Why do girls like to be chased?

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why can't girls chase guys lol does the world have to be that hard?

Heybreezybree · Accepted Answer

I like to be chased oh my god please chase me! The guy i like right now is super shy and said he's not a chaser, even though his friends say he likes me, but he won't doing anything about it and it drives me crazy! I like a guy who chases me because it makes me feel special, wanted and desired! I like when a guy is confident and just goes for it especially since I'm very timid. it eases my anxiety and makes me more comfortable around him when he shows he wants me. It makes me want him more to be honest, only if I'm interested tho. Nothing is more annoying than being chased by a guy you don't want and who you showed on many occasions that you're uninterested. I think girls can be chasers too which is fine , in fact more girls should do it and get out of this mindset that men HAVE to make the first move. but don't expect that from me tho lol I'm just way to shy for that! But if I was more outgoing I would definitely chase more!

Nodachi · Accepted Answer

I don't really. Unless it's someone I'm already involved with and I'm just playing around by teasing or whatever. A new relationship I wouldn't have time to put up with that rubbish.

It's more practical for the one who has feelings first to make the move. Or you're just going to end up sacrifice too much of yourself and your emotional energy waiting on someone else.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

I chased guys (or used to, before I caught my boyfriend).
Anywho.. I think the root of the issue with you is lack of confidence or something, if you think that merely approaching and starting a conversation with someone who happens to be female is troublesome enough that you feel it justifies making such a post.

Cloudy25 · Accepted Answer

Because they crave the attention and don't realize it's a give and take thing.

Chico_brah · Accepted Answer

Because women like aggressive men who have that boldness to take initiative in regards to persueing them. That's a strong indication that a man is a go-getter.

Think about this for a second... Rejection fucking sucks right? Most guys stay in the shadows because they don't want to embarass themselves. It's safer that way and there is no risk. A man that says fuck that and goes for it says that he doesn't let things hold him back in his life from what he wants. He has fucking balls because he didn't let fear hold him back.

Despite all of that, it makes women feel feminine due to our biological nature and gender roles from a societal standpoint.

Gonetowardthewind · Accepted Answer

Nah I'll never chase a woman. She's giving off cues that she isn't interested or says something along the lines of being interested even though she is interested is enough for me to stop trying to date her. She indirectly said no, and I honor that no, even though they are interested. knowing women (people in general) a harassment charge is very easy to obtain for a guy. So if She doesn't express direct interest as me, then I'll leave her alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay i'm not going to answer with the most shallow one as in "women like to feel desired" because hey, guys like to feel desired and wanted too. But we are force fed the idea since we're little girls that if a guy truly likes you and wants you then he should chase. He should go after you to have you. This idea is also embedded in mass media and in children's cartoons for instance. Prince charming who fights dragons and climbs towers and all just to save his princess and have her for a lifetime. We watch these cartoons as little girls and romantize it and think, wow. I deserve a guy like that.
So yeah back to your quesion, this could somehow answer why women like to be chased.

Also, we're told that girls who go after guys seem easy and needy and unattractive. This sort of plays a fear factor that we tend to stay away from chasing guys so we won't be labeled as desperate.

rjroy3 · Answer

Girls wanna go up. Show you're that guy and a girl will chase. If she's not chasing at least some then she doesn't quite see you like that yet. That's why they say, "Don't pursue. Attract". "Be so good you can't be ignored" and so on.

Rachel_is_gay · Answer

Girls like to be chased because that is what makes them feel sexy and desirable. And in the reality, girls do chase guys.

Asterling · Answer

for me i will just go with whatever. It hurts though when you chase a guy but it doesn't end well

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

It just feels good, makes you feel like... well like a woman. I mean I have approached and pursued guys before but it tends to freak them out after a while. But honestly I'm attracted to men who have that go-getter mentality.

LolaB13 · Answer

I've been bold and asked guys out. Nothing but rejections and bullshit excuses. Got tired of it real quick so I stopped.

Däumeline · Answer

I could ask it back at you. Why would you want to be chased? It's the exact same reason why girls like to be chased. You feel desired, and that emotion is like a drug.

MissMinaaaa · Answer

It's like asking someone, "Why do you like to feel wanted?" Everybody wants to feel wanted, it gives them a reason to be happy.

Anonymous · Answer

because sometimes girls have trouble picking out the effboys from the good guys which really sucks

NaultD · Answer

Chasing is a weaker position in the game but can control things on there terms.

Anonymous · Answer

The thing is because guys think the girls that chase are like crazy and clingy and are thought of as easy and being laid back in the situation makes a guy respect you

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I don't like being chased because no one I was interested in ever chased me. So for me chasing means me running away.

milkyway777 · Answer

So we are sure with the guys feelings towards us. That we are really wanted and accepted. Most girls have trust issue with men.

Suchismita · Answer

It makes them feel wanted and special... 😂😂

Bandit74 · Answer

They do chase guys, but only the really hot ones.

dede8009 · Answer

It makes the girl feel like you actually care about her

Daddys123 · Answer

It makes them feel desirable because of the attention you give them

lolace · Answer

Bc guys doesn't like like to be chased

JohnDoe9026 · Answer

theyre lazy and entitled.

Lumberman53 · Answer

They want to test a guy's interest

lord_chilled · Answer

Instinct. Nature. Genes. Whatever

datgirl · Answer

I love it. It's so sexy and fun

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes girls like to chase as well.

almadafie · Answer

they do chase guys, it's all foreplay

Anonymous · Answer

because it sexes their egos up.

Anonymous · Answer

even i am a girl i don't know that lol

Anonymous · Answer

That's their nature

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