you..
i don't think the height acceptance will end because that is how the world works... taller guys always have better luck...
I'm 5'2 and prefer 5'7-6'2. But as long as the guy is my height or taller, I can accept that
It actually goes down to be biology of it. Women release most of their pheromones through their heads in order to attract a mate. This is why women are genetically shorter than men are most of the time. This is why women prefer a taller man.
For me, it doesn't matter. As long as he's nice and caring.
How tall are you?
my ex husband was 5ft 3. Didn't have any problem with it.
not because of his height. The asshole cheated
yeah he was. Thanks. Yeah I do of course
How tall are you? Did you wear heels?
I would look past almost anything appearance wise it doesn't matter
Yeah? You can even look past if he is excessively hairy man?
I dont know any guys who are around my age who are excessively hairy. As long as a guy is hygienic and has all of the personality traits i want in a guy i dont really care. Of course appearance over all is important to me but there isn't one specific trait that i find physically unattractive in a guy.
Hahaha I feel being excessive hairy does bother you a bit! Haha
O well, can I take it that you are complimenting excessive hairy men about being masculine? :P
But despite being masculine he is sexually repulsive! Sadly.
So you mean you might never be attracted to him?
Haha OK ok
How tall are you?
It's not going to end.
Women do not exist to promote our self-esteem.
Work. Save money, and get the leg lengthening surgery. At 5'6" you can at least go somewhere where you're close to average height, like Malaysia, and get a girl.
Leg lengthening surgery is know to cause neurological damage that can leave you a cripple.
@BubbleBoy69
It *can* do that if pursued too rapidly, or if you try to go for 4 inches, but 3 inches is safe.
Sometimes, the girl's parents may reject the boyfriend upon meeting him. The girl may be caught between the parents and the boyfriend and figures that it's not a good match, so she ditches him because of his height.
I'm 5'2 and as long as they are 5'2 and taller I'm good
There are girls shorter than 5 ft 3 in. Keep your eyes on those ones.
I like your answer but I feel like society has put too much limits on choosing a mate and I don't need to be told by people who I should or shouldn't date. I don't think a tall guy or short makes all the difference when it comes to being who is good in bed or who is going to raise a family.
It's just the natural order of things since men tend to be taller than women. My boyfriend is actually a little shorter than me but we're more the exception than the rule as I have found out.
I am 5'7 and find it hard to meet a girl would be fine with me being average height.
If I was your height I would aim for women who are 4'5 or lower in height.
Average height for a man is 5'9
Lol 5'7 is not average height. You are borderline a girl height at that level.
Im not much taller and it hasn't really been a problem for me.
Bcs its normal
Men in general are taller than women
Same reason why most men want a woman shorter than them. Tall women have a harder time finding mates too.
I like girls the same height as me
Taller would be fine too!
It's called a preference. There guys who want big boobs or a big butt. Why can't women have a preference?
I think it's nature, but lots of short men find beautiful women
Sorry, but it's not even manlet height, it's midget height.
Because they want to feel protected and "dominated".
am sorry you feel that way
5'3 omd LOOL HOBBITON L:OOKING MOTHERFKER
damn man i didn't read that bit. I have a mate who is 5'4 and his confidence makes you forget his height. Due to the average height for women and men being about 6 inches... it's too unreasonable for women to want someone taller. But there will be women who are shorter than 5'3 and those who won't mind it.
You should see a Councillor. If you are having suicidal thoughts i mean you have way past that line where it is important enough to see someone.
I'm 6'1, white (apparently this helps... depends where you live i guess), decent looking (women rate me from 6-7.5). On paper I should be able to get a girlfriend no problem. But due to my low self esteem and many other negative vibes I seem to give off... it deters women. If you fully accept yourself others will as well.
No problem. But especially if it's free I advise seeing someone to talk to. You will find it a lot more beneficial than having people online tell you something similar. Things i read online i often brush off after a week. Speaking to someone in person... I dunno i just take it more seriously (especially if they are an 'expert' in that field)..
I am currently in the process of treatment by a specialist. However, nothing in life has ever made me feel better than confronting girls who have given me unequal treatment as a friend because I was undatable or good looking from there standards. It seems to me that some girls these days are looking for a friend that is attractive and datable rather than a friend for the sake of a nice and cool person.
my tall is 1.97 cm and really girls love tall guys...
You don't kick someone when they are down!
I seriously doubt height is the reason for it all.
because they don't want to fuck one of the 7 dwarfs
@Jamesol1 ooops I didn't read the question fully
I am 5'1 and I feel your pain
Sry man but you can t change people s preferances
Because they like to get dominated and manhandled.
Height matters to me. Tall guys are just sexy af.
Why would this get so many downvotes? lmao. It's common knowledge that women are attracted taller guys. That's basic logic. This site is filled with politically correct social justice warriors.
What's your height! Why did you date a short man who was mere 5'6?
How tall are you?
Ok cool
I feel protected
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