Why do people think that only unattractive caucasian guys are attracted to Asian women?

[sarahemilyyy]

I was on urban dictionary and reddit where I frequently hear people say that:

"the only guys who go for Asian girls (apart from Asian guys) are unattractive caucasian guys who are rejected from white females"

"they pick Asian girls because they are the easiest"

"white guys who don't have social skills and insecure, usually middle age, go to Thailand and Phillipines for young Asian girls"

"only awkward, weak and (again), unattractive, romantically hopeless white guys go for Asian girls."

"only ugly males date Asian girls"



Are Asian girls/women that ugly?
Is it wrong that guys have preference?
Like how many guys prefer slavic/hispanic girls cause they're hot.
What's with Asian girls?

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+1 y

Here, many are slim but have meat.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think that some people think that Asian women are unattractive because Asian women, on average, have smaller boobs than other ethnicities. That belief is based on the assumption that all men prefer big boobs, and that assumption is absolutely false.

"Are Asian girls/women that ugly?" No. Obviously, they are different from Caucasian women, but Asian women can be very beautiful. Many of them have delicate features, captivating faces, and slender or athletic bodies.

"Is it wrong that guys have preference?" No. Preferences are not something that we choose for ourselves. I prefer petite women but there was never a time when I made a conscious decision to prefer petite women. I cannot fault someone for a preference that they did not consciously choose.

"Like how many guys prefer Slavic/Hispanic girls cause they're hot?" I have dated several Eastern European women as well as a few Hispanic women. Yes, they can be quite beautiful, also, but I tend to avoid Hispanic women because, in my experiences, they were overly-dramatic and histrionic.

"What's with Asian girls?" I am dating a Chinese girl now and I'm quite happy with her. I don't think that she is perfect but I do think she is a great match for me.

[sarahemilyyy]

What about eastern women?

hehe.. And, what do you think is the difference with dating a chinese and dating a hispanic/eastern european?

[OlderAndWiser]

Eastern women? Do you mean middle eastern women? I have never dated any middle eastern woman. I have dated Europeans, South Americans, and Asian women.

European culture is not drastically different from American culture. Asian culture is SO different from Western culture it is like dating a woman from another planet! Food is vastly different, customs, traditions, expectations, level of commitment to a relationship. . . it's all different.

[sarahemilyyy]

Hehe sorry i meant eastern european women.

[sarahemilyyy]

That's nice to see that you're exposed to different culture... Do you think from experiences that Asian women are loyal?

[sarahemilyyy]

Hope you can taste more of our food... There are just a variety of them, from noodles to rice and bread :)

[soe11]

Partially agree with you, true background and pictures are different according my knowledge and observations;
1. In Europe, America and most western countries braking married are in higher numbers, family dismantling and unfairness in between partners as no one willing to submission one another, individualism go beyond and
egoism.
2. Asian (SEAN) are mor flexibility true love and loyalty, maintaing family velue.
3. Appealing and attractive light body.
4. Never shy to wear anything anywhere.
5. Faith and creed are not priority.
There are many more...
Many Caucasian Yong guys marrying to Asian girls too.

[sarahemilyyy]

Number four and five aren't correct. Many Asian girls (south east) prefer wearing clothes that are traditional or a bit conservative compared to westerners.

Also, faith and creed are not priority only to an extend. Its still not thay widespread to marry someone with different faith, although it seems that is the case since interreligion marriages are common due to extreme romanticism of western narratives on the issue. Marrying Asian families means marrying her whole family. Depends on how the family holds on to their faith or creed.

[soe11]

Thanks for responding, I know you're conservative background.
What I wrote by my personal experience and social media.
Nevertheless respect you views.
Thanks again

[sarahemilyyy]

No problem :)

[Emii_Urashima]

I have spent some time in the USA, visiting family and friends there, so I know where this is coming from. The hate comes from overweight, mostly caucasian women who are so jealous because we are not fat, shapeless blobs and we get a lot of attention from their boyfriends. I remember one time, I was at Disney world with my sister and two cousins and I noticed that several guys were checking us out. The girls they were with gave us angry looks and each one probably weighed twice what I do. In my experience in America, the caucasian guys who have shown interest in me were all good looking.

[sarahemilyyy]

I'm Asian (not east Asian but south east Asian, specifically malaysian) and I've been approached by many hot western males. I think we generally have traits that are attractive to them. I've never been to the western world, I've lived my entire life in malaysia, only to be connected to western people on the internet. I really want to taste what is it like living in the west 😍😍 What I find a bit mysterious is that why there is no backlash for white males who are attracted to hispanics/latino/middle eastern/slavic/russian women? But why is there an issue with Asian girls being attractive to males?

[Emii_Urashima]

I have lived in Japan all of my life and I was visiting the USA usually once a year before the pandemic. It is an interesting place to visit, but I would not want to live there. Malaysia is a beautiful country! I would like to visit one day, but I don't like the laws against LGBQ people. (I am bisexual). Maybe one day it will change.

[sarahemilyyy]

Wow here many malaysians really like japanese culture and style hehe, and we really admire japanese people too!

Yes Malaysia is indeed beautiful :) you can check our the world's biggest flower and the world's smelliest fruit 🙈 and about lgbtq law, it only applies to Muslims i think. Same sex marriage is still not allowed.

Some japanese opt to live in Malaysia after retirement to escape busy life as Malaysia is general is quite relaxing, laidback compared to most global major cities. For foreigners especially from developed nations, malaysia is cheap. Cheap properties, and more especially foods. Here, street foods are surprisingly very cheap. 1 dollar can get you so many desserts.

As a non muslim i don't think you'll have any problem being bisexual here but except for marriage.

[Aurora1010]

Don't pay so much attention to them, there are many assholes in the internet. Some of the comments they make about latinas is that we're fat, slutty, or crazy and annoying.
Of course the people who make such comments are assholes who give themselves too much credit and probably never even had a chance with a beautiful latina or Asian girl.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Dunno, I’ve dated an Asian woman in the past (Taiwan). We got a long and she was nice.


It’s not like they’re unattractive it’s just a stereotype white men go after Asian women because they assume she’s stable and submissive. It’s a stereotype in reverse that beyond their own race or other Asians that white guys will be the most accepted if they step outside of their culture too much.


It’s a weird situation nonetheless, you’re attractive to someone and you should do whatever makes you feel happy

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most of the women I found to be extremely gorgeous were Asian cosplay models, not all, but most (granted my interest in cosplay probably has something to do with that since it's super popular in places like Japan)

I'm told by various women (even the ones who previouslybdumped me or cheated on me) that I'm hot af via the "cute" variety of that.

I do have a cute styled face, I'm also pretty big down there, I attracted a lot of female attention growing up, less so now that I'm home all day.

Granted ugly Asians exist, but thats true for any race, and what is or isn't ugly often tends to be VERY subjective. For example my one friend only likes red heads, and I'm partial to brunettes.

Either way I can confirm the claim they made is a lie.

[Red_Arrow]

Some Asian women are ugly just like some women of any are are ugly. But most that I have met are beautiful because they take great care of themselves. Slender, good makeup but not too much, well dressed. I think the comments that you have heard that are bad comes from racists.

[Andres77]

The problem is with the people that are saying that bullshit.
It's not true.
And those are not good sources of information.
Half truths and skewed perspectives.
Just like here.
Consider the source.
Acting on info you get online without confirming it's veracity is like judging someone completely by watching an edited video on the news.
Foolish

[Anonymous]

It's not true.
Asian women are as beautiful as any other type. All kinds of white men can definitely find them very attractive.
I'm sure there are ugly white guys who get rejected by white girls so they try every other kind, but that's doesn't mean that some hot white men don't marry Asian women, they definitely do.
I'm a bit above average looking and I've dated both Caucasian and Asian women.

[Ripper_E]

I've only really known 6 or so Asian women in my entire life. Only one I did not find attractive.
People cannot control what they are attracted to. A preference may be that they happen to be drawn more to one thing, not that they value it more than another.
I'm Hispanic/Latino. I could care less what a woman's race/ethnicity is. Women all around the world are beautiful.
You tell me what's with Asian girls.

[FilmGuy93]

I guess they think that the guys who could land a white girl would rather do that. Truthfully, I have no complaints about the Asian women I've dated. It was all about attitude for me. I'd like to think I'm a decent looking guy.

[NotARobberYet]

This is just something that butthurt white women and guys who hate Asian people would say, they get offended when they see hot white guys being happy with hot Asian girls, whereas they have unhappy and mediocre lives.

[NotARobberYet]

By the way, lots of white guys think that Asian girls are much more attractive than white girls... And they're right.

[DianaWest]

yeah, you're just a racist loser who hates white women because you dont meet their standards.

[NamerOfStars]

Most don't. You'll see the odd comment like that, of course; there ARE exceptions. But those are mostly either racists, or women/girls who've lost boyfriends to Asian women and are bitter about it.

[Anonymous]

When I worke at Northrop and I used to bartend.
White men in their 50s told me about "massage parlors" and about flying to Thailand.

Also one of my good white friends he's dating another friend of mines who's straight from China.

My friend not unattractive no homo.

It's a stereotype that kinda true. White guys date white girls and Asians. Then everybody else lol.

[Nachowedgie]

Its because the people saying these things are jealous, entitled racists

[sarahemilyyy]

Can you elaborate on this more?

[Nachowedgie]

Not really, the statement speaks for itself

[sarahemilyyy]

Haha yeah... I still don't get it about the hate tho, it receives may more attention than American man/eastern european woman couple. Like, when American men say that they prefer european women because they're more feminine, healthier, slender, people don't even make any fuss about it.

But when it comes to American men or any white men attracted to Asian women because we are more feminine, healthier, slender, it receives such backlash.

One of the "reasons" stated was because of exploitation on the underprivileged in which these eastern European and Asians apparently have in common. Of course, not every women in these regions are underprivileged. It's just a generalization. However, in this aspect too, only the attention on Asian women get the backlash. While the attention on eastern european women are praised by being smart on choosing prettier and healthier women.

I'm just so confused.

[EssenceOfLight]

When I see a white boy with an Asian girl, this guy is never trash, maybe most of them aren't the top 20% of boys but at least dating material. I suppose those comments are directed towards white men as abusers of Asian girls while depicting Asian women as desperate to get into more prosperous country.
However it doesn't meet my personal observation of reality. I don't think girls from Japan or south Korea or China will date someone for a visa.

[ohshee]

Well I'm very attracted to Asian girls and I hope that I'm attractive

[slatyb]

Ridiculous. I know plenty of beautiful mixed couples.

[Anonymous]

I think it might be because of the popularity of neckbeard stories, where antisocial men r obsessed with Asian women, fetishizing them. Never heard or seen anything like u have described

[cheapshotbob]

being ugly and also fat im offended by this

this is my rebuttal XD

[bowenw]

I have never heard this. From my observations Asian women seem to prefer Asian men.

[Smegskull]

Because calling those guys unattractive is easier than admitting they aren't interested in you.

[Anonymous]

Hmm, I never realized that is why I like Asian women. I knew I was a socially inept ugly middle aged guy; but who knew that is why I find Asian women beautiful?

[Anonymous]

You have to be pretty desperate to date a Filipina, because they'll date ANYONE.
The only guys who date Filipinas are losers who can't get a normal girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Actually East/SE Asian in general. But I consider you "mixed" and you look more like an Indian girl. Girls from the rest of Asia are fine. Or Indian girl living in Malaysia or Singapore. But a guy dating/marrying a true Asian girl, that's just pathetic and desperate.

Indonesian is maybe the only acception.

[sarahemilyyy]

You can't distinguish true love... I know guys who date true Asian girls and they are above average...

What about dating a true caucasian /european girl?

Not all true Asian girls are the same

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not denying the love is true, but is that really the best they can do?

What about European girls? Europeans are the master race.

Any white guy that mates with an Asian girl is tainting their race.

[sarahemilyyy]

So Asian girls are inferior?

[sarahemilyyy]

Is that what you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

East and SE Asian ones, YES.

[sarahemilyyy]

No wonder anti Asian sentiments are rising in the west

[Opinion Owner]

I'm telling you though, you're not stereotypical Asian. Asians like you don't bother me, though Indian girls get shit on too.

They're not rising. They were already there, it's just now people have found an excuse to exercise their hatred. Most of these incidents are actually being perpetrated by other minorities. White people for the most part love Asians. True Asians.

I don't like this term "Asian", because Asia is too much of a diverse continent

[NoManTwo]

When I was a kid a buddy of mine was half Polish and half Japanese.

His older sister was the most beautiful I've ever seen.

If I was a couple of years older I would have dated her.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

don't play the race game

all you're doing is opening a can of worms

[kkirk4442]

I've seen attractive guys with Asian girls.

[Anonymous]

What you read is totally true. These girls are easy and will suck your dick dry for a green card and most white dudes who were rejected by the white bitches go for them no-ass, no-tits Asian piece of fuck-meat, while the white bitch is out there sucking off a big black cock. This is the true answer. But if you wanna hear a lie, then here is your answer " Oh, no honey, you read wrong. That is not true at all. We each have our preferences"

[sarahemilyyy]

lol not all Asian women want any green card. That's just a generalization. Not all Asian women have no tits.

[Opinion Owner]

90% for each category you are right 10% may not want the green card and may even have a non-flat ass or a boobs

[sarahemilyyy]

Clearly you've never been to asia.

[Opinion Owner]

I have been to most Asian countries due to my work but that's okay if you only want to read what YOU believe! Travel a little you'll see

[sarahemilyyy]

I don't need to travel I am currently spending most of my time in asia since I was born and have met all kinds of Asians thank you very much. I've been to urban, sub urban and rural areas to clarify. You have just made a general assumption. That's like saying that most Asian people are in poverty. Clearly you only have been seeing from the lens of a foreigner.

[sarahemilyyy]

"Most Asian countries", male sure you actually meant Asian countries not only east Asian countires.

[sarahemilyyy]

*make

[Opinion Owner]

Please remember... When we say "Asian" here in the US, we are referring to Orientals like Thai, Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, Etc. We are NOT referring to the occupants of the continent Asia like the Indians, or the Pakistanis, or Iranians, or Turks.

[sarahemilyyy]

Ever been to South east Asian countries? I think Americans consider them as Asians too.

[Opinion Owner]

No, most Americans do not. I have only been to the Philippines and to Indonesia

[sarahemilyyy]

Phillipines and Indonesia are south east Asian countries...

[sarahemilyyy]

And theu are counted as Asians according to Americans, but south east Asians can have various look. Some can be mistaken as latinas.

[berserk945]

I find Asian women attractive and I wouldn't say I'm ugly, maybe average or above average.

[Waldoe]

I really like Asian girls, am I ugly?

[Iron_Man]

I don’t think so I love Latina woman

[sarahemilyyy]

No i meant that guys who like Asian women are stereotyped as unattractive, rejected by white girls.

[Iron_Man]

Sorry my bad I thought your Latino and I’m not rejected by anybody

[Iron_Man]

I mean Latina

[Iron_Man]

But you’re cool on your Looks and your nice

[7771999]

It is somewhat true. Sadly

[sarahemilyyy]

Which part of it is true? That only ugly men go for Asian women or that Asian women are ugly?

[7771999]

Neither. But older White men find it easier to get women from Eastern Europe and South East Asia because they have a considerable amount of wealth for their age, and the places they go to.

Therefore, the White men who do this aren't always the most attractive (according to our White standard of attractiveness). Asian women (as well as Eastern European women) are known to be more submissive and generally nurturing. Compared to the overly independent Western Women.

[sarahemilyyy]

But i think, most of them opt for eastern european women for beauty. Also that they are nearer
I don't know..

[sarahemilyyy]

But people seem to have no problem when talking about eastern european women, and the generalisations tend to be for Asian girls...

[7771999]

I don't find that to be true tbh. Most of the pretty Asian women I see are either single or with Asian men.

I'm not trying to be mean by the way

[sarahemilyyy]

Well i must say, the generalisation is only true for interracial couples...

[sarahemilyyy]

It's okay I know that you're not mean 😊

[7771999]

> Well i must say, the generalisation is only true for interracial couples...

What generalisation? Sorry I'm dumb 🤣

[sarahemilyyy]

*generalization* can be denoted as a general assumption made by people on something without a further research. For example, you're a mexican, and I quickly assume that you're an illegal immigrant since I have been watching a lot of news reporting that a number of mexican are illegally smuggling in. But actually, you're not an illegal immigrant, and so does most Mexicans in my community and city. You judge people based on your knowledge, in which your knowledge is not enough and need more research before judging someone.

[sarahemilyyy]

So, the generalization that only unattracted white males are attracted to Asian women are only applied on WMAF, or in other word, white male/Asian female interracial couple, because you said that most Asian women you've met are either single or with Asian guys.

[sarahemilyyy]

You're not dumb don't worry 🤭

[7771999]

Nonono 😂🙈 I didn't ask what "generalisation" means. You're nice for taking the time to explain it anyhow 😊🙏🏻

But I meant what specific generalisation did you refer to (in terms of interracial couples) 🙈🙈🙈

[7771999]

> So, the generalization that only unattracted white males are attracted to Asian women are only applied on WMAF, or in other word, white male/Asian female interracial couple, because you said that most Asian women you've met are either single or with Asian guys.

Oh yeah. You're right 😅

[sarahemilyyy]

Hehe I see... 🙈🙈This is embarrassing for me hehe..

What i meant is that the generalization on white males who have the tendency to be attracted to Asian females... Of course only apply to interracial couple, in this case, a couple of a white male and an Asian woman... Because that's what these men want to achieve with Asian women.

Also, it is more common for people to be attracted to their own race but this isn't the case anymore in most western cities as diversity has become a thing that flourishes over time...

And so, white male/Asian female couple is the most common interracial couple in US. And so that's why people come up with this generalization

[sarahemilyyy]

I hope I've made it clear to you :)

[7771999]

You did. Sorry for taking your time 😅🙏🏻

Have a good day 👏🏻

[sarahemilyyy]

You too 😊

[Bklynbadboy12]

You really have a thing for Caucasian guys huh

[sarahemilyyy]

I have been doing a bit of research regarding common interracial couples... And also there are many generalizations about Asian women. I've never seen any caucasian in my entire real life so yeah 🙈🙈

[Anonymous]

I love Asian girls.
They really beautiful ❤

[Opinion Owner]

I am fan of her now

http://imgur.com/a/TfbbQOP

[sarahemilyyy]

Haha that's me 🙈

[Opinion Owner]

I am your fan lol
Are you any celebrity?

[sarahemilyyy]

Nooo

[Opinion Owner]

I am sorry i call you fake yesterday.
Please forgive me

[sarahemilyyy]

It's okay i forgive u :)

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks lol
But can I see your feet?
Seriously can't believe you not applying nail paints

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks lol for forgiving me.
Next time if i visit Malaysia or Indonesia will message you haha

[sarahemilyyy]

Hehe

[Opinion Owner]

By the way do you have any boyfriend?

[sarahemilyyy]

No.. But I'm not looking for one

[Opinion Owner]

And dog or any pet?
Do you have any pet?

[sarahemilyyy]

I only have cats. Nine cats. 6 are newborns and two are adult cats, another one is a teen cat.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow lol
Adopt me as your 10th pet 😂 😂🐶🐶🐶

[sarahemilyyy]

Hahahahahhaha

[Opinion Owner]

Haha 😂 😂
at least you smile lol
I will be ready to be your cat your dog anything for your smile.

[Opinion Owner]

You seriously have 9 cats and no dog?
Who guard you?

[sarahemilyyy]

I have no dog. Guard? Oh, every houses in malaysia has an extra wall-high locked gate covering the front of the house which acts as a guard.

[Opinion Owner]

But outside home..
You must adopt me i will protect you

[sarahemilyyy]

🙈🤭 You're very funny

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah 😂 😂
I will be your guard

[Opinion Owner]

In return you can give me cookies and apple for eat haha.
I am not expensive lol

[sarahemilyyy]

Awhh so cute 🙈 what kind of guard eats only cookies and apples for rewards? You will have no energy to guard me the next day 😂😂😂 eat more rice, I'll cook 😊🤭

[Opinion Owner]

Awwww rice 😍
You really kind Princess

[sarahemilyyy]

You like rice? I'll cook with turmeric or curry gravies hehe also with fried grinded paddy chillies 😋😋

[sarahemilyyy]

You will like them

[Opinion Owner]

I love rice lol
My job confirmed 😂 😂 for your guard?

[Opinion Owner]

I read other guy comment asking for your feet picture lol..
I will guard you against all who stare your feet 😂 😂

[sarahemilyyy]

Wait a minute.. That wasn't you?

[Opinion Owner]

I asked your feet picture yesterday but today some other guy also asking for your feet pics

[sarahemilyyy]

Hmmm from which question?

[Opinion Owner]

This one

What do you think of these kind of dresses? ↗

[Opinion Owner]

Whoa you also know martial arts?
You don't need any guard my job is in danger lol

[sarahemilyyy]

How do you know that?

[Opinion Owner]

I am not spying you just read your current comment

[sarahemilyyy]

Hahaha ok

[Opinion Owner]

But why many guys asking for your feet picture 😂 😂?

[Opinion Owner]

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/user/sarahemilyyy

Your recent comment

[sarahemilyyy]

Haha i don't is know... Is this some kind of movement?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they like your feet 😂 😂
But they don't know you know martial arts 😂 😂

[Opinion Owner]

I want to confess something.
Promise you will not be angry or punish me

[sarahemilyyy]

Okay sure

[Opinion Owner]

That's was me only asking for feet picture on other question..
Sorry i lied to you

[Opinion Owner]

harap anda tidak akan menghukum saya dan memukul saya

[sarahemilyyy]

Haha actually i knew that already 🙈🙈

[sarahemilyyy]

It's so obvious

[Opinion Owner]

You already knew?
How lol

[Opinion Owner]

Liking feet of martial art girl 😂 😂
Your even single kick hospitalise me

[Opinion Owner]

Last question i will never bother you again.
What you think about feet fetish? Guy who like your feet kiss them lick them and like to give you foot rubs and massage.

[abhi75757]

What ever you pick up but its not easy to approach