Why do people think that only unattractive caucasian guys are attracted to Asian women?

Question

I was on urban dictionary and reddit where I frequently hear people say that:

"the only guys who go for Asian girls (apart from Asian guys) are unattractive caucasian guys who are rejected from white females"

"they pick Asian girls because they are the easiest"

"white guys who don't have social skills and insecure, usually middle age, go to Thailand and Phillipines for young Asian girls"

"only awkward, weak and (again), unattractive, romantically hopeless white guys go for Asian girls."

"only ugly males date Asian girls"

Are Asian girls/women that ugly?
Is it wrong that guys have preference?
Like how many guys prefer slavic/hispanic girls cause they're hot.
What's with Asian girls?

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I think that some people think that Asian women are unattractive because Asian women, on average, have smaller boobs than other ethnicities. That belief is based on the assumption that all men prefer big boobs, and that assumption is absolutely false.

"Are Asian girls/women that ugly?" No. Obviously, they are different from Caucasian women, but Asian women can be very beautiful. Many of them have delicate features, captivating faces, and slender or athletic bodies.

"Is it wrong that guys have preference?" No. Preferences are not something that we choose for ourselves. I prefer petite women but there was never a time when I made a conscious decision to prefer petite women. I cannot fault someone for a preference that they did not consciously choose.

"Like how many guys prefer Slavic/Hispanic girls cause they're hot?" I have dated several Eastern European women as well as a few Hispanic women. Yes, they can be quite beautiful, also, but I tend to avoid Hispanic women because, in my experiences, they were overly-dramatic and histrionic.

"What's with Asian girls?" I am dating a Chinese girl now and I'm quite happy with her. I don't think that she is perfect but I do think she is a great match for me.

soe11 · Accepted Answer

Partially agree with you, true background and pictures are different according my knowledge and observations;
1. In Europe, America and most western countries braking married are in higher numbers, family dismantling and unfairness in between partners as no one willing to submission one another, individualism go beyond and
egoism.
2. Asian (SEAN) are mor flexibility true love and loyalty, maintaing family velue.
3. Appealing and attractive light body.
4. Never shy to wear anything anywhere.
5. Faith and creed are not priority.
There are many more...
Many Caucasian Yong guys marrying to Asian girls too.

Emii_Urashima · Accepted Answer

I have spent some time in the USA, visiting family and friends there, so I know where this is coming from. The hate comes from overweight, mostly caucasian women who are so jealous because we are not fat, shapeless blobs and we get a lot of attention from their boyfriends. I remember one time, I was at Disney world with my sister and two cousins and I noticed that several guys were checking us out. The girls they were with gave us angry looks and each one probably weighed twice what I do. In my experience in America, the caucasian guys who have shown interest in me were all good looking.

Aurora1010 · Accepted Answer

Don't pay so much attention to them, there are many assholes in the internet. Some of the comments they make about latinas is that we're fat, slutty, or crazy and annoying.
Of course the people who make such comments are assholes who give themselves too much credit and probably never even had a chance with a beautiful latina or Asian girl.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Dunno, I’ve dated an Asian woman in the past (Taiwan). We got a long and she was nice.

It’s not like they’re unattractive it’s just a stereotype white men go after Asian women because they assume she’s stable and submissive. It’s a stereotype in reverse that beyond their own race or other Asians that white guys will be the most accepted if they step outside of their culture too much.

It’s a weird situation nonetheless, you’re attractive to someone and you should do whatever makes you feel happy

Red_Arrow · Answer

Some Asian women are ugly just like some women of any are are ugly. But most that I have met are beautiful because they take great care of themselves. Slender, good makeup but not too much, well dressed. I think the comments that you have heard that are bad comes from racists.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Most of the women I found to be extremely gorgeous were Asian cosplay models, not all, but most (granted my interest in cosplay probably has something to do with that since it's super popular in places like Japan)

I'm told by various women (even the ones who previouslybdumped me or cheated on me) that I'm hot af via the "cute" variety of that.

I do have a cute styled face, I'm also pretty big down there, I attracted a lot of female attention growing up, less so now that I'm home all day.

Granted ugly Asians exist, but thats true for any race, and what is or isn't ugly often tends to be VERY subjective. For example my one friend only likes red heads, and I'm partial to brunettes.

Either way I can confirm the claim they made is a lie.

Andres77 · Answer

The problem is with the people that are saying that bullshit.
It's not true.
And those are not good sources of information.
Half truths and skewed perspectives.
Just like here.
Consider the source.
Acting on info you get online without confirming it's veracity is like judging someone completely by watching an edited video on the news.
Foolish

Anonymous · Answer

It's not true.
Asian women are as beautiful as any other type. All kinds of white men can definitely find them very attractive.
I'm sure there are ugly white guys who get rejected by white girls so they try every other kind, but that's doesn't mean that some hot white men don't marry Asian women, they definitely do.
I'm a bit above average looking and I've dated both Caucasian and Asian women.

NotARobberYet · Answer

This is just something that butthurt white women and guys who hate Asian people would say, they get offended when they see hot white guys being happy with hot Asian girls, whereas they have unhappy and mediocre lives.

Ripper_E · Answer

I've only really known 6 or so Asian women in my entire life. Only one I did not find attractive.
People cannot control what they are attracted to. A preference may be that they happen to be drawn more to one thing, not that they value it more than another.
I'm Hispanic/Latino. I could care less what a woman's race/ethnicity is. Women all around the world are beautiful.
You tell me what's with Asian girls.

Anonymous · Answer

When I worke at Northrop and I used to bartend.
White men in their 50s told me about "massage parlors" and about flying to Thailand.

Also one of my good white friends he's dating another friend of mines who's straight from China.

My friend not unattractive no homo.

It's a stereotype that kinda true. White guys date white girls and Asians. Then everybody else lol.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I guess they think that the guys who could land a white girl would rather do that. Truthfully, I have no complaints about the Asian women I've dated. It was all about attitude for me. I'd like to think I'm a decent looking guy.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Most don't. You'll see the odd comment like that, of course; there ARE exceptions. But those are mostly either racists, or women/girls who've lost boyfriends to Asian women and are bitter about it.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Its because the people saying these things are jealous, entitled racists

EssenceOfLight · Answer

When I see a white boy with an Asian girl, this guy is never trash, maybe most of them aren't the top 20% of boys but at least dating material. I suppose those comments are directed towards white men as abusers of Asian girls while depicting Asian women as desperate to get into more prosperous country.
However it doesn't meet my personal observation of reality. I don't think girls from Japan or south Korea or China will date someone for a visa.

slatyb · Answer

Ridiculous. I know plenty of beautiful mixed couples.

ohshee · Answer

Well I'm very attracted to Asian girls and I hope that I'm attractive

Anonymous · Answer

I think it might be because of the popularity of neckbeard stories, where antisocial men r obsessed with Asian women, fetishizing them. Never heard or seen anything like u have described

cheapshotbob · Answer

being ugly and also fat im offended by this this is my rebuttal XD

bowenw · Answer

I have never heard this. From my observations Asian women seem to prefer Asian men.

Anonymous · Answer

Hmm, I never realized that is why I like Asian women. I knew I was a socially inept ugly middle aged guy; but who knew that is why I find Asian women beautiful?

Smegskull · Answer

Because calling those guys unattractive is easier than admitting they aren't interested in you.

Anonymous · Answer

You have to be pretty desperate to date a Filipina, because they'll date ANYONE. The only guys who date Filipinas are losers who can't get a normal girl.

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