When a was a teen and I looked like a nerd underweight boy that's obsessed with anime and heavy metal I'd only attract unattractive boys, and even that was rare (not saying you're ugly/ look weird though). In my early 20s my physical appearance improved and in years only one single unattractive guy approached me. Most of them wouldn't even look at me. But a lot of attractive guys would. Also, I think it happens mostly with guys because some women, more than men, will think they won't be rejected at least if it's only sex what they want (they think since most men seem to only want sex they have lower standards, what's not true at all according to my experiences. And don't say to me it's because teen boys are still immature 'cause they WOULDN'T look at me but they'd look a lot at attractive girls, and most of these girls were not even beautiful, they were just average but attractive. And I doubt guys when they're in their 20s will lower their standards that much so girls they'd find ugly in their teens will seem ok for them now. I changed, that's why they started approaching me.). So, in order to demand attractive girls, you must be attractive (not necessarily or not only have an attractive physical appearance though). And, just don't care about the unattractive ones approaching you, just politely reject them. I see a a lot of highly attractive guys being approached by unattractive girls and they're cool with them. I hope you didn't mind the long text.
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